Friday, May 15, 2009


We don't know the heart of your spouse.

The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked:
who can know it.- Jeremiah 17:9

We have been praying for lost loved ones in

The most current post from "Scriptures to Pray for Lost Loved Ones" will be in this site, and the previous one will be deleted, keeping only one post at a time.

The purpose of this blog is to pray for the many that need to refresh with the water of God’s Word and be strengthened.

We will also only be putting the most recent post in this site.

Praying with you for your marriage, hoping in God His goodness will lead
your spouse to repentance and the one that went astray will turn their heart
toward you and home.

From the ends of the earth I call to you, I call as my heart grows faint; lead me to the rock that is higher than I. - Psalm 61:2
Wherefore he is able also to save them to the uttermost that come unto God by him, seeing he ever liveth to make intercession for them.
- Hebrews 7:25

Is your husband or wife cheating on you? Pray! Nothing is impossible with God. He can save your marriage because God hears and will answer prayers against an adulterous affair.

Psalm 121:
1 I will lift up my eyes to the hills—
From whence comes my help?
2 My help comes from the LORD,
Who made heaven and earth.


"Prayer House of Two or Three" is a prayer blog and has been designed as a special prayer ministry for those affected by adultery.

Matthew 18:
19Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven.
20For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.

James 5:16
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.


Prayer House will post your prayer petitions before God's Throne of grace for help for your need. If you agree with the prayers entered, read them out loud and seal it, for example, with an "Amen" as an agreement of two or three before God in Jesus Name.










always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.
-Ephesians 5:20




Lord, you know I need a brand new touch, my strength from yesterday is gone
But if You'll give me, Lord, another touch, I'll have the strength to carry

I thought the sun had come to stay, but all too soon it went away
And in it's place the storm clouds came, and with the clouds there came the

It rained so hard and oh, so long, beneath the storm I felt a calm
It was Your touch that brought me through it all,
without Your help I'd surely fall

But it matters not what comes my way, Lord,
if you'll just touch me new each day
Your loving touch drives all my fears away, close by Your side I want to

Lord, You know how weak I really am, oh, even better than myself
But with Your help I know I really can, make it through the darkest night
Everything's gonna be all right!

Lord, You know I need a brand new touch, my strength from yesterday is gone
But if You'll give me, Lord, just one more touch, I'll have the strength to
carry on

Also, send us your praise reports of answered prayer to encourage others that God is the answer!


2 Corinthians 4

8 We are hard pressed on every side,
BUT not crushed;
BUT not in despair;
9 persecuted,
BUT not abandoned;
struck down,
BUT not destroyed...


Father, we praise You, we worship You, we love You Who first loved us. We thank You for our blessed Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. We thank You that You welcome us to come BOLDLY before Your presence. Father, we pray that hurting spouses be encouraged that You are on their side, Jesus is on their side, all the host of heaven and "cloud of witnesses" are on their side: You are against adultery and it is Your will to heal each spouse and their marriage. A broken and a contrite spirit, and the one that repents You will not reject. You love and care for each spouse. Help them to come to You and trust You for forgiveness and restoration of their soul and their marriage. Thank You, Father, in Jesus Name, Amen.


In order for us to pray effectively, we need to know God's will concerning marriage and adultery. He lets us know His will in His Word, the Bible.

Isaiah 55:11
So shall my word be that goeth forth out of my mouth: it shall not return unto me void, but it shall accomplish that which I please, and it shall prosper in the thing whereto I sent it.

1 John 5:14
And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us:

Malachi 2:15
Didn't the LORD make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And
what does he want? Godly children from your union. So guard your heart; remain
loyal to the wife of your youth.
Exodus 20:14
Thou shalt not commit adultery.

Proverbs 6:32
But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

Proverbs 6:
23For the commandment is a lamp; and the law is light; and reproofs of instruction are the way of life:
24To keep thee from the evil woman, from the flattery of the tongue of a strange woman.
25Lust not after her beauty in thine heart; neither let her take thee with her eyelids.
26For by means of a whorish woman a man is brought to a piece of bread: and the adultress will hunt for the precious life.
27Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burned?
28Can one go upon hot coals, and his feet not be burned?
29So he that goeth in to his neighbour's wife; whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent.

Galatians 5:
19Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness,
20Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies,
21Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20
18Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
19What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?
20For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.


Matthew 19:6
Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Proverbs 5:18
Let thy fountain be blessed: and rejoice with the wife of thy youth.

Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;


Job 5:17
Behold, happy is the man whom God correcteth: therefore despise not thou the chastening of the Almighty.

Concerning the woman taken in adultery -

John 8:
10When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
11She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.


Mark 11:25
And when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have ought against any: that your Father also which is in heaven may forgive you your trespasses.

Matthew 5:44
But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;


Psalm 37:7
Rest in the LORD, and wait patiently for him: fret not thyself because of him who prospereth in his way, because of the man who bringeth wicked devices to pass

Psalm 130:5
I wait for the LORD, my soul doth wait, and in his word do I hope.

Romans 12:12
Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer;


Philippians 4:6
Be careful for nothing; but in every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.

Colossians 1:9
For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding;

1 Thessalonians 5:17
Pray without ceasing.

1 Timothy 2:1
I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men;

1 Timothy 2:8
I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.

James 5:16
Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.

Luke 18:1
And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint;


Hebrews 4:16
Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.

Matthew 21:22
And all things, whatsoever ye shall ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive.

John 17:20
Neither pray I for these alone, but for them also which shall believe on me through their word;


1 Corinthians 13:
4Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,
5Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;
6Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;
7Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.
8Charity never faileth

Matthew 5:7
Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.


2 Timothy 1:12
For the which cause I also suffer these things: nevertheless I am not ashamed: for I know whom I have believed, and am persuaded that he is able to keep that which I have committed unto him against that day.

Psalm 5:2
Hearken unto the voice of my cry, my King, and my God: for unto thee will I pray.

Psalm 6:9
The LORD hath heard my supplication; the LORD will receive my prayer.

Psalm 66:20
Blessed be God, which hath not turned away my prayer, nor his mercy from me.


At Prayer House of Two or Three, we are gap finders, not fault finders. Allow us to intercede for you in prayer for your unfaithful spouse as we pray under our great High Priest, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, who ever lives to make intercession for us.

1 Thessalonians 5:25
Brethren, pray for us.


Psalm 147:3
He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.

Luke 4:18
The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because he hath anointed me to preach the gospel to the poor; he hath sent me to heal the brokenhearted, to preach deliverance to the captives, and recovering of sight to the blind, to set at liberty them that are bruised...

So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let
man not separate. - Matthew 19:6

Marriage Covenant

I love you, and I know that God has ordained this love. Because of this I desire to be your husband. Together we will be vessels for His service in accordance with His plan, so that in all areas of our life Christ will have the pre-eminence. Through the pressures of the present and the uncertainties of the future, I promise to be faithful to you. I promise to love, guide, and protect you as Christ does His Church, and as long as we both are alive. According to Ephesians 5 and with His enabling power, I promise to endeavor to show to you the same kind of love as Christ showed the Church when He died for her, and to love you as a part of myself because in His sight we shall be one.

I love you, and I know that you love me. Because of this I desire to be your wife. For years I have prayed that God would lead me to His choice and I am confident that His will is being fulfilled Through the pressures of the present and the uncertainties of the future I promise to be faithful to you. I will love, serve, and obey you as long as we both are alive. Christ told us that the wife must submit herself unto her own husband as unto the Lord. For as Christ is Head of His Church so is the husband head of his wife. I submit myself to you.

"Seasoned" Couple:

These words from a wife to her husband, a senior couple that love the LORD:
"Sweetheart, I have to say again how grateful I am to have you in my life, and to know that you love me as I do you. You are a man of intgrity and wisdom; and I thank God for you. Thank you for the beautiful Valentine Dinner prepared by you on last evening, My favorite Grilled Salmon and ettofee over rice, the beautiful spinich and strawberry salad, wine and chocolate covered strawberries topped off by a beautiful vase of flowers and a card, was simply wonderful. To say it was delicious, is simply an understatement."

Rejoicing in hope; patient in tribulation; continuing instant in prayer; -Romans 12:12

Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken. - Ecclesiastes 4:12




...His compassions fail not. They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.
-Lamentations 3:22-23

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If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take them into your house or welcome them. - 2 John 1:10


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Rosie said...

If you've been through an experience related to this topic, I invite you to share your story with others. I would like to join in prayer with you and this ministry with all who are struggling in marriage for whatever reason.

Let’s all pray for each other that the Holy Spirit touches the hearts of our loved ones and brings them back into a godly spirit and into a willingness to be totally committed to the vows that they took. I am trusting in God for restoration as I believe that is the Word He has spoken over our marriage.

May God be with you all,


F-Hall said...

Hello Rosie,

I would like to join in prayer with you.

My husband is in an adulterous affair. Before I started to pray about it, I took things into my own hands, but I can tell you that this made the situation 10 times worse.

I decided to leave my husband, as he has chosen not to stop the affair, and he didn't seem to have any intentions of leaving our home. I made all the plans to move out when he was away. But God had a different plan. A week before he went away, I found out I was pregnant. I really cried and started to seek God's face, I was angry, after 5 years of marriage and never getting pregnant, why would God choose for me to get pregnant when I had my own plans to leave! Then the Lord gave me the scripture Proverbs 19:21 Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails. (NIV)

This was my breaking point where I turned to the Lord and started to seek his will in my life and marriage. God gave me a word about my husband, he told me he would be saved and he has a work for him to do. I received confirmation of his word a few days later. So I have been praying for marriage restoration from that time until now. My situation is quite complicated, but he still lives at home. He visits the other women when he is out of the country, which is at least once or twice a year.

I have seen where the Lord is working on him and there are good changes. But I am waiting on the Lord to give him total true deliverance from this stronghold in his life.

With that being said, I chose to join you on this mission of praying for marriage restorations. I know that marriages are being attacked everyday

Anonymous said...

Father, I thank you for our sister in the Lord, F-Hall, whom You have lead to join us in this Prayer House of Two or Three. Your Word says the person who waters others, waters oneself.

F-Hall is enduring the lamentable experience of infidelity. But she has the blessing of having a meaningful, personal relationship with You. You comfort her and give her peace that passes all understanding as well as strength and direction. Most importantly, you give her hope for a good expected end. Help her, Lord, to continue to keep her eyes fixed on You. You reward those that diligently seek you.

She is aware that it’s the enemy that has attacked her marriage and he has used yielding vessels. Your banner of love over F-Hall’s home has taken a beating--there has been fire and thick smoke and at times our sister couldn’t see--but this banner is still standing because Your love knows no defeat.

The devil is a counterfeiter and has deceived our sister’s husband but, Father, just a little while longer and You will come. She doesn’t how You are working, but knows You are. All she can see from her natural vintage is snarls and knots and unpleasant loose ends that make no sense. But from above where You reign, we believe it is the most beautiful tapestry!

Lord you said that a sister or brother is not obligated to stay in a marriage where adultery has been committed. So she made some plans until she heard Your voice behind her giving her other instruction. Our perceptions can be distorted when have been seriously injured mentally and emotionally.

We are thankful that Jesus our Lord and Savior understands how rejection and abandonment feels. And he also knows how to help us escape from falling right into the devil’s trap with his evil devices of helplessness and hopelessness; also bitterness and hatred. But You are faithful that we will not be tried above what we are able.

Now You have blessed these parents with a child, and it was a sign to our sister that indeed Your purpose prevails!
You see beyond the here and now and we trust You because of Who You are. We stand in faith with our sister that her husband will be saved and, just like Saul, the scales will come off his eyes. And he will ask what You would have him to do.

And now Lord, in this Prayer House of Two or Three we are thanking you, and we bless Your holy Name. In obedience to Your Word, we mutually agree here on earth for the restoration of F-Hall’s marriage. We know we have asked according to Your will, and we know You hear us. and it shall be done here on earth as You have ordained from heaven. This couple that You have joined, according to Your commandment, let no one divide.

And now Lord we will not be moved by the circumstances now matter how dismal they may seem. We are moved by knowing in Whom we have believed. Jesus is able to keep that which we have committed unto him against that day. Merciful Savior, You have even encouraged our sister by the positive changes she’s already seen in her husband.

As for this other woman, we pity her and ask for her salvation.
The devil has used her to try to kill, steal and destroy this marriage.
But our Lord and Savior came to destroy the works of the devil.

WE DECLARE THAT JESUS IS LORD OF ALL TO YOUR GLORY, HEAVENLY FATHER. He reigns over our sister F-Hall’s enemies. Jesus is our very good Shepherd. He will lead this lovely married couple to find green pastures and be refreshed in still waters.

Thank You, Lord, we pray in Jesus Name, Amen.

afortney84 said...

Hi. I too am praying and trusting God to heal and restore my marriage. My husband left me and our 2 children about 9 months ago and soon after moved in with a girl from work. He is now planning on moving with her and soon marrying her. We are not divorced and I pray that God would stop all divorce proceedings and would turn both of their hearts back to Him. I pray that the Lord God would also turn my husband's heart back home to the wife of his youth and his children. I know that it is God's will for all marriages to be restored and I know that he will bless me in his timing with a restored marriage and a testimony to share with others. I just pray for peace and patience to wait on Him and Him alone. I rebuke to attack of the devil on my family and I pray for God's will to be done in our lives. God Bless all of you! You are in my prayers!

Rosie said...

Heavenly Father, holy is Your name. We bless the Name above all names,
Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.

Father, I pray the blood of your Son on the two-three-or-more that are
praying for afortney and for our families. Father, as intercessors
under our great high priest, the Lord Jesus, we ask for your
protection and deliverance from every hindrance and from all evil as
we agree together in prayer for afortney.

The enemy knows there is great grace and power when we are gathered in
the Name of the Lord Jesus and in agreement with Your Word and with
each other in prayer. You have taught us not to be ignorant of his
wicked devices and to be vigilant against his attacks. But You are
with us and You fight our battles. With You by our side, we do not
fear, we only believe in You.

Father, we declare first of all that Jesus is Lord of all to Your
glory. The Lord Jesus reigns over everything that concerns your
daughter, afortney.

Father, you formed this family and blessed it. Father, shelter the
children as they are going through this storm. No evil is supreme over
Your goodness, Father. Greater is He that is in our sister afortney
than he that is in the world. She will overcome this evil by Your
goodness working in her.

Father, I pray the fear of God on our sister’s husband. I pray for
godly fear and trembling on this strange woman. Send your message loud
and clear that they’re on very dangerous ground. It’s the heart of our
sister’s husband that we are praying for. The enemy came in through
his eyes and enticed him and he succumbed. But Father, Jesus is our
master deliverer. He is mighty to save. This husband shall return to
his wife and children from the land of the enemy. He will sing the
song of the redeemed!

Father in the Name of Jesus WE AGREE here on earth with our sister
afortney that You will stop all divorce proceedings and turn her
husband’s heart back to You. For You have said, ‘Son, give me your
heart.’ For it is against You that he has done this evil. May your
goodness lead him to repent.

Remove the blinders from him and let him behold how beautiful and
precious his wife and children are. Let him also behold how disgusting
the sin of adultery is. Let him see it through Your eyes, Father.

Rekindle the fire again on this married couple. Father, Your Holy
Spirit is a witness to our sister that You want their marriage
restored, and You want her to hold on to You. You are sustaining her
during this very trying time.

You will make all things beautiful in Your time. Help her to draw out
that patience that’s in her by Your Holy Spirit; also to hope &
believe; and to endure.

In the Name of Jesus we rebuke the lying spirits and command the
raging storm to cease. Peace be still in Jesus Name! Peace be to you,
sister afortney. We speak GRACE, GRACE, GRACE to this mountain and
command it to be removed in Jesus name.

Our Shepherd knows how to save and lead this married couple out of the
lion’s mouth. No giant is too big for our great God.

We don’t know why this happened Father, but we do know that the enemy
(not flesh and blood) has done this. But you will crush this enemy
under our sister’s feet. It will turn for a testimony that no one
touches the apple of Your eye, Father. Deliver these prisoners, Lord.
Shine Your light and let them hear Your voice.

Father, may Your love be shed abroad in this husband's heart by Your
Holy Spirit. May she forgive him in the person of Christ and love him
with compassion.

Abba Father, we appreciate her God speed on this ministry, and we
receive it in Your holy Name. May our sister be busy about Your
business and delight in You. You will give her the desires of her

Father we pray this in agreement with Your Word and with each other in
Jesus Name. Let it be done in afortney’s life according to Your will.

Thank You, Father.

Prayer house of two or three

Rosie said...

Intercessory prayer for T.B marriage
Father in Jesus Name, Prayer House of Two or Three agree here in earth
as touching Your Word and will in heaven concerning T.B’s marriage.
You know all the details concerning this marriage and what we do
know is You have blessed the marriage vows and You said whom
You have joined together, let no one divide. This couple is one flesh and
T.B. honors her vows before You Father.

We stand against any defaults concerning this marriage in the Name of
Jesus and we also stand on Romans 4:17. We declare Jesus is Lord of
all to Your glory and He reigns over every enemy that has confronted
T.B's marriage. This enemy is the size of a grasshopper next to TB
because You are with her. Help her faith, Lord. Faith is evidence,
faith is substance. She has her marriage deed, and You have blessed
it in Your Word that never changes. You never change. We believe
you will resolve any and all issues and she will see her petitions
Materialize because she believes You will do it; and we at Prayer House
of Two or Three stand as intercessors with her under our High Priest
Jesus Christ that’s interceding for her. Blessed is she that has not seen
but believes and trusts in You that you will solve these problems that
have attacked their marriage. Father, as she reads aloud the prayers
found in this blog taken from Your Word, may she stand on Your
promises and put them on. May her faith water Your Word. You Holy Spirit
will help her. You never turn anyone that comes to You through Your Son, Jesus Christ.

Help her to submit herself to You, resist the enemy and it WILL HAVE TO FLEE in Jesus Name! Your Light will dispel the darkness always. Greater are You in her than he that is in the world. Your love never fails and will prevail over any pseudo love or lust. May Your Son, the good shepherd Jesus Christ find and guide her husband and bring him home in right standing with You and with her. We pray in Jesus Name.

Thank You, Father.
Prayer house of two or three

Gem said...

When I found out about my husband's affair last year, he got mad at me for finding out before he could find a reason to end it. He then left me for the other woman because he said he needed to find out what he wanted. I was devastated. I first turned to alcohol. This would only cover up the hurt for a short period. I then started going to church and praying for my marriage to be restored. A liitle over a year after he left, my husband came back because he and her were constantly fighting. Things were great for a couple months but I recently discovered he has secretly been keeping in contact with her. I have confronted him and he got really mad at me for checking up on him. He said he would stop talking to her, but mow my trust has been violated again. I don't know what to believe. I think he is still talking to her, but he denies it and gets really mad at me. Please pray for me. I really don't know what to do now. I want to believe him, but it's so hard to. I really don't have proof that he is still talking to her, but I don't know.

Prayer House said...

You've done the right thing turning from alcohol to godly counsel in church. On utube listen to the song,
"While I am waiting." That's right you are going to keep on keeping on with God, and while you are waiting for your prayer answer to materialize, you will find strength and refuge, and even peace and joy in the Lord. If you are young at heart, find the radio station Air One. God blesses those that seek and follow godly counsel. These days, you can find affordable Bible dvds. You need to get your mind on God. Only He can help, and it's no trite cliche, He gives you peace THAT PASSES ALL UNDERSTANDING. He loves you with an everlasting love. He will never leave you nor forsake you. He is the lover of your soul. Put Him first, and with Jesus He'll give you all things that pertain to life and godliness and cause you to triumph in Him. As I listen to the accounts in the Bible, from the Old Testament, there was a lot of suffering, waiting... But trust God and listen to Him.

Let's pray:

Father, You said to the sinner, "Your sin shall find you out." Nobody wants to live a lie, what one doesn't know can hurt--sooner or later. Lord, on Air One radio station this comment was made: "Don't expect the world to love you back, they don't know how." One can love very selfishly, not knowing You, for You ARE love. The 50-50 give-and -take in a marriage is rarely the case. One marriage partner gives over and beyond their line of duty because the marriage vows are sacred and because of love. You gave Your utmost, and with joy the Lord Jesus endured the cross, knowing many would be saved, and this was the only way. So give our sister the grace and strength to endure her cross, that through her godly conduct she may win back her husband. Help her to persevere and love her husband as doing it unto You. Lord, sever this illicit relationship between her husband and this other woman. Bless this other woman with salvation and a man of her own. Rebuke the devil--that thief and destroyer. Restore this marriage. Rather than our sister trust her husband, help her to trust You. It's a heart matter, and we pray You will create in her husband a clean heart and a right spirit in him. Show her what to do. Father in the Name of Your Son, our Lord Jesus, we pray You will stir up the gift of love by Your holy Spirit in this husband to love his wife again. Lord, there is no excuse for adultery, so it isn't anything our sister has or hasn't done. May she know she is loved and is precious treasure to You. Help her to wait on You, and may she be of a meek and quiet spirit which is precious in Your sight. Allow her husband to open his eyes and see how valuable and beautiful his wife is from within and without. Jesus is Lord. This prayer request father is agreed upon by two or three, and according to Your Word, it is done on earth as it is in heaven. In Jesus Name.

Maureen said...

Please pray for my husband to stop his arrogant involvement with other women and his contemptuous treatment of me. Restortion of our marriage.

Prayer House said...

Abba Father, in Jesus Name, we at Prayer House of Two or Three agree with Maureen in prayer for her husband.

Father, give Maureen spiritual insight as she reads the Scriptures that pertain to her situation. Help her to see the root of the problem and that what she sees are symptoms of that root problem.

We pray for her husband’s salvation; and if he has received Jesus as his personal savior in the past, he is now being rebellious and prideful, and we pray You will get his attention, that he will heed as Your Holy Spirit ministers to him. You will know who to send to him to talk to him, and let him see that it is You communicating with him.

Father, sever from Maureen’s husband relationships that are harmful to his soul and to his marriage. If it is other women, or a particular woman right now, sever this relationship from his mind, his soul, his heart, his body, his wallet. Lord, I pray Maureen and her husband will see the dvd ,

and that it will minister to them. A husband ought to respect his wife and treat her gently and lovingly, and be thankful for her. In this movie, neither the husband or the wife had a personal relationship with You through Your Son, the Lord Jesus.

LORD, bind Maureen and her husband in Your love that knows no defeat. Write Your Word, in Maureen’s heart and in her husband's, and may she trust You that her husband will also come back to right standing with You and with her. Thank You, Lord, in Jesus Name, we believe it’s done.


4Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

5Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

6Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;

7Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

8Charity never faileth: …

jean said...

My spouse is also unfaithful. His affairs are not affairs of the heart. He is addicted to internet porn. He meets women for casual sex. Usually only one time. But many, many women. He has also been convicted of a crime due to his addiction.

Please pray that the devil will lose his hold on him.

Please pray for strength for the family while he is in prison.

Please pray that the marriage can be healed.

Please pray that I can give it up to God without trying to fix it myself.

Today I am spending the day in fasting and prayer along with my bible study partner. Please bless this time.

Prayer House said...

We are grateful to be Your children, and Jesus taught us to address You as
MY FATHER which art in heaven. The LORD Jesus also said if two or three agree here on earth, it shall be done in heaven.

FATHER, we are at least two or three interceding for Jean and her husband. They need Your help, LORD. We know we are asking Your will in that You are not wanting any to perish but come to godly repentance.

May Jean keep in mind that for this You sent Your Son, to save Your people from sin. We believe the LORD Jesus, our good Shepherd is not going to come empty handed, He will bring Jean’s husband in His strong arms into Your flock and to his wife and family safe and sound. JEANS’S HUSBAND: BEHOLD THE LAMB OF GOD WHICH TAKES AWAY THE SIN OF THE WORLD.

We pray for Jean’s husband, that Your anointing will break the yoke of bondage to porn, lust in women, and drugs. LORD, whom You send to Jean’s husband to preach to him Jesus is the right minister. Prepare Jean’s husband heart, let him be desperate for You in a dry and thirsty land where the only water that satisfies is You. You said the least in Your kingdom was greater than John the Baptist, and greater is He that is in Your children than he that is in the world. May whom you send to Jean’s husband find grace and favor in his eyes and may you prepare his heart to receive Your word, and open his eyes and his ears to You. May Your Holy Spirit lead him.

Also heal Jean of the wounds inflicted by the one that came to kill, steal, and destroy. May she always have her believer’s guard up and remember that her enemy is not flesh and blood. May she not aid the devil and be his advocate, but may she rather show her husband mercy and overcome evil with good. Your grace is sufficient. You are her strength and shield. Let her always keep in mind that as Your daughter, You are always with her no matter how she feels. Let her know this is an opportunity for her to testify to her family the right TOUGH love according to 1 Cor. 13. In You we live and move and have our being; it is You that works in Your children to want to do your will.

Free Jean’s husband from prison, and from the flesh, the world, and the devil. Heal this marriage, FATHER, we pray and thank You in Jesus Name.

BMCG said...

please prayer for my husband who has left the childreen and i. He has transformed from a true loving and trustfull husband and father to one that is deceiptfull,hiddeeen,and lying.He has denied that he is having an affair but we have proof otherwise that he did and is still in contact with this person.I love my husband dearly and respect my marriage vows and the blessing we received when we wed.please help, we are broken hearted,depressed and feel alone.please ask abba father to intervene and show my husband the wrong he has done,open is heart,also that this other person involved realise that she is commiting a sin and breaking a family unit their eyes dear god and keep us strong.Thanking you BMCG

Prayer House said...

Father, You can turn the heart of the king, and it is no problem for you to turn the heart of BMCG’s husband’s toward home. Home is where the heart is. We pray he misses being with his wife and children and the and joy of a godly marriage. There is no true joy in a relationship that is defiled, only a false pleasure that will sooner or later come to its wits end.

We pray that this husband’s heart will not get callused and will feel guilt and repent of his wrong actions. It is against You that he is doing this, for you said that you will judge adulterers and fornicators . Let him be so uncomfortable in his sin that he will give it up.

We know the devil came to kill, steal, and destroy and he is using yielding parties. Sever this wrong relationship from BMCG husband’s heart, soul, mind, and body. Put the fear of God in him and this other woman that this is wrong before you.

Transform him, LORD, into the once loving and trustworthy husband and father he used to be. May Your goodness work in Him. Give this husband godly counselors and may Your truth make him free to hear and open his eyes to see You in the person of Jesus, our Lord and Savior who came to seek and find that his was lost.

BMCG is seeking you, she is knocking, she is asking. May she and her children continue to live for you and trust You will answer her heart’s cry. You will take care of them and see them through this. Help her to persevere and be patient while waiting. Fill her with Your Presence where there is fullness of joy and peace that passes all understanding. Heal their heart and bring them comfort and joy ineffable and full of glory! In Jesus Name.

Cyndi said...

Please pray for my husband. He is running from God. He is not saved and has moved out of the home and into the home of his lover.

I, too, feel that God has told me my husband will come home and be saved. I believe God will restore our marriage. We have 2 small children at home.

Please pray for us.

Prayer House said...

Greetings Cyndi, God blesses those that seek His counsel (Psalm 1). Aside from His Word, there isn’t much we have to hold on to. Prayer House recommends you read, meditate, and pray the Scriptures regarding lost loved ones, found in:

Let’s pray in agreement and it shall be done according to our faith. Faith comes by hearing, and hearing by God’s Word. Therefore, read the Scriptures ALOUD applicable to your situation. This will require some “homework.” But you can glean from the many Scriptures found in the website above or this one. Let’s believe our heavenly Father that it shall be done here on earth, as it is in heaven.

Heavenly Father, in Jesus Name, we come in agreement with Cyndi praying for her husband. LORD, there is no place he can run that You’re not there. The light and the darkness are the same to You for You are light. Let there be light in Cyndi’s husband, we pray.

We know there is no rest for the soul living in sin. LORD, break the bands of adultery. Set Cyndi’s husband free.

No doubt, You give her hope, You are the source of her faith that her husband will humbly repent and come home to his wife and two little children, for the Lord Jesus came to seek and find that which was lost. We believe he will be singing, “Amazing grace, how sweet the sound that saved a wretch like me. I once was lost but now am found, was blind, but now I see…”!

LORD, deliver Cyndi’s husband from fear and selfishness. Visit him with godly counselors. Let him see You everywhere he goes. Draw him close to you by the blood of Your Son. Stir the gift of Your love in Cyndi’s husband heart by Your Holy Spirit.

LORD we believe this husband is on his way back home because Your goodness is working in him and JESUS IS LORD! Thank You, in Jesus Name.

Godiva said...

Please pray for my husband and myself.I just discovered that he has been using the internet to contact women for casual sex. I am heartsick and my faith is shaken. This is a man that I was attracted to because of his strong Christian faith. I know that he is struggling with temptation constantly and I pray that you would lift him up and remove his burden.Please protect him and myself from STD's and help me to not turn away from him.

Prayer House said...

LORD it is You that work in us both to will and do Your good pleasure. Put the fear of the Lord in Laura’s husband and by Your Spirit write in his heart of flesh Your commandments : “You shall not commit adultery.” “Love the LORD thy God with all your heart, mind, soul, and strength AND love your neighbor as yourself.” “Draw water out of your OWN cistern, rejoice with your wife.” “ I will judge fornicators and adulterers.” “Remove that evil thing from your eyes. …”

Breathe Your resurrection power into our sister Laura and raise her up by Your glory. Send refreshing showers of blessing to her. Heal her broken heart, restore her soul.

Help Laura to see her husband more of a victim than as a culprit. Brake the chains that have taken hold of him with Your anointing. Set this captive free, LORD, in the mighty name of Jesus.

We plead the blood of the Lamb of God which takes away the sin of the world upon this couple. Wash, cleanse, heal, deliver them from the world’s deceases. Merciful healer protect them from all illness.

Thank You Father, that she and her husband know you, and we proclaim You are LORD of their marriage and You reign over all their difficulties,, and we trust in You that will give them victory. We praise You LORD, in Jesus Name. Amen.

Godiva said...

I just read the your posting and there are tears in my eyes and a power peace has come upon my heart. Your beautiful prayer is the first step for healing...My husband does not know that I am aware of his adultery and I am thinking of sending him this prayer to let him know that I know of his burden and I will stand beside him and we will come thru this with the Lords Grace. Thank you so much and please continue to prayer for us as I am praying for all those who are broken. I know God's love can heal us all!

eli said...

My husband and I have been separated for almost a year.. He started an affair as soon as he left our home.. We have 2 little girls together, 3 years old. Before he left, our marriage was very much on the rocks, and I must admit, that I myself was not a very good wife. Ive been reflecting on alot of things, and Ive been praying for the restoration of my marriage with my husband. Hes a good man and a great father.. Im very hurt by his affair and how he treated me this past year. I want my husband back home as an honest man and faithful to his family. I pray for a chance at my marriage.. Hes my soulmate and the love of my life.. I pray that I let go of alot of my resentment and anger. I sometimes dont know what to do.. continue fighting for my marriage or let it go.. accept that its over? I dont know.. All I know that I love this man more now than ever, considering what hes done to me.

Prayer House said...

LORD, Eli is seeking You for wise counsel concerning her marriage because You are the all knowing God and You are sovereign. You are their maker, you formed the marriage institution, and more specifically, you put this couple together and commanded that no one break this union, for they are one flesh.

This husband, being separated from his wife fell into temptation and committed adultery. Eli feels she had fault in him leaving. LORD, may Your goodness lead her husband to repentance, and we pray You stir Your love in their hearts by Your Spirit to love each other with agape love and to forgive each other and themselves.

This absence has made Eli’s heart fonder and she yearns for her husband, LORD. She is hurt by this illicit affair. LORD bring her husband back to her. You are merciful and You are mighty to restore what the enemy has stolen.

We stand in agreement with Eli that her marriage be restored. We are thankful to You that he is a good man and a good father, and his little girls and wife want him and need him. But they cannot go on living in strife and resentment. LORD, we give this cause to You to undertake and help this family.

We stand in agreement with Eli that her husband be honest and faithful to his family. Heal the hurt and the pain that Eli is suffering.

LORD breathe life into this married couple and bless them together as one. You will fight for them and Eli will hold her peace. Cause this marriage to triumph LORD, bring deliverance speedily. We ask it in Jesus name. Amen.

eli said...

Thank you so much, PRAYER HOUSE!! Your prayer has touched me and I am inspired to continue fighting for my marriage and I will continue placing all of my faith unto the LORD! Somedays I feel like throwing in the towel, and filing for divorce papers, and then I see how I feel for this man and I look at my little girls.. My heart wont let me quit, even when I really want to. Im thankful and blessed with so much in life!! GOD is AMAZING to me and my little girls everyday that goes by! Ive come a long way from when my husband left us, and I feel like a completely different woman since Ive grown a closer relationship with the LORD. Times dont get easier, but they get better. This experience has helped me VALUE my marriage and the man that my husband is. I use to take alot of things for granted.. I know that my husband, as an adult hes responsible for his own actions. I do also feel that I needed to take responsiblity of my actions nad how I was, even if I was not the one who left. This has broken me OPEN! and at the same token, Im so thankful that he left, because it helped me realize MANY things and it has made me a BETTER person. For I now know, GOD makes NO MISTAKES! When the LORD places my husband home again, I KNOW that my marriage will be better than EVER!!

Thank you, Eli

eli said...

how do you know to keep fighting for your marriage, when your husband shows no sign of returning home, even after one year? What if God is trying to let you know, that its done and that I need to move forward with my life. How long is too long? This has consummed me and his unfaithfulness has taken a toll on my spirit. There is not one day, that I dont cry or feel very sad about my separation. My husband is being very selfish right now and hes very confused. He sometimes gives me false hope and then he crushes me. I try to believing that he is still a good man. Seeing that I am a good woman, he does not feel threatened that I can be with someone else and move on with another man. When hes around me, he just wants to be intimate.. then leave. I dont know what to do anymore..

Prayer House said...

Because of the HARDNESS of man’s heart there is divorce, but God never meant for it to be. In the case of adultery, divorce is not preventable. Adultery breaks the sanctity between husband and wife, and you are not in bondage to stay with him. Many would counsel you to give up because this is the real world. At Prayer House of Two of Three we will stand with you in prayer and say as Jesus did, anything is possible to the believer, and that is why we are here. Though we are in the world, we are not of the world, and we know we do not wrestle against our loved ones, but evil spirits that have misguided them.

It appears by your husband’s fruit that he lacks connection with God. Pray for his salvation with mercy. The merciful shall obtain mercy. An example of a merciful person is one that sees good (and says so) in a person that others look down at as a misfit (and also say so). God sees beyond man’s appearance and behavior and sees the need--and He CAN meet that need. Your husband needs to humbly acknowledge his need for repentance, and when he does, God will forgive him. When that moment comes, you will run to meet him even when he’s not totally at the door, like the father did with the prodigal. The Bible doesn’t say how long that father waited for the prodigal son to come home.

God has called us to peace. He came to heal and repair, to forgive, and give a new beginning. The LORD can retrieve what the devil has stolen and revive what the enemy killed and destroyed. You are in synch with God, and His Holy Spirit leads you and gives you hope against hope.


Father in Jesus Name, we give this battle to You .Your banner over us is Your love. Prince of all peace and consolation comfort our sister, Eli. Bring rest to her soul. Fill her with Your Spirit that she may experience fullness of joy and peace. The joy of the Lord means strength to her. Shed light in the darkness. Send godly counselors her way, and to her husband. You are able to turn the heart of the king,. Father turn this husband’s heart toward home to his wife. Don’t let him be comfortable in his sin, awaken him to righteousness for Your Name’s sake.

Your ear is attentive to Eli’s cries and you have compassion on her. Let it come to pass that Eli’s husband come to his right mind and be clothed with Your righteousness. Open his ears to hear the truth that will make him free. Remove the scales from his eyes that he may follow You. Break the yoke of sin that’s separated him from You and Eli. Against what our natural senses tell us, we will choose to believe Your good report. We pray Eli will rejoice in You because Your Word says you will give her the desires of her heart. Father, this case rests with You and You alone, for YOU ARE GOD ALONE. Amen.

Shirley Silver said...


Rosie said...

Father, Shirley must have prayed to You about her husband so many times, and now Father we join Shirley standing on what the Lord Jesus said, that if two or three of us would agree here on earth on a matter, it shall be done in heaven. And here we are Father. Also, we believe you hear us, and that we are asking for Your will, and we are praying in JESUS NAME.

Father, there are giants in Shirley's land right now, but in the Name of Jesus we approach these giants that have come against our sister, and by Your Holy Spirit and Your Word, Father, these giants will be defeated!

Lord, send Your Word to deliver Shirley's husband from destruction. May Your goodness lead him to repentance. Cause Larry to hear You calling him. May he not harden his heart. Loosen his tongue to call upon the Name of Jesus for salvation. Pull him out from this miry clay and set his feet upon the rock. I pray he will give You his heart. Cleanse him from the inside out. Make the crooked ways straight. Set him in the paths of righteousness for Your Name's sake. Thank You LORD that You are plenteous in mercy to forgive, and thank You for Your loving kindness. Your compassion is new every morning and great is Your faithfulness.

We agree with Shirley and pray to You, Father, in Your Son's name that you deliver Larry from drugs. We also agree that he repents of this adulterous affair. We agree that You save Shirley's and Larry's marriage. Also Lord, we agree for his protection without a plea, but that Jesus blood was shed for Larry.

We rest this cause upon Your alter of prayer. We pray peace upon our sister as she waits and trusts in You. May she not be dismayed nor grow weary in well doing, because IN DUE TIME, she will reap. We pray bountiful blessings for her and her husband together. In Jesus Name, amen.

Godiva said...

Dear Prayer House,
I am writing to thank you all and to bring all of us broken and broken hearted a message of hope. After I had my pain and anger in control and had turned my marriage over to the LORD, I confessed to my husband Charlie that I had discovered his infidelities. I let him know that our marriage and his salvation was in danger. I then showed him the beautiful prayer that Prayer House had sent to us. He confessed to me that he has always struggled with his "lust demon" and that there were things in his childhood and also his feeling of unworthiness that contributed to this failing. He asked my forgiveness and asked for my patience. I promised that I would stand by him, and that we would start our marriage anew. He is ashamed, but I promised not to throw his adultery in his face in the future. I told him of the wonderful Peace that is in my heart since I have been praying for our relationship. I encouraged him to also turn to prayer that he may also find the forgiveness and peace he needs. It is my husband that first brought me to CHRIST and I thank GOD for that. I ask that you join in prayer with me for my husband Charlie, because right now he only feels self-loathing and feels far from GOD.He is a good man who has lost his way. We both have a long way to go to heal this marriage, but I know that we do not travel this path alone, that mercy and forgiveness is ours if we confess our sins and just ask it in JESUS name.

"Put on the full armor of GOD so that you can take you stand against the devils schemes...In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the the evil one...EPH 6:11-16

Come to me all that are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for you souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. MT 11:28-30

eli said...

I have made an appointment with an attorney this week to seek divorce from my husband. I know its not what God would want, but I have to move on. Too much anger and resentment has been built in my heart. I need to set an example for my two little girls who will one day be women. I would want them to fight for their marriage, but I would not want to them settle or compromise themselves for any man. I need to fight for my own happiness and seek peace through God. If a man really wants to be with his family, he would do all he can to do so. I cant make my husband want to fight for our marriage. I think hes just being completely selfish. Instead of wanting to make it work with a woman worth fighting for, some men rather be with a woman who will just give them a quick fix. I think it will be more wrong if I was to continue being bitter and living in the past then fighting for my marriage at this point. I have to do what is best for me and my little girls. Im very thankful that hes an amazing father to our little girls.. at this point that is all I care for. Otherwise, I dont trust him or believe anything he sais. Ive seen many women who remarry, and are happier than ever! They prayed and fought tooth and nail for their marriage, while their husbands took them for granted everyday. I need to invest in me and in God. I will not invest another ounce energy into this marriage. I know God wants me to be happy and to live a full LIFE! God has blessed me with so much in my life! I am so grateful for every experience that ive been through this past year. It has made me a much stronger woman and it has brought me closer to God!

eli said...

Ok, my appointment with the attorney if for today for me to meet with.. Yesterday my husband told me that he wants to work on our marriage for the first time this whole year that we've been separated. IM SO SCARED! He said hes willing to seek marriage counseling. He wants to take things really slow and start fresh. I dont know if I should believe him. IM still in SHOCK that he even wants to work on our marriage, yet alone seek counseling. Its what Ive been praying for, yet I dont know how to receive this in my life. I have a HUGE guard up. Hes scared also. I find it funny, how the day before of my appt with the divorce attorney, This happens.

eli said...

I would like for your ministry to pray for my marriage... My husband has decided to to work on our marriage.. Weve even booked a a therapist or next! Im in SHOCK!! I never expected this to happen to be honest. Just when Im about to let go of my marriage, God lets me know that he is faithfull and is listenening to my prayers. My husband and I are very much scared and nervous.. I dont trust him and I dont know if I should believe all that he sais. I want my marriage back! but I need guidance and so much support.

Rosie said...

Eli, you are nobody’s chopped liver! Scripturally, you are not obligated to remain with your husband because he has defaulted through adultery. BUT God has called us to peace and love covers a multitude of sins, and 1 Cor 13 love never fails… You have been praying for this and God has answered and given you a sign. Amen and amen God is faithful!

Prayer House’s counsel is neither here or there, and it’s God’s counsel that is the authority and it stands. Which is why we have included as many Scriptures as possible on the subject of adultery--which is sin per se.

Since you mentioned you and your husband being scared and nervous, this is a door-opener to the enemy of the soul. God’s perfect love casts out fear, so claim that when you pray. Submit yourselves to God, resist the devil (fear, being nervous) and he WILL FLEE. God is your guidance, God is your support. Also, Scripture says, don’t despise new beginnings, and God does refresh! Remember also, that things need uprooting at times before there is building or planting.

Scripture also says God does abundantly ABOVE ALL THAT WE ASK OR THINK, so yes, you even get bonuses. And what seemingly seems to be against you, may even be for you! Each of you learn to trust God for each other. The spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak. The guard you each should have on is God’s armor: the helmet of salvation, the shield of faith, the sword of the spirit…

The day before your divorce appt., God opened the Red Sea for you to walk on dry ground. Now go Eli!

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Prayer House stand in agreement with you in prayer:

Heavenly Father, thank You so much in Jesus Name that You are gracious and kind and benevolent and so good all the time. JESUS IS LORD! Thank You for being merciful to Eli and to her husband and have shown them that You are with them and for their triumph. You want to prosper their soul and their marriage.

We pray the blood of Jesus to wash them, and Your Holy Spirit to stir the love in their heart for one another with Your bond that never breaks. May they be compassionate and forgiving of themselves and of each other.

Surely LORD, you have not given this couple the spirit of fear, but of love and of power and of a sound mind.

Thank You, LORD. Be with their counselor(s), and send them godly counsel.
Teach them to put on the Armor of God and never let down THIS GUARD.

Help them to trust You for each other and to be gracious to forgive and forget, just as You do when we mess up and we repent and ask Your forgiveness. Thank You that Your compassion is new each morning, and thank You for Your faithfulness. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Prayer House said...

GODIVA, You’ve done a lot of right things. First of all, turning to God for help, confessing your faults one to another (in a spirit of meekness), and being honest and not hiding dirt under the rug.

Your husband has done right things too, acknowledging his sin to you. He hurt you, but has done this deed especially against God. From your writing, your husband is contrite and he needs to know that God is a forgiving God. Not only that, but he will not leave him in the state He found him. In your patience you possess your soul, so keep exercising it!

Just as parents don’t give up on their children, it is Prayer House’s stance that spouses should not give up on each other. Children are said by God that when they marry they shall leave their parents and cleave to their spouse and become one flesh!

Jesus will take away your husband’s shame.

God is as close to your husband as his heart and his lips are. For everyone that believes in their heart and confess with the mouth the Lord Jesus shall be saved.

Ask your husband to do the following, and in doing something “physical,” it should aid him:

Print this:

I (your husband’s name)------------------------------------------------------------------- ask You, Father in heaven, forgiveness for my sin of adultery. I also forgive the people that the devil used to trap me, but I take full responsibility for my actions.

Father, in Your Son’s Name, the Lord Jesus, I come to you without a plea but that Your Son’s blood was shed for me. I trust in Your mercy and grace.

Father, You said to come and reason together with You. You will make my scarlet sins white as snow. As far as the East is from the West You will separate my sins; throwing them in the depth of the sea, never to be remembered again.

Jesus is the Savior for my sins and no one will be able to pluck me out of his hand. He will never leave me nor forsake me.

Father, I forgive myself also, and now there is no condemnation because I am in Christ Jesus, and He is my righteousness.

I AM FREE! I AM CLEAN! I AM FORGIVEN! It is You that works in me both to will and to do of Your good pleasure.

I sign my name in agreement with You LORD, in Jesus Name, Amen!

Sign the dotted line

Don't worry if you don't feel like forgiving; once you've willed it, your feelings of unforgiveness will go away. IT’S DONE!

eli said...

I really need this ministry to pray for me.. Ive been feeling anxious since my husband said hes willing to try things out again, by seeking counseling and seeing where things go. At first I was very excited and very hopeful. Thankful and blessed that God had opened this door for us, so we can try things again. But this is harder than Id thought. I dont trust anything about him. He doesnt live at home still. I dont trust his job, his cell, and his mistress. He sais that hes ended things with her, but I feel that she may still seeking him, and pulling him away from giving his all in our marriage. He tells me all that I want to hear when it comes to her. I feel so betrayed by the both of them. My husband was not the first married man shes been with also. Im seeking peace and a sound mind. I want to rest this case unto God, let go and let him do his way this as he wants to. All i do is cry. All i feel is sadness when i think of my husband. Making things work is far more trying than dealing with my husband leaving and having an affair.

Prayer House said...

It’s not that that easy coming back. Eli is a prime example.

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Eli, know your enemies: being anxious, distrust, depression. Forgiveness for this betrayal is a done deal. Remember, it’s a willing, not a feeling. God forgave your husband as he repented and wants to now do the right thing. He is human also and needs your help very much.

Continue to have hope and faith in Him that works in us both to will and do of His good pleasure. Claim this Scripture for your husband.

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Father, in Jesus Name, we pray Eli will be single-minded, for You warn us that a double-mind brings instability. We pray Eli’s husband has given you his heart. If this couple is in synch with You, who can be against them and no weapon formed shall prevail against them.

We pray a hedge of protection for Eli and her husband, and claim Your Word that this couple is lovingly bonded in holy matrimony, and let no one divide them, for before You they are one flesh.

Father, the other woman’s lifestyle is not one that a decent man should desire. We pray the fear of God for her and that she will repent of this wickedness. We pray Your salvation for her also. Apparently LORD, You’ve unmasked the devil’s doing and we pray Eli’s husband has received wisdom and understanding, and he will know better than to fall in this trap again, the consequences are too great. Eli is too precious.

LORD, in Jesus Name, we speak to this contrary wind and command it to cease, PEACE BE STILL. And the wind ceased and there was a great calm.

We pray Your peace for Eli and her husband and peace between them. Bring her husband home and may Eli receive him with open arms. Restore trust back into this marriage and a glorious life in Jesus Name, amen.

Julie said...

My name is Julie. I have just been married over a year and this is the 4th time there has been some form of adultry since I married my husband. My husband used to be a faithfull godly man but has slipped into his old ways of pornography and drugs. I left the home last week to give it a break and went home on Sunday to discuss our situation. He was intoxicated. and refused to really discuss it. He claims he did not sleep with "her" despite her telling me " she is in Love with my Husband" He smiles when I say this to him. I gave him a choice of counselling, of life or death. He stated he will no go to Counselling, therefore I packed and took the Car, my Cat and told him I loved him but would not continue to enable him to act this way, he needs to choose to honor me and christ or go home to the usa. He is an american and I am canadian. He has no papers here in Canada. He has put me in physical jepoardy, and has since lost his under the table job because I took the car and left ( He needs the car to work ) I love him but do not know what to do, he hardly has food or money in the house and I am not sure how to proceed. Please respond with something that will help me.

Prayer House said...

JULIE, Post 1 of 2

Hi Julie,
First of all your battle is not against flesh and blood. You are facing a spiritual battle, and thus this is where you should first target your energy whether you are living with your husband or not. God’s Word is not bound and can be sent in prayer where needed.

Your husband’s bad spirit(s): violence(?), adultery, pornography, drugs, drunkenness, a non-provider(?)
He is also refusing help, such as counseling, thus “stiff-neck”. When under the drug/alcohol influence, your husband is in bondage and so you need to reason with him when he is sober.

Next to prayer God sends helps: “ordinary” people, doctors, therapists, counselors, clinics, pastors, prayer partners such as this one…

For your protection, it is understandable that you separated for a time and also to give yourself space to think things through without him pressuring you.

Also, there is a fine line between helping and enabling. Some people do have certain handicaps and will suffer greatly without another’s help, at least until this sufficiency is gained. You are aware that there are people with mental disorders also. A Scripture to cling to and say is that we can do all things through Christ which strengthens us, and hold on to it as to dear life because Christ is life to us.

On your part, he is your husband and in the marriage vows we all know the clauses “for better or for worse”; “in sickness or in health”; “for richer or for poorer”; “for as long as you both shall live”.

At one time he acted as a Christian man, maybe that is why you married him. Now he has committed adultery and it’s up to you to be a “die-hard” wife and stand by your man-- or not-- because the Bible allows separation because of adultery.

Do you love him with a 1 Corinthians chapter 13 love?
We ask you look up this Scripture and ask yourself if you have this godly love. It takes Christ’s love in us to empower us to love in such a way. These words are not just ink on a page. These words are spirit and they are life. It requires God’s revelation. God is love. Had He not loved us in such a way, it would be off with all our heads.

If a child turned wayward, would a parent turn their back on him? Scripture says yes! But not God! If your husband belongs to God, He will be chastened as a son, and not neglected as an illegitimate.

Pray to God, fast if you are led to fast. Get answers from your Maker. He is your Counselor and the Prince of Peace, the Everlasting Father. He will father you, He will be your Good Shepherd. You need to learn to trust Him and trust in his mercy. You may have to wait for what you pray for, and go through thick and thin. BUT you will not do it alone, God will be with you.

Reading and meditating the Bible is as important as praying. We don’t pray our own way, but God’s way. Turn to the Scriptures in this blog. Pray for the other ladies the prayers that were agreed for them. You do have a lot in common.

Prayer House said...

Julie, Post 2 of 2

LORD, we come to You asking for help, grace, and mercy for Julie and her husband. Undertake this situation and help them speedily LORD. Save Julie’s husband from destruction, and save this marriage that you blessed. No one can curse what you have blessed, LORD. Turn it for a testimony to give glory to Your Name!

God of all peace, bring peace to each Julie and her husband, and bring peace between them. Stir Your gift of love in their hearts for each other. Your love covers a multitude of sins. Your love never fails. You have given Julie and her husband the power to be your children, and as Your children, greater are You in them than he than he that is in the world.

Father, upon Your Word, Prayer House partners agree with Julie that her husband be LOOSED and set free from adultery, pornography, drugs, alcohol, slothfulness, helplessness and violence.

Also LORD, we agree with Your Word that you bind this couple together in Your holy love, and no one put asunder.

We pray Julie will only do her husband good all of his life, and that Julie’s husband will love her as the weaker vessel and co-heir in Christ, and as Christ loves the Church.

Thank You LORD, that You are also able to do exceedingly and abundantly above all that we ask or think according to the power that works in us by Christ Jesus. For it is in His name we pray, Amen.

eli said...

Hey Guys!
So yesterday was the first meeting with our marriage counselor for my husband and I. I have to say that I am very grateful that I ended up going. I was having a huge battle whether to go or not and give my husband the benefit of the doubt. For the first time in a very long time, I saw my husband cry and say how feels for me. The therapist had asked us a series of questions and he was open and willing to talk and to listen. Ive been reading your prayers and saying them outloud and having my private quality time with God. GOD IS SO FAITHFUL!! My husband and I still have alot of work to do, but were are finally headed in the right direction. Im doing all I can to be open and to trust in LORD of each other. I want my marriage back, and like you guys say, my husband also needs my help guiding him back home. Being positive all the time and trusting is not easy at all!! I didnt expect it to be ofcourse. I have to do MORE THAN MY PART for my marriage to work. My husband seems lost and very much afraid of being with me again. It took alot of courage of our part to see a therapist. Mu husband is a good man and whats done is done. I want to move forward with my family and allow GOD be the foundation of our marriage. Without him, NOTHING is possible. God has spoken to me and given me a sign, NOT TO GIVE UP ON MY MARRIAGE!! Ive come too far. I pray that my husband opens up his heart to me where he can let me in and show him that I love him and that Im not gonna leave in the fire alone! God made our union, so therefore NO ONE can break us! I want to REJOICE in the LORD for creating this chance for my husband and I. Even when I thought I was at my lowest, he was always there for me. THANK YOU JESUS!!! THANK YOU JESUS!!
ONE song EVERYONE I think should listen is, WHILE IM WAITING.. very inspirational and very uplifting. Its been my soundtrack to what Ive endured this past year. I LOVE YOU GOD! and I thank who ever created this BLOG for helping me pray and shedding light to my dark times. THANK YOU!! Ill keep you guys posted on my progress.
Please continue keeping me in your prayers! :D

charese said...

I have been married to my husband for 18 yrs. We had our share of problems throughout the years. April 2010 I had a stroke and my husband was just wonderful in taking care of me. After I started recovering he started not coming home or stayed out late nights. When I question what was wrong he said it was nothing. I suspected he was having a affair. Well my suspicions were true. My husband confessed and thought it was best that we move to Jacksonville, Fla. to see if we could save our marriage. Well we moved on June 20, 2010. We stayed with friends until we could find a place, but on July 2,2010 my husband woke up and started pacing his things and wouldn't say a word to me. He just got in his truck and drove away. I didn't know where he went until I received a phone call saying that my husband was in Miami, Fla and he packed up his mistress belongings and they were headed back to Jacksonville, Fla. I couldnt believe what I was hearing so I called my husband and he confirmed that he left me and that our marriage was over and he was moving on with the other woman and I should do the same. I fell on my knees and cried out to God. This could not be happening to me. I haven't heard from him since. He left me with no money no food, but thank God for his mercy and grace and the people he placed in my life to help me get on my feet. I must truly say that Im lonley and hurt and I still love and miss my husband in spite of what he did. I wake up every morning and pray to god to take him off my mind it is so hard for me to not think about my husband. I just dont know what to do. Please pray for me.

Prayer House said...

Father, in the mighty Name above all names, and in the Name of the one Who reigns and Who said, “all power and authority is given to me in heaven and in earth,” we at Prayer House come together on behalf of our sister Charese, thanking You for Your mercy and grace, and that You have not left her alone and are supplying all her need according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus. We stand in agreement to her heart’s cry to you. When our heart is overwhelmed, LORD, You lead us to the Rock that is higher than us, for You have been a shelter unto us and a strong tower against the enemy.

Father, the enemy has come to shake Charese’s house, but she believes in You, and according to Your Word, her house is built upon the Rock, and those that believe in You through Your Son, Jesus, our house will not fall. We are trusting in Your mercy and that You will make a way where there seems to be no way. You will go to the enemy’s camp and retrieve what he has stolen. You said LORD, that what You have joined together let no one divide.

LORD You have worked out all the problems Charese and HER husband shared for 18 yrs. You are the same God in the valley as You are in the mountaintop. We look unto the hills from whence our help comes, and our help comes from You. Help now LORD, Hosanna, Hosanna!

May Charese meditate in the many wonders You performed of old, and also how You have brought this couple through thick and thin, through sickness and health. We praise You that You healed Charese and that her husband was there for his wife when she was so vulnerable and he took good care of her and nursed her back to health. Then the enemy came and lured this husband, LORD, and he fell in this trap. Help this husband to escape from this net. Deliver him out of the thief’s grip. Convince him that this sin will bring him nothing but unhappiness, and that nothing will bring him peace as long as he is in this sinful relationship. Let him see that the grass on the other side of the fence is not greener. Let him miss the green pastures and still waters of love, joy, and peace with his own wife, and how pure and beautiful this relationship is.

Father, Charese’s husband made an effort to save this marriage before, but then the enemy kept persisting. Your WORD says to submit ourselves to You, resist the devil and that he will flee. Apparently, LORD, he yielded to temptation and fell. BUT the LORD Jesus came to seek and save that which was lost. Find Charese’s husband, LORD, and bring him back to his legal wife. May Charese not be afraid, only believe. All things are possible with You and there is nothing too hard for You.

LORD, we fall on our knees and cry holy! You are holy, You are God and there is no other. JESUS CHRIST IS LORD OVER OUR ENEMIES TO YOUR GLORY, FATHER!

As Charese waits upon You, fill her loneliness with Your holy presence where there is sweet peace and joy ineffable and full of glory. When we are going through the fire, we magnify You and Your WORD is so good! You bring relief to our pain.

Your are our good Shepherd, LORD Jesus, and we pray You lead Charese’s husband in the paths of righteousness for Your Name’s sake. Create in him a clean heart and renew a right spirit within him.

LORD we know that You are more than able to do abundantly and above all that we ask or think. Show Charese what to do and calm her, LORD, for we also know that You want us to also hold our peace for You fight our battles. We at Prayer House pray in agreement with Charese according to Your will, and Your Word, trusting in Your compassions that are new every morning. We lift up our cup to You dear Father and God for Charese in Jesus Name! Thank You, LORD!

Sophy said...

my husband is not only unfaithful but now wants to marry his girl friend who is half his age

Sophy said...

maybe i should give more details. Please brethren pray with me because my husband of 12 years now wants to marry a second wife. My husband has no regards for me. He frustrates me. Allows his girlfriend to call him anytime even the most ungodly hours and speaks to her in my presences. He says that he does not want us to divorce yet the things he does are unbearable. He tells me that he does not love me any more and that we are incompatible.He goes to see her every week infact she is six months pregnant for him

Prayer House said...

OUR FATHER which are in heaven, Your Name is holy, holy, holy. We come boldly into Your throne of grace to find mercy and help for Sophy. We can not judge with our physical senses that this is a hopeless case. Was there anything too hard for You LORD when Pharaoh would not let Your people go? LORD, you said the gates of hell would not prevail against Your church, and the least of us was greater than all the prophets of the OT and John the Baptist. You have put all things under Your feet, and we are Your body. With confidence in what You say we are in Christ we do not approach this mountain in our name, but in the mighty, powerful name above all names, given to us, the Name of Jesus, we say, MOUNTAIN BE REMOVED AND BE CAST INTO THE SEA IN JESUS NAME!

LORD, You said we would know people by their fruits, and Sophy’s husband does not have fruits of righteousness. Therefore LORD, this leads us to pray to You for his salvation. Put the fear of God in him and convince him of sin, of righteousness and of judgment. May Your goodness lead him to repentance and may he acknowledge that He is sinning against You. Allow Your Holy Spirit to minister to him and open his eyes, his ears, and his understanding to perceive with his heart. Let him see this awful sin of adultery that is hurting his own body. Also convict this other woman and also put the fear of God in her.

Give Sophy the strength and vision to know what to do and what to say and when to hold her peace and allow You to overtake and fight for her. Surround her with godly counselors and people that love her and support her. Encourage her always in You. We trust You will work things out to work together for good in Your kingdom and in Sophy’s life. We release this care to you LORD, for You care for Sophy and love her and have compassion for her. You also love her husband and have no pleasure that he perish in his sins. So we ask LORD to work in his him as only You know how and save his soul and save this marriage by and through Your love that never fails. In Jesus Name amen.

chemae said...

Please pray for my husband..That God will strengthen Him in sexual tempatations.

chemae said...

My husband is still having an affair with this woman whom he first fathered a child. This woman was his second girlfriend since I am his first girlfriend. He never marry this woman and he married me because he got me pregnant last year. We are now 7 months married with our 4 months old daughter. His child with this woman is now 1 year old. From the start of our marriage there is already a problem. Now, I realize the consequence of my decision to still have our relationship inspite the fact that I already know that he had a child with this woman. I am hurt because they still have communications thru text and cellphone calls. My husband is supporting his first child with this woman. My husband sees this woman and they have sexual relations. I have read a text message regarding this matter. It is my prayer that God will stregthen our marriage..I will stand for this marriage because we are legally married and God ordains this marriage..Please pray for us..Thank you..chemae

Prayer House said...

LORD, as we pray for Chemae, help us to pray with the mind of Christ Who ever lives to make intercession for us. We come against feelings of bitterness, hatred, prejudice, and wrath. We allow Your Spirit of gentleness to guide us and help us to pray not according to our will, but Your will.

First of all Father, we praise You, we thank You, we worship You God Who is love, merciful and gracious! You have given us Bible testimonies to learn by. Jesus delivered Mary Magdelene from demons. He rebuked Peter when he cut off someone's ear for "Your" sake. He also reprimanded his disciples when they asked Jesus if they should call fire from heaven to devour "Your" adversaries. Father, thank You that Jesus is a friend of sinners, for You came to save us FROM our sins! We want to be like Jesus and not like the Pharisee that prayed to himself in self-righteousness.

Father, we pray mercy for Chemae and her husband. Enough with the enemy! Off with the head of these demons that came to kill, steal and destroy, for we know we do not wrestle against flesh and blood.

Save this marriage, LORD JESUS. Undertake now. Hosanna! Hosanna! Hosanna! Gracious Father, You are long suffering and patient and Your compassion is new every morning. Bring peace to this couple whom You have joined together in holy matrimony.

Deal with Chemae's husband and put the fear of God in him. May he put away selfish, lustful desires and began to think as a righteous man. Save him if he needs saving, and grant him repentance to acknowledge that he is sinning against You. We see this unrighteous fruit, but only You see the root problem. May Your Holy Spirit minister to this husband AND father. Let him hear from You, and prepare his heart, and his ears to listen.

Thank You LORD, we claim Your Word that You cause us to triumph in Christ Jesus. May he be won to You by Chemae's Christian witness.

Nothing is impossble with You. You know what to do, when, and how. We bring this care to You, for YOU ALONE ARE GOD and let our enemies be scattered. Praise the God of all hope, comfort, and consolation! In Jesus Name we pray and agree, amen.

Jennifer said...

Hello. My name is Jennifer and 2010 has been an extremely hard year for me. I've lost my father and twenty days later I found out that my husband was having an affair. He was not only unfaithful to me but he also confessed to using me for a U.S. Visa. He was denied the visa due to admitted drug use. Due to this immigration gave him a three year ban and he had to go back to Mexico for the next three years. Without notice, he made the decision to choose to be with his mistress. The way I found out was devastating! He lied and said awful, hurtful things to me. He was cruel. His mistress contacted me and said that my marriage was over long time ago. She believed all of his lies. I loved him and have supported him financially, physically and especially, emotionally. I was a good wife ro him. He wronged me and in the worst way just because I gained weight which I am losing. I beleive in God and his love. I am eternally grateful and thankful for all the blessings he's bestowed on me. I love and miss my father dearly and if there is one very special thing my dad had taught me was to forgive. I forgave him my husband and his mistress for what they've done just like Jesus forgave me for my sins.I also happen to believe that behind every burden there is a blessing. I beleive I had to undergo this challenge to learn to love myself again, which I am doing. However, what I've asked God is for the opportunity to enjoy in peace, love and harmony my marriage. This long distance relationship was beautiful but unfortunately, due to immigration, we didn't live a "normal life" as a married couple. We were almost there but didn't make it due to my husband's confession. Please help me pray for my husband's return home to work on our marriage. He asked me for the divorce but I beleive in God and I know this is not in his will. I love my husband because I know there is goodness within. i lived it. I bless and thank this ministry for listening to me. Amen

Prayer House said...

LORD You sent Your Son Jesus to bind up the brokenhearted and we are thankful that Jennifer is Your child and she has not lost her heavenly Father. You are her comfort and peace. Help her to stay close to You under the shadow of Your wing in these very difficult times for her. You are also her husband, her brother, her friend and counselor, and also her healer. You are the I AM HE to all her need.

She has been a victim of a man deceiving her into marrying him for selfish purposes, and to add insult he has committed adultery and it does not appear he has any remorse. This man is also in bondage to drugs. His mistress seems to be selfish also with no regard to sinning against You.

As devastated as Jennifer feels may she during this time take the opportunity to reflect and receive wisdom and understanding and guidance from you. We agree with Jennifer that this may be a blessing, for You do work all things to work together for good to those that love You. I don't know Your plan for Jennifer but I know it is good! You don't want Your children to be used, abused, and humiliated by the one that should love his wife as Christ loved the church. A man that loves his wife will cherish her no matter what, and having gained weight is not the real issue with him. The real issue is that he cannot love another while he hates his own soul which is what Your Word says about those that commit fornication and adultery. You said to first find Your kingdom and Your righteousness and all these things we need would be added. It appears from this man's fruit that he needs repentance and come to Your Son Jesus for salvation.

LORD we pray for Jennifer's husband salvation. Once his eyes are opened he can see and appreciate that he that has found a good wife has found a good thing and a good wife is from the LORD. Put the fear of the Lord in him and make him a new man in Christ. Whatever the devil intended for evil, LORD, vengeance is Yours and You will recompense. Thank You that Jennifer has learned to forgive. Protect and defend her and her loved ones and meet all her necessities both spiritual and physical. We pray she delights in You and You will give her the desires of her heart.

We are confident LORD in Jesus Name that You are able to do abundantly and above all that we ask or think. We are entering in agreement with Jennifer upon Your throne of grace our prayer. Thank You LORD.

Jennifer said...

God bless you and thank you Prayer House for this powerful and heart fealt prayer. It has touched my soul and I will continue to pray each night this prayer. I believe that our Lord hears all our prayers and is extremely happy that Prayer House has made it possible that through this forum we are all able to pray for the good will of others, for it is written in his will, the Lord said, " Love thy neighbor as you love yourself. " This is exactly what we're doing. I continue to have faith and will let you know the outcome. Until then, God bless you and thank you all.

guenramos said...

I am in Kuwait working. My husband is in Afghanistan working. There he met the "other woman." Our marriage problems were both our faults. Except I repented to him and God, forgave myself and my husband and turned to God to restore my marriage. My husband has turned to her. I know she actively pursued him before we he ever asked me for a divorce. I am rebuking that relationship. They are speaking of marriage and children when just four months ago he was trying to save our marriage and saying he loved me. I am Standing in God to save my husband and our marriage. I want those two separated, in the Name of Jesus. I pray a hedge of thorns around my husband, so he cannot find her, she will leave him, and he will return to me. I pray God give him a new heart so he will forgive himself and me. I pray God bind his demonic spirits of pride, adultery, lust, fornication, bitterness, anger, resentment and disgust with me. He admits a lot was his pride at first. Now he just says he loves her and she is everything I am not. He says he never loved me and regrets he married me. I know that is all a lie. We are both anointed and called musicians for Christ and he was once a preacher. Satan does not want to see us get back together and work for God. Pray that my husband accepts a job here in Kuwait with me, or that God send him back to America with me. We need to be together under the same roof praising and worshiping God and making our marriage work. Pray for me as his actions and words, and hers too as she emails me spitefully, they destroy me with their words. But I have not given up. I told them both I forgive them and I am praying for my husband, my marriage and her, too, to be saved. Signed faithfully, Mrs. Ramos!

eli said...

Dear Prayer House,
Its been a few months since Ive kept you updated on whats been going on with my marriage. Well Im here to say, that Im Blessed and so THANKFUL that my husband and I are giving our marriage a chance to work things out. After 15 Long months of despair, ALOT of CRYING and ALOT of praying.. My husband wants to come home and be with his family. I feel that I am in a place where I value marriage much more and that I KNOW and BELIEVE that having faith and placing your trust in GOD, ALL THINGS are possible! My separation with my husband humbled me to the core of my soul and Spirit. Though it was a painful and devastated experience, I would change nothing about it, because it has brought where I am NOW and it has given me a MUCH closer relationship with GOD and for that I am extremely THANKFUL!!
Rob and I are slowly letting each other back in to our hearts again. We know that we have alot of work ahead of us, but we want to do it together. Fighting for our marriage is what we want. Im going in this fight with no fear and FULL of FAITH... Im still a bruised from his affair, ofcourse, but that too will take some time. I NEVER wanted something so MUCH than to have my marriage back again. This time Im placing GOD first in our marriage. At this point, I need Gods guidance with the healing of my marriage. My husband is spending more time at home, hes being more affectionate, hes being more expressive with his emotions towards me. For the first time in a long time, I feel a sense of peace and that Things will be ok. Please place us in your prayers--- and again thank you so much guys! GodBLess, Eli and Rob

Prayer House said...

FATHER, IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS, AND BY THE BLOOD OF THE LAMB WHICH TAKES AWAY THE SIN OF THE WORLD, together with guenramos we Your children enter into Your Throne of grace in agreement for our sister’s need to obtain help and mercy from You . May Your Holy Spirit be with us as we voice our petition to You:

Our sister is employed in Kuwait. Father, we appreciate her sacrifice and that of her husband’s as they are under the authority of our great nation fulfilling their mission. How much more should her husband be under Your authority and servitude in the fear of the LORD and live. Instill this godly fear in him, Father.

This other woman came in unawares while this couple was lax in their commitment to their marriage and to You. But there is forgiveness with You and guenramos turned away from her sins and turned to You. She is on solid ground as she has You as her General, and she is on the winning side! On the other hand, HER husband is standing in sinking sand leaning on this other woman. It is dreadful for whosoever puts their trust in the arm of man and not in You. This is the woman Proverbs warns men about and we ask for mercy for all parties involved because Satan is the one scheming and deceiving.

We also stand with our sister and especially with You and also rebuke the evil spirit(s) behind this ungodly affair in the Name of Jesus! See this treason LORD, and put a stop to it as only You know how our Savior. Stir afresh the gift of 1 Cor. 13 love in guenramos husband’s heart, the love of a husband for his wife. As this man loves his wife, he loves himself, for You said upon their marriage vows, they shall no more be two, but one flesh. Sever this other strange flesh that is not his nor is of You. Let this man hear from You; send him godly counselors and let him plainly see they speak the truth in love.

We pray guenramos’ husband will turn his heart toward his godly wife, loving her more than ever. Open his eyes for him to see how precious and beautiful his own wife is. May Your goodness lead him to repent of adultery and of looking at another woman with lust.

You are ready to receive a broken and contrite heart from this husband, and you will give him the sure mercies of David. Let him see that he and his wife fell into a trap, but that also we have a God that is more than able to deliver, plenteous in mercy, ready to forgive, and there is grace, grace, grace in abundance according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

The devil is a liar, he does not love this other woman, any more than he loves evil.
The devil hates You and Your children, and he is jealous because Your psalmists lead Your people into Your presence with songs of praise and deliverance!

Bring this married couple to be together in the place that You desire them to be, where they may worship You. Heal them and their marriage. Restore and make their marriage better than it’s ever been.

We come against every action and words that have raised up against our sister guenramos and declare that no weapon formed against her will prosper. Breathe into her and her husband and marriage life again. Wash them with the blood of Your Son, the Lord Jesus. She has willed to forgive, and that is good, and the enemy will not have an easy handle or wedge to come in and defeat her. Her weapons are mighty to the pulling down of every stronghold against her, her husband, and her marriage. She is mighty in battle as she has on Your armor. You will cause her to triumph in Jesus Name, and her banner over her is Your love that never fails. Thank You, Father, in Jesus name.

Prayer House said...

Father, we give You all glory and praise for Your goodness and mercy and grace in Eli’s and Rob’s life. Your truth keeps them free, and we pray they will CONTINUE in Your Word. Your Word has power, it creates the fruit of our lips. The devil would have us whine and complain and bring destruction with our own tongue. Oh forgive us, LORD, and keep the door of our mouth!

Eli was comforted by You and now her testimony of what You are doing in her life is bringing hope and comfort to others, LORD. We pray for all those experiencing hurt right now because of an unfaithful spouse, though they write in or not, LORD may they partner with other believers in prayer agreement for the saving of their marriage.

You are a jealous God wanting to shelter us under the shadow of Your wing. You want us in that secret place where You live. May our heart be a holy sanctuary, for out of it are the issues of life. Eli has found that having a close relationship with You through Your Son, the Lord Jesus, is her ground. You work in her both to will and do of Your good pleasure. You created her and Rob for Your pleasure and their marriage is of You. There is safety in You!

Before there is a building, there is a foundation, and before that, the ground has to be prepared. So it is with the marriage, LORD. You show us so much through parables and examples. Certain things in our lives need to be rooted out and destroyed before a new building comes into place. Perhaps it’s repentance, forgiveness, throwing our net on the other side, loving our neighbor… You are the potter, we are the clay. Mold and make Eli’s and Rob’s marriage into the likeness of Jesus loving the church. We ought not to despise new beginnings and we are so thankful LORD that You have done so much good in Eli’s & Rob’s marriage. As the Potter, You will smooth out those lumps and rough spots. Help them to trust You and obey You more and more.

We are thankful to Eli for including Prayer House as her prayer partners, and LORD receive her gracious heart’s petition that You to continue use this ministry to bless marriages. Thank You LORD, in Jesus Name.

tami said...

Dear Prayer House,

I come across of your blog when researching about prayers for unfaithful husband. I badly needed the prayers of everybody. I found out of my husband's cheating about a year ago. It hurts so much. He promised to end the relationship and for a time, I believed him. But that is not what he is doing. The cheating continues. I'm not sure if it's with the same woman or not. But the fact that he is lying and unfaithful devastated me. What hurts me more was that he is a Christian and believes in God. He says he loves me, that no one can break us apart and that he will not leave me. He also says that he will leave the other woman and he's just looking for the right timing. But how can I trust him? I still love my husband. So, I pray to God that someday, my husband will have a change of heart and go back to the light. That he will realize the value and sanctity of our marriage. I pray that the Lord will touch his body and soul. I am stil waiting, waiting and waiting for the answers to my prayers. I surrender everything to the Lord to melt my husband's heart and restore his faithfulness. The pain that I am experiencing right now is so great that I know only God can help and heal me. I pray that God will keep me strong. Please help me and include us in your prayers.

Prayer House said...

Our Father, You said the person that seeks, knocks, and asks will find You. Our sister needs You and we have come along with her on her behalf, as you said, where two or three are gathered in Your name , You are in our midst, and if two or more on earth come in agreement on a petition, You will come through for what we ask.

Father, in You our sister finds strength, but also love, comfort, and peace. We lift her up to You to sustain her during this trying time for her. We are hoping and praying that You will intervene in this matter concerning her husband’s unfaithfulness to You first of all, and to his wife.
This is a matter that after the battle is over, this couple will work it out and there is no place in this marriage for the other woman.

Her husband has had good intentions to end this illicit relationship, and our sister believed him because she did it in good faith according to Your Word in 1 Cor 13. But he did not keep his word. So we look to You because we believe You will keep Yours, for You said that the man and his wife whom You have joined together, let no one can divide. You are on behalf of saving our sister’s marriage. Knock on the door of his heart and help him see the error of his ways. Those that have erred in spirit shall come to understanding.

Father, by Your Spirit set this man free from the spirit of lust. Convince him LORD, of sin, righteousness, and JUDGEMENT. Our sister says her husband is a Christian, and those that You love you chasten. We come to Your throne of grace that You have mercy on him also because his wife loves him and You love him more. You will know how to deliver him without devastating neither him nor his wife. May Your goodness lead him to repentance and see that this other woman is not worth a separation from You and his wife.

May our sister depend upon Jesus and His guidance. Help her to live a godly life before her husband and be adorned with a meek and quiet spirit. May her husband desire her; rekindle the fire in this marriage.

So we agree with her in her prayer: That her husband will go back to the light and that he will realize the value and sanctity of their marriage. Touch his body, soul and heart, and also heal our sister’s brokenness. We command this foul adulterous spirit to kneel down before the mighty name of Jesus and go into outer darkness without causing anybody harm—IN JESUS NAME! JESUS IS LORD of all to the glory of God the Father!

In peace and in quietness is our sister’s strength, and may she have patience as You work in her husband’s heart and life. We are excited for what You will do! Praise be to God, for Your mercy endures forever and for Your wonderful works in us.

In Jesus Name we seal this prayer. Amen.

clarissa said...

I need a prayer for my unfaithful husband that he will come back with me and my 4 children with full of sorry for his sin, that he may realize how important we are to him and not his other lady/

tami said...

Dear Prayer House,

Thank you Prayer House for your prayers. God is indeed great! I am praising and exalting His mighty name! My prayers had been answered. Thank you Lord. My husband has finally broken his ties to the other woman. My heart is rejoicing for this wonderful gift.

Now, my husband and I are praying for the healing and restoration of our marriage. And I say that with God in our midst, nothing is impossible. Thank you Lord for bringing my husband back to us and for helping him reject the evil spirit that was holding him.

I am continually praying for God to strengthen my husband's will to avoid temptations. I pray for my husband's total devotion to us and may he dispel any lustful thoughts towards other women. Please continue to pray for us. I know that prayers can move mountains and nothing is impossible with God.


Prayer House said...


Our Father, in Jesus Name, we enter Your throne of grace in prayer for our sister, Clarissa and this mountain that has come between her and her husband. There are children involved too, LORD, and they are hurting too because of it.

We are standing in agreement with Clarissa according to Your will which You let us know in Your Word that this couple that You joined together in holy matrimony no one should come between and separate them.

Bring Clarissa’s husband back from where he is at: from the East, West, South, or the North, call him back to his border, back to his wife and four children to be the godly, dedicated husband and father you have called him to be.

Keep the enemy from continuing to beat up this family. Undertake and deliver them, Lord. We claim Your Word over Clarissa that You will restore unto her what the locusts, the caterpillar, the cankerworm, and the palmerworm have eaten. The Lord Jesus was manifested to destroy the works of the devil. We trust that You will restore unto Clarissa double for her trouble.

Put the terror of God in this strange woman and reveal to her that she is not guiltless before You of taking another woman’s husband with whom they have four innocent children.

Draw Clarissa’s husband close to you by the blood of the Lamb which takes away the sin of the world. Convict him by Your Spirit. We are praying to You that Clarissa’s husband repent and REALIZE how important his wife and children are to him. May he come back to You and to his wife and children, RUNNING.

Thus, in the name of Jesus, we command this mountain of adultery that has stood between Clarissa and her husband to be removed and be cast into the sea in the mighty name of Jesus!

We thank you in advance for what You are doing, Lord, and are going to do to save Clarissa’s marriage. In Jesus Name, amen.

Prayer House said...


Father, we are rejoicing with Tami for answering her prayers. That is why we bring all our care to You, for You have lovingly invited us to come to You boldly for every care and need in the Name of Your Son, Jesus, our Lord and PERSONAL Savior.

We declare with Tami that You are great! Adultery has a name, and everything that is named has a Name above it, the mighty name of Jesus! We run to Your Name and we are saved! Blessed be Your Name!

Lord, we agree with Tami’s prayer that You will continue to help her and her husband keep their house clean from evil spirits, not allowing them to enter in. Help them to learn to pray and trust You every hour of the day never letting their guard down. You said to be vigilant and be constant in prayer. May this couple always welcome and allow Your Spirit to work in them, for nothing is impossible with You. For those that believe in You, You have given us power to be Your children. The enemy shall not overtake us in the Name of Jesus and by the power Your Spirit for greater is He that is in us than he that is in the world.

Lord, thank You, that with You being for us and In Your Name, we can take down any mountain that has any name. We call it a plain, shouting grace to it in Jesus Name! And thank You most of all that our names are written in the Book of Life. In Jesus Name amen

eli said...

Dear Prayer House,

After almost 2 years of separation, my ex-husband wanted to to try to make things work. We tried marriage counseling too. Unfortunately, us trying to make things work only lasted about 3 weeks. The trust and the respect was completely gone, from my part. I was basically taking him more for our 2 little girls. This man hurt me beyond words..and throw salt in the wound, he decided to go back to his mistress. Ive been this mans doormat for almost 2 years!! I believed in fighting for marriage, but unfortuantely, if only one of us willing, then there is only so much I can do. You know whats funny, is that I feel a great sense of relief. I DID ALL COULD TO SALVAGE MY MARRIAGE!! and Im so proud of my self! Im a GREAT MOTHER and good person. I wish him all the best! After all , we still have 2 little girls together, which bonds us for life! I have alot of respect for woman who endure what they have to, to get their marriages back. Im a different woman now. I might have lost my marriage, but Ive gained a closer relationship with GOD! and Ive had a tremendous amount of support from friends and loved ones. I was never alone. I praise God for how blessed I am and thankful for always being faithful to me and my little girls. Tomorrow Ive decided to file for divorce. Its what I want and part of what I need to move on. I cant remain married to a man who continues to be unfaithful and who continues to lie. I can blame the devil all day about my ex's actions, but the truth is that he needs to take responsibility for his own actions.. I walk away from this as a stronger woman and way more capable. I actually feel like I have a backbone! NO MORE!! ENOUGH! I deserve to be happy and to move one. Living in strife would be more of a sin than to continue fighting for a man who does not respect me nor value me! Please pray for me that I keep my dignity and self respect through this divorce process. I want and need more of God now than ever!!! Let his will be done.

Kim said...

My husband is the head of a volunteer Christian ministry (he works another job full-time for income). He had an affair with his assistant 7 years ago - right after we had our last child. Now I've discovered he is having an affair with another assistant. We have moved to a new area so our pastor is trying to counsel long-distance but my husband is ignoring him. He says he has decided to stay with me and the children. But I am supposed to shut up and never speak of the affair with him or anyone else. I'm in such terrible pain and don't know how to trust such a man. I've broken into his passworded computer and he has flirtatious emails to at least four other women. I don't know if those relationships went very far. I found conversations between him and the current woman discussing how awful I am and how he wishes he had married her 25 years ago rather than me. They also discuss leaving their spouses for each other. So he is "here" for the moment, but obviously he is not getting his emotional fulfillment at home since he gets it from all his ministry "helpmeets" who cling on his every word and tell him they'll do anything to help him and comfort him and take care of him. Makes me want to vomit, frankly.

So prayers for him to repent (he is just sorry he was caught) and for me to love him enough to do what is right (I have no idea.) I want a loving two parent home for my children and have put up with a cold, uncommunicative, work-a-holic husband for years to give them that. I have been an at-home wife and mother for 25 years and would not be able to support our large family should he leave me. I don't know if I'm numb, angry, or have just given up. Why am I married to such a rat (and why does everyone else think he is the ideal man?)


Prayer House said...


LORD You said as much as possible to live in peace with everyone. There is no condemnation to Eli with Jesus as her personal savior and advocate. You said to be angry but sin not. You raised up Prayer House for those wanting prayer partners to agree with them and we attempt to seek and pray Your will knowing You will do abundantly and above all that we ask or think. In marriage when two do not agree and one commits adultery then You said our sister can leave if she chooses. We agree with her desire to follow You even closer and we pray You will always be the lover of her soul. You sent Your only Son and with Him all things that pertain to life and godliness. Heal Eli of this hurt and brokenness and walk her gently into green pastures and still waters and refresh her. May she be as a green olive plant with dew from heaven in the early morning. May she also be a joyful mother and delight and continue to praise You for You will give her the desires of her heart. With Eli we say, blessed is Your holy Name!

Prayer House said...


LORD we give this matter to You and we said before that we do not judge nor condemn anybody, but You did call us to be fruit inspectors. You said we should know wolves in sheep’s clothing by their fruit. However, none is beyond Your reach and we are praying You will grant Kim’s husband acknowledgement to the truth and that You will work in his heart that he may begin to fear You and make him uncomfortable in his sin. There is no peace to those that blatantly and in your face use Your Name and Your work as a covering for their sin. We shudder to imagine the day Jesus separates the sheep from the goats. Those that trusted in their good works and had this double standard will hear with trepidation, “I never knew You”!

As angry as Kim is, he is more worthy of pity and compassion may be the suitable word here, Lord. These women that he lured or were lured by him seem to be birds of a feather that stick together.

He may close his ears to his wife and pastor, but You will cause him to hear YOU and that is why we are praying to You. There is no where he can hide from You, and like a troubled sea, there is no rest to those the presumptuously sin against You. He cannot hide under the fig leafs of work either.

Father, we pray for Kim that she understand that her husband is in the miry clay, and there is nothing she can do to pull him out. For her to uncover more stuff that he’s involved with is more frustrating. This is a job for You and she needs to pray fervently and seek Your help if it means fasting or whatever You lead her to do. Put truthful, godly counselors to advice Kim and especially her husband.

This is very troubling to the children, LORD, please protect them and also help Kim stay focused paying attention to their needs for they need to feel loved and secured. May she pray with them that they know they have a heavenly Father that loves them and will never forsake them but be there for them.

Show Kim what to do and to trust You as she goes to the ROCK that is higher than she when she is overwhelmed. We also pray You will meet all her physical and material needs as well, Jehovah Jireh.
Thank You LORD for we have agreed to cast this care upon Your alter of prayer, and by Your grace and mercy You will intervene because You have compassion in this wife and mother and what she is having to endure. No one understands her like You do. No one can help her husband like You can. We pray You will draw this man close to You by the Blood of the Lamb Who takes away the sin of the world and the shame. Grant him repentance and save this man from his sin, save this marriage Lord, we ask it in Jesus Name, amen.

annie said...

Dear frineds in Christ, my Husband and I need your prayers. My Husband of 15 years and father of our 2 children had an affair with a co-worker for over 3 years and i found out about it earlier this year. I love my husband dearly and even now, after 8 months that he left me and is living with the other woman, i trust in the Lord and believe that with God all things are possible. My husband has not asked for divorce and continues to support the family while he lives with this woman. I am seeking God continously and being faithful unto HIM and respecting my marriage vows in every way. I have been praying the hedge of thorns pryaer for my husband in the belief that he will be protected and our marrige preserved. Pray for myself and my husband Rob that he move closer to God and see the wrong he is doing. I ask also for prayers for the other woman, that she release my husband to return to his home and his family.

Prayer House said...

Annie, thank You for visiting us and inviting us to be your prayer partners and friends in Christ indeed. We hope you will strengthen your faith with the many Bible scriptures we have included for you to confess over your husband and yourself believing God who sent His Word to save us from all destruction. We know that the enemy came to kill, steal, and destroy, but our Lord Jesus came to save, heal, and restore and give us life in abundance. Praise God.

LORD thank You for inviting us to come with confidence unto this altar of prayer--Your gracious throne of mercy & grace-- to obtain help from You for Annie’s need.

Jesus asked a blind man what he wanted and the man didn’t hesitate to present his need although Jesus already knew. You already know all that is going on with Annie and her husband and You may be asking her what she wants. From what she writes to us we bring this petition in agreement with her to save her marriage. Knowing that it is Your will that this husband repent of his sin and sin no more. Knowing that You hear our prayer. Knowing that You are more than able to save this husband from his sin.

After 15 yrs of marriage and with 2 children a couple may let their guards down and not be vigilant as You warn. Adultery is a grave sin in Your eyes and we come to You for an abundance of grace to save, and that Annie will forgive her husband in the person of Jesus that lives in her heart with a love that covers a multitude of sins.

We pray LORD that You will break up this affair and deliver Annie’s husband from lust and the devil’s lies. Put the fear of God in him LORD, convince him by Your Holy Spirit of this particular sin, and of righteousness, and judgment. Also put Your terror in this woman that the devil used to entice him.

We are thanking You that he has not asked for a divorce and that he is faithful in supporting his family. Annie is turning the other cheek and respecting her marriage vows. By her godly living may her husband see the virtuous woman he married. Stir Your gift of love in Annie’s husband by Your Spirit to love his wife as Christ loved the Church and gave His life for it. Only You can reach him where no one else can. We pray he attend his ears unto godly counsel. Let him hear the Gospel of salvation--Your power to save. May Annie’s husband come to You with a broken and a contrite heart confessing he has sinned especially against You.

With Annie, we also trust and believe that with You our Father all things are possible.
May Annie not give up because You do not give up. She is seeking You for answers to this problem, and she shall find. She is knocking and asking, and You will not forsake her. Our Lord Jesus came to seek that which was lost. You sent Him for the very purpose of saving us from our sins. You are Annie’s strength and You sustain her, she will not be moved. Her love for her husband compels her. You understand because You love her husband more than she does. You are his maker, You sent Your Son to die for his sins. O Lord, bring him back to his wife.

We pray in agreement, also knowing You do abundantly and above all that we ask or think. We thank You and praise You and leave this petition with You Who is able to do all things well. Thank You Father in Jesus Name.

Anonymous said...

My husband and I have been married for 18 years. About 8 years into the marriage I had an affair. I did all that I could to prove to my husband that I still love him, and that i am truly sorry. Now in our 18th year of marriage my husband took a job out of state and started seeing another women. He said they are not sleeping together, but that's not what she said. He feels we should separate for a while and work on ourselves. I think he is using separation as an excuse to see someone else. When ever we talk he still calls me babe. He says he still loves me but not like before. He said I really hurt him when I had the affair. I'm asking for prayer to save my marriage, please. I really feel my husband is still in love with me, and I know I am still very much in love with him. I don't want to loose my husband. Please pray for our marriage and family.

Juanita said...

Dear Lord, I come to you again today to ask You to heal our marriage in Your way. Lord I pray that this marriage will not end in a divorce. Dear Lord I pray that You will tough my husbands heart right now Lord, that he will come to his senses. Lord I pray in the Name of Jesus that my husband will love me again. Lord put a wall between my husband and the other woman so that this relationship will permanently end right now. Lord I put the blood of Jesus between them Lord. Let the other woman find a new person to love Lord. I thank you for that right now. Thank you for you are innerventing right now and stop this relationship and heal our marriage. Thank you Jesus. Please pray for me and my 2 sons. Thank you Jesus for this restoration in our marriage. Thank you. In Jesus Name I pray. Amen

Prayer House said...


Emma, receive a warm hug from us, may the Spirit of our loving Savior hold you close. You are not alone and we will be here to pray for you.

Heavenly Father, we gather with Emma and together in agreement lay this prayer request on her behalf. You know the whole situation, Lord, but nevertheless you want us to bring all our concerns to you because You care for us. You understand what it is to be betrayed, to be robbed of what is ours and what You gave us.

Thank You because You let us know that You are faithful and just to forgive us our sins and You do not turn away a broken and contrite heart. Emma has approached You with a humble spirit and You don't even remember her sin anymore. Now her husband needs to do the same, Lord, help him and deliver him from the spirit of whoredom. We pray Your Spirit will minister to him and that he will forsake his sin before you most of all. Put Your fear in him that he apply wisdom In removing himself from hellfire.

LORD, Emma has known her husband for a long time that they've been married and she perceives he still loves her and she loves him. Help Emma to be strong and not accommodate her husband and enable him in his sin. He will have to make a decision of being with Emma for a lifetime or not. Let him see what a terrible tragedy it would be for him to lose his beloved Emma forever.

Heal Emma and her husband LORD, and heal this marriage as only You know how. It is not by might nor by power nor manipulation, but by Your Spirit. Multiply unto them Your grace to bring them together as one and one with You. We thank You that You have received our prayer together for Emma and that You will never leave her nor forsake her. You have already undertaken it and You are working all things together for Emma's good.

We pray and thank You in Jesus Name. Amen.

Prayer House said...


LORD we come in agreement with Juanita. We pray aloud her prayer. Lord You are able to hear our heart's cry, yet we read in Your Word how some of Your saints cried to you with a LOUD voice, and our LORD JESUS did the same. He even shed drops of blood as he fervently prayed. He told his disciples to stay up with Him, for even an hour, not to fall into temptation, for the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak.

LORD JESUS you are a compassionate high priest and know about the infirmities of us Your creatures, but You are so merciful and You are love. Lord Jesus take our sister Juanita's tearful words and meet every one of them by speaking Your Word to revive this couple's love for one another and restore their sacred marriage as only You know how.

We pray for Juanita and their two sons. Comfort them, embrace them and let them know how much You love them and that You are their protector. You are their defender and You are I AM! You will meet their need according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus.

We declare Jesus is LORD of all over Juanita and her family and He reigns over any problem they face because they have You as their Savior. Bring them comfort, hope, and peace, especially during this season that the world and Your church celebrate our Savior's birth on earth. Peace on earth good will to men and to this family. We pray Juanita's husband will reconcile with You through Jesus Christ, who came to save us from our sins. HE IS GREAT! We have faith in the shed blood of our Savior on the cross. We serve a risen Savior, praise You Lord!

In Jesus Name we pray Amen.

koopersmom said...

hello all,
my name is stacy and my husband left me and our two kids about 3 months ago, for someone else, he has come back twice since then only to leave again. she has some sort of weird control over him, she wont allow him to talk to me or come to our home. he says he still loves me but needs to see if things will work out with her.. i know god is telling me to be patient and endure the fire... but im really hurting... i guess im just in need of a little encouragment not to give up!

Prayer House said...

LORD, we ask Your Spirit to lead us in this prayer as we come together in agreement with Stacy before Your throne of mercy and grace. Lord we pray You send Your rhema Word to Stacy’s husband and save him from destruction for the sin of adultery, thus we pray he gets convinced of sin, righteousness, and judgment. Put the fear of God in him that he may have understanding and wisdom and depart from this evil. Draw him close to You by the blood of Your Son Jesus Christ, the Lamb of God, for the propitiation of our sins.

We also pray the blood of Your Son shed on Calvary for our sins and deliverance as we COMMAND these controlling spirits IN THE NAME OF JESUS to release Stacy’s husband from any kind of soul ties and mind control that is evil. We bind the spirit that is operating in this other woman that has stolen Stacy’s husband IN THE NAME OF JESUS; Father You cast it where You will, away from hurting this couple that You joined together in holy matrimony. Father, we pray You loose Your Spirit of freedom to release Stacy’s husband from this bondage of adultery, lust, and all lying spirits that have deceived him.

Rekindle the fire of Your agape love in this man for his wife Stacy, and heal this marriage. You will strengthen Stacy and give her heart courage as she waits on You.

LORD, anything else, we give it to You, for You are an all-knowing, all wise, powerful, and God of love, and You will do this Your way, and we trust You will. In Jesus Name, we pray, Amen.

Prayer House said...

Please pray for my husband. We have been married for 22 years and all throughout all the time he cheated on me severally. it has gotten to a stage now that if something is not done, I am convinced he will never change. But I know I serve a living God and he can do all things. I am believing a change for my husband of 22 years. Please pray that he becomes a totally changed person. Thank you.

HEAVENLY FATHER, IN THE NAME OF YOUR SON, JESUS CHRIST, we come into Your Throne of mercy and grace to pray with Rachel in agreement, as You said, for her husband. We intercede on her behalf for her husband that has has committed the act of adultery without repentance from what she discloses. In our human nature You said there is nothing good in the flesh, but with You, Almighty God, powerful, but merciful, in your amazing love this husband's heart can be turned to You.

Father, Psalm 25 gives us insight as to what unconfessed sin can do, make one miserable. If Stacy's husband is a Christian,You chastise him as a loving Father and will not enable him to be comfortable in his sin. If he is not a Christian, LORD, we pray You get his attention, for it's against You he is doing this evil and using his own body. He is also hurting Your daughter and she is crying out to You to help her husband of 22 years.

LORD OF THE HARVEST send laborers of love his way to give him godly counsel and preach to him Your saving gospel with power unto salvation.
All we see is the unrighteous fruit in Stacy's husband, but You see the root problem. We pray You will meet his need to know the Savior.
You are Stacy's strength and You are giving her courage as she waits upon You. Help her to ever be close to You and rejoice in You as she waits.

Thank You, Father, it's in your hands and we are confident that You will do exceedingly above all that we ask or think, according to Your Spirit of might and intercession. We pray in Jesus name, Amen.

jane said...

I ask that you pray for my husband Kerwin to repent his sin & selfishness and receive Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. Also, please pray to God to give Kerwin my husband a burden & repentant heart.

He committed adultery and wanted to end our 8 years marriage. We have a 4 year old son together. He is into getting tattooes (which he idolized) and tattoo industry (he's a tattoo artist) where he devoted his time and life in exchange of his family. And also where he met the girl he cheated on me with. It breaks my heart & feel so helpless whenever my son tells me that he wants mommy & papa together.

Thank you so much. God Bless

Prayer House said...

Father God, we come before You in prayer and agreement with Jane for her husband, Kerwin, summoning up to You her request, that Kerwin repents of his sin and selfishness and receive Jesus Christ as his own personal Lord and Savior. May Your Holy Spirit move upon Kerwin that he fear and gets a burden that he’s sinned before You and that he repents.

We know Jane is not wrestling against her husband nor mistress, but against evil spirits. We know these deceiving spirits have influenced Kerwin to want to end his marriage with Jane of eight years. LORD, You will do what You will to bring Kerwin back to you. May he see how precious his little son is to him, and this adventure is not worth it nor compared to the treasure he has with his own wife and son.

LORD, we are looking into a root problem showing up as unrighteous fruit in this husband. Prepare his heart to receive Your visit, LORD, and remove all those bad spirits that Kerwin may have a personal encounter with You without interference.

LORD, we are Your body and mouth, and in the Name of Jesus Christ we bind these lying spirits and command them to loose their hold on Kerwin. We pray You loose Your Spirit of counsel and might to minister to him and give him a revelation that it is You speaking to him, Your voice is powerful! You will know who to send or if You will speak to him in a small still voice.

May this other strange woman suddenly not be a desire to him. May he miss his own cistern and his own wife and the sanctity of his home with his own family. Guide him back to Jane, LORD, and do it in Your own perfect way. We ask it in Jesus name, amen.

Anonymous said...

Please pray for my family. I have been married to my husband for 8 years, with two wonderful children, and two step chidren. We are a proud military family. My husband has been bound my a temptress spirit. He has struggled with a sex addition and has now found a woman from the Ashley Madison website, who he is "in love with". She is also married. On the outside of this deceit, my husband is a good man. He has broke down in tears, crying that he wants this to be gone. He has gone down to the alter at church and wept. I am devastated. Although he has asked for a divoroce, saying he cant deal with the guilt..nothing has been put into motion yet. We have discussed seperating first, so that he can deal with this problem before jumping to a divorce. I too feel that the lord is telling me stop being the fixer, and get out of his way. My heart is broken. I love my husband and this family. Please pray for us. Although he went down to teh alter and cried the other day, I still feel this tempting spirit in my home. I'm afraid for my family.

Prayer House said...

LORD, the strange woman hunts for the precious souls and we come agreeing in prayer with mbrenner for deliverance for her husband’s soul.
You know the root cause how and why all this happened and we pray You will root out the culprit and sow Your seed and Root of Jesse to be planted in mbrenner’s husband heart. How You do this LORD, we give commit it to You.

This is more than an illicit affair, it involves the affair of an entire family that You established eight years ago with the blessing of four innocent children.

As a military family, You also bless their service to our country which is the cradle of the Gospel of Jesus Christ that our patriot fathers fervently prayed for. This encourages us LORD, what prayer to You can do, for this country was founded by God fearing men that prayed.

JESUS YOU ARE LORD and have been given power and authority in heaven and on earth, and given a Name above all times. IN YOUR NAME LORD JESUS we audibly proclaim it over this temptress spirit that must kneel down to You and depart from mbrenner’s husband.

Give this husband unadulterated love for You because You loved him first. You satisfy the hungry soul where we can confidently say, the LORD IS MY SHEPHERD AND I SHALL NOT WANT. We pray your unction break the spirit of lust from him. Rekindle this marriage, refresh them with dew from heaven. Sever the relationship with this strange woman, upset his stomach at the sight of Ashley Madison. Destroy this website, put it to ruin.

He wants to be delivered LORD, he is crying out to You for help. We intercede for him under Jesus Christ, Priest forever. Built up the broken walls and protect this family LORD GOD ALMIGHTY. Give this husband a heart of flesh and write Your commandment, THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY with Your finger. Remove the desire from him going into divorce proceedings. You hate divorce. Bring conviction that will lead him to godly repentance.

We are not fixers LORD, but You are, and that is why we are appealing to You. Jesus You are praying for this family now. Remove the spirit of fear with Your perfect love. YOU ARE LORD over this situation. Help this wife to trust and wait on You and delight in You as she is waiting. You work in mysterious ways. We praise You LORD! We pray together in agreement for this cause and this family in Jesus Name. Amen.

Anonymous said...

Please pray for my husband. We have been together for over 32 years. He started this affair when we were living apart because of his job, his new job and I was in cancer treatment. He said he left her, we moved and he deserted me. We have daughters who are away at college, I moved to where he is and know no one. He won't talk to our priest, he said he is looking for another church. What church says adultery is fine? I love him very much, I am true to him, I am here alone. I have gotten another cancer that they are treating. He has not talked to our girls in over a year, he has turned his back on everything. When I talk to him, it is as though we haven't known each other very long, he is like another person. I don't know what to think, I have been with him over 3 decades. I am closer to him than anyone on earth. I pray for him, for him to look towards God, to not turn his back on God, on his marriage and family. I don't know what to think.

Prayer House said...

LORD You are the Creator of marriage, You said T and her husband Michael would be together as one and let no one divide them. You will not undo what You have established very good from the beginning. We know that the devil came to kill, steal, and destroy and we recognize this as his evil work. You said it is not against flesh and blood we come against in a spiritual battle, but against these dark principalities that rebelled against You with Lucifer, the satan who is going about luring, deceiving, and as a roaring lion seeing whom he can devour. He came when this couple was in a vulnerable state and T had a front-burner situation with the cancer battle.

We stand in the gap for this husband, Michael, T’s husband. We are not against him, but for him for You to help him. It is very damaging for the whole family and a bad example to their young adult daughters to witness their father cheating on their mother. I pray they will look to Jesus as the perfect example, and see their father with mercy and in bondage, as sin is a cruel master. We pray GRACE upon his life and the lives of the whole family. Sin victimizes more than the one caught in it. We pray Jesus will be the bridge and peace maker of their soul and relationship with one another. You make all things beautiful in Your time. May T not give in or up but wait on You.. Fill her emptiness and loneliness with You where she will find fullness of peace and joy.

Send godly companionship to her and Your under shepherds that will feed her Your Word. It doesn’t matter what a church says, it is what You say. A church cannot save or condone any actions as right or wrong, only You. And You let us know in Your Word that adultery is a very serious sin that is committed with one’s own body.

T loves her husband, and this love is legitimate and right inYour eyes. LORD, we pray You will stir Your gift of love by Your Holy Spirit in Michael’s heart for his wife of 32 years. May it be stronger and better than ever after this.

We also pray for her healing, strength, endurance, all that she needs in this tribulation she is experiencing. Yes LORD when these situations assail, we go to the Rock that is higher than us, and that is You. Our help comes from You, and that is why together we come to You to undertake and under gird this marriage with Your wisdom and power.

We pray together in agreement in Jesus name, amen.

Sandee said...

My husband had a long adulterous affair and when confronted about it at first denied it, but then admitted it after confronted with "saved emails" about it. He doesn't want a divorce and says "it's over" but my heart is broken and I am having a hard time with trusting him. Please pray for me. I don't know if I'm a fool for staying.

Elsa said...

Please pray for my Husband he committed adultery and has been gone for 8 months. God has promised to restore my marriage and I believe it will happen in his time. I have decided to trust in him and do nothing... he is in control and will do it all. It still hurts and every day that passes by I have new hurts.

Elsa said...

Sandee- take the time to listen to what God has to tell you. Only he can direct all your steps. Will pray for you

Prayer House said...


Our Father, you know all the details and the people involved in this adulterous affair better than anyone, and we bring this problem to you because You hear us and You are the only One that has the answers and the One that can help as we heed Your counsel and trust You.

From Sandee's writing, her husband admitted to the affair after he got caught with evidence. But You saw it when it happened LORD, and it is against You he has sinned, breaking the vows he made with his wife before You when they married. But we are here in prayer to You to help him and Sandee. May Your goodness lead him to godly sorrow because You will not turn away a contrite heart and one that is calling on Your help to do what is right before you, though weak. We raise him up to You to save him and not to weigh him down and write him off. He doesn't want a divorce and he says it's over. Make those words strong in Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, You will make them good because it is Your will from Your Word. Your Son was manifest to destroy the works of the devil, and He came to give us abundant life.

You are the One that can heal the hurt in Sandee, O Balm of Heaven. Divine Love has no limits to its endurance. I pray both Sandee and her husband will trust in You to sanctify them. Your Word has power, Your Name has power, the shed blood of our Savior never loses its power, and it is by Your Spirit. You said it is You that works in us both to will and do of Your good pleasure.You have given this couple the desire to be one again, no one dividing them. May they not give the devil any more leverage. May Sandee forgive her husband, and may he also forgive himself. May the past be left in the past, and may they together look to today and the future for a blessed life together in Your love that never fails.

We pray in Jesus name, amen.

Prayer House said...


LORD we pray for Elsa's husband that has been gone for all these months, but not from You. You know his lying down and waking up; if he makes his bed in hell, there You are. There is no place he can hide from You. We pray you knock on his door and sup with him to reason together. Grant him repentance to acknowledging his sins and be cleansed from all unrighteousness.

Elsa is gracious to think and pray for others, even as she herself is in need. As she is about Your business, You are about hers. Thank You for speaking to her from her storm. Your precious promises in Jesus that are yea and amen. the Yea and Amen has sealed them. Keep her in the most holy faith. As she waits on You, she is growing stronger and stronger. Yes, LORD, You are in control and she has put her marriage in Your hands. Surely You will keep that which she has committed unto You.

Give Elsa Your peace that passes all understanding as she focuses in Jesus, the Author and the Finisher of our faith.
Heal her wounds and deliver her from bitterness. Love is stronger than hate because Love is You and no one or nothing is greater. In peace and quietness is her salvation. Lead her beside Your still waters and green pastures. May she rejoice in the Lover of her soul! We declare Jesus Christ is LORD over her cause and in Him we have the victory. To You be the glory now and forever, Amen.

Anonymous said...

My husband of 32 years is having an affair and living with the person. Please pray for him to see this is a sin and to turn toward God and see he has a wife who loves him so much, a family, and to come home.

stella77056 said...

Please pray for my husband to leave strange woman alone and for any strange woman to lose interest.Please pray for him to turn back towards God .To leave his mothers house and return back home.Pray for Thomas to take his role as husband seriously.Please pray for all anti marriage ties and activities to broken out of his life.Pray for my husband to come to an end of himself and depend on God.Please pray for passion and love to be restored in our marriage.

Prayer House said...


Dear Father, we appeal to You for the wrong decisions T’s husband has made, knowing he has been blinded by the god of this world, and knowing that the battle is not with flesh and blood but these seductive evil spirits. We agree with T’s petition before You, and pray her husband will see his sin and turn toward You in repentance for You will forgive him. We are asking for Your Spirit to reveal to him he is sinning against You, and You do not justify him unless he repents of this sin of adultery. His wife loves him and wants him to come home. Help this married couple to be one under You again. Restore this marriage and heal all the harm and hurt it has caused. Be with T’s family and may they be forgiving and also turn to You for help and strength. T has done the right thing it bringing this problem to You, for You are much greater than anything and for You nothing is impossible. Help them speedily LORD, we pray in Jesus Name.

Prayer House said...


YES LORD, Prayer House partners are in agreement with Stella’s prayer for her marriage. Remove this and all strange women far away from this husband’s heart, from where the works of the flesh proceed. Guide him back to You and save him from his sin. When this couple married before You, it was written by You that they were to both leave father and mother and cleave to one another as one flesh. Fulfill this agreement, LORD, we pray. Work in Thomas’ heart both to will and do of Your good pleasure, and it is a good thing he found a good wife and chose marriage which is honorable, but You said You would judge fornicators and adulterers. Put godly fear in this husband, and remove the scales from his eyes. We pray You will have mercy on him and that Your goodness will lead him to repent. Break this enchantment that has lured him to leave him wife for a stranger. Restore this married couple and enrich their marriage again. Breathe new life into them, and we will give You all the praise and honor, for You know how to deliver and save us from our sins. Thank You LORD, in Jesus Name we pray.

Alexandra said...

My adulterous husband.
we have been married for 23 years. My husband has been having an affair most of the time.
in 1996 I also had an affair. for a few months. I know that I was wrong. At the moment I was a backslider. in 1999 I went back to Jesus. I asked Jesus to forgive my for my adulterous behaviour.When I had more confidence with one of my pastor I confess my sin to him. After a few months a told my husband about my affair and I asked him to forgive me. I taught he forgive after a few years he started to throwing it in my face and he has been kept on doing that till the day of today.
I have proof that he had different affairs but he always denied it.
At this moment he is on vacation with someone else. This is not the fist time ii has been going on for years now way before I had an affair. He will stay with them for a few years.
I don't want my heart to be fill with hatred , anger frustration.
I have 3 sons (21, 18 and 13)they are also fill with hatred and disappointment From since last week Thurday he left and we didn't hear nothing from him this is not the first time he act like this. He also give them money and stay without paying our mortgage. We are having problem with the bank because of this.
I think it is time for me to take a stand. I want God to guide. I don't want to make any more mistake but I can't dare to see him chatting on the internet with his women. It frustrate me.
Can you please pray for me and my children. I don't want to have any kind of negative feeling in my heart toward my husband and his women. I want my heart to be fill only with love, peace, joy and all the fruits of the Holly Spirit. I believev that one day God will grief into Joy.

Prayer House said...


Father, we lift up Alexandra to you as we pray for her husband and marriage of 23 years. We come before You, the Founder of marriage and Author of marriage vows. You meant for this marriage to last for a lifetime. The enemy came to kill, steal, and destroy and we look to You to help this couple come back to where they left You.

You will not remember the sins we’ve repented of, but the accuser comes and uses whoever is weak and vulnerable to disrupt the peace and harmony in relationships. May Your Spirit remind Alexandra that her battle is with who’s behind her accusers, and it is not flesh and blood.

There is no justification for adultery, until it’s confessed and there is fruit of repentance. Wherever Alexandra’s husband is right now, may Your Spirit convince him it is You he is sinning against and his soul is in danger. Do not allow him to be comfortable in his sin; send whom you elect to give this runaway husband godly counsel; he is really running from You.

It is natural for the natural person to feel resentment for what this husband is doing, but You said the wrath of man does not produce righteousness, and LORD we pray that Alexandra will throw the net on the other side and give herself wholly to You, to delight in You. She will have strength and You will give her the desires of her heart. She has chosen the right thing, to bring it to You, Captain of our salvation and restorer of all good things. Save this marriage LORD for Your glory.

We also pray for their three sons, two of whom are adults, that You will move in their lives and in their heart to forgive their parents, especially their father. We know the cause of everything in this life is sin, and only You can save. Deliver this family, O mighty God!
Let there be love, peace, and joy in this home. Let it begin with Alexandra, and may the fire of Your Spirit be contagious.

Father, also You are the supplier of all our need. There is a chain reaction when there is a breakage of your laws that You put in place to protect us, but You are gracious, longsuffering, and plenteous in forgiveness, and we believe You will not forsake this family that You love. Alexandra wants You to be her guide, and also we pray that her children, and especially her husband will surrender to You. We stand on Your Word for Alexandra that has made this commitment to follow You, that it is You that works in her both to will and to do of Your good pleasure.

We believe with Alexandra that You will turn her grief into joy and gladness. In Jesus Name.

Frances said...

Please pray for my marriage to be healed... I am the one that went outside of our marriage w/ an exboyfriend. There was minimal sexual activities. We had sex three times in 4 months. My Husband moved out of our home before a physical affair started. He had told me it was over for good. We had been having lots of issues that I felt like we should be done. Now I regret ever doing anything. I have reconnected w/ my husband and we tried for the last 2 months to wk @ our broken marriage. This week he has told me that he's not sure he can ever forgive me. I am heartbroken and want to do what ever possible to make our marriage work. In the last two months we have really connected and I have fallen in love with him all over again! I ask for any help or guidance from the lord to please help us mend our marriage. We have 2 amazing children and I want my family back! I will forever regret my actions. Please help gain my husbands trust back and give me the tools to rebuild trust in my marriage! I am in your hands lord. Amen

Julian said...

Please pray for healing in my marriage. My wife has left after having a four-month emotional affair. She is the love of my life, the mother to my children, and my best friend. She provided love to my two boys when they did not have one, we recently added a beautiful girl to our family last year. She is in sin and the enemy has a hold of her heart and mind decieving her that she is justified and causing her to question or marriage. I too have sinned. Last summer I spent time playing poker at the casino during the work week and I hid that from her. over the summer I spent $9,000+ dollars doing this...what i did was sin as I hid this from my best friend...I hid it because it was wrong and I knew it and I was ashamed of it as i should have been focused on working instead. God is showing me areas of my heart that are wrong and I am listening. Please stand in agreement with me that God is good and He is faithful, and my marriage is not over - He can do all things according to His Will and His will is not to seperate or destroy, but to heal and bring us to Him. May God use the Holy Spirit to intervene in our lives, that God can use our lives as a testimony to Him that we might be witnesses to others in this situation and lead them to God. He is wonderful! Thank you for this agreement in prayer. It is necessary.


Prayer House said...


FATHER GOD, in the name of Your Son, the Lord Jesus, we bring to you a prayer request by Frances in her own words, and we pray, also in the words of Your Holy Spirit that will communicate and intercede on her behalf. We at Prayer House, a ministry You gave to use as Your prayer house for those being hurt through adultery, are in agreement with her for You to heal her marriage.

You have not turned away from her, she came before you with a broken and contrite heart confessing her sins to you and in true repentance, and in Jesus words, you have not condemned her and no one else has the right to, for none of us is without sin. We thank You for our mediator and perfect high priest, the Lord Jesus who is also the Lamb of God which takes away the sins of the world, our Redeemer and Savior.

LORD, the devil moved in the wedge when Frances' husband, the strong man, moved out. Taking the easy way out of our problems is deceptive and the adversary takes advantage of the red carpet, inviting him to come steal, and destroy. Frances and her husband are trying to work things out and You see that, Father, and Jesus said He is the True Vine and believers in Him are the branches, and without Him we can do nothing. The devil is playing hard ball because He knows that his time is short, and we need to seek You with all our heart, mind, soul, and strength and not leave anything for the devil to use against us. Unforgiveness is his favorite weapon, as he was not given a second chance once he transgressed against You, yet You have given us much forgiveness and mercy. Your Word said, if You so forgave us, we should also forgive one another. May Your Spirit help Frances' husband to receive it.
LORD, You are the Potter, and You are more than able to reconstruct this broken marriage, and these broken hearts. You, working in the hearts of this couple, can make their marriage work and stable, because the sure foundation is Jesus Christ.

Bless this family, especially during Mothers Day, bring them gladness for sadness. What the devil meant for evil, turn it for good, and we see from Frances' writing that she and her beloved husband have reconnected and fallen in love as in their honeymoon.

Yes, LORD, give them help and guidance by the Comforter, the Holy Spirit, and restore, heal, build this family on the solid foundation of the faith. Encourage Frances' husband to trust You with his wife. May he forgive her and remember her past no more, just as You are so gracious to forgive him all his trespasses. We leave this prayer request in Your hands, LORD, in Jesus name we agree in prayer before You. Amen.

Prayer House said...



We come boldly to Your Throne, O God, for help and grace, and mercy for Julian's need, thank You for inviting us. You are the perfect Counsellor and Prince of Peace, Restorer, Healer, Savior, the Alpha and Omega, and everything in between, YOU ARE THAT YOU ARE. At You Word this marriage is healed, and Your Word spoke with authority when You said, whom You have joined together, let no one put asunder. The devil is a trespasser, and he intimidates, but the just shall live by faith, and Julian and we stand with him onYour Word that was spoken when this couple came together in holy matrimony in Your presence and the presence of witnesses. You gave Julian his wife and she belongs to him, and him to her. You gave a loving, nurturing mother to Julian's sons, and blessed them with a beautiful girl also. LORD, you are generous and good. Julian found a good wife.

Thank You, LORD, that there is plenteous forgiveness from You for the sin of adultery also. Unite Julian's wife heart to fear You, and you will deliver her from all worldly fears. You are her security, and You provided her with a husband that loves and cherishes her. Unmask the devil as a liar, she does not need this adulterous affair, her husband Julian is the only man she wants and needs.

Gambling is also a robber and deceiver, and Julian has repented of it before You. We pray his wife will forgive him also, as the LORD Jesus taught us to forgive AS we want others to forgive us our trespasses. We are depending on You, LORD, to do the work, the healing, the restoring, the building, and first of all, destroying the work of the devil. Give this family life, and life more abundantly in Your Son, LORD. May this loving couple trust You with each other. It is You who works in us both to will and do of Your good pleasure, for your glory. You make all things new and BETTER! With You, they can do all things because the Lord Jesus is their strength and mediator and Savior.

Come Holy Spirit, make Julian's marriage good and whole. Intervene for them, especially when they are weak, merciful God. Turn these tests, into a testimony of Your goodness and mercy and saving power. Yes LORD, You are wonderful, and we thank You in agreement for this prayer, in Jesus Name. Amen.

Julian said...

Thank you for your prayer and agreement. I believe God is always good and always faithful. He will reveal His Will and I am being changed for the better, to serve His heart and be a testiment to His Glory. I believe the enemy is bound here on Earth in Jesus name and whatever is bound on Earth in His name is also bound in heaven. The enemy is defeated.

God bless you and everyone seeking His truth and His favor, I stand in agreement on all these prayers.

Eryn said...

My husband and I have been married for about 18 months, and what started out as a dream has turned very sour. He has been emotionally abusive for the last year or so, and recently started being physically violent. 3 weeks ago he left our home (with the aid of police responding to my domestic abuse call) and has moved in with a female co-worker. He told me last night, with her talking in the background, that he has found "real love" and that he intends to begin a relationship with her and was informing me that they were going to be having sex. These last few weeks, I had been living in a peace that can only come from God, but this has broken me. I already forgive him for the things he has done and the things he is going to do, but I would like prayer regarding his heart and mind. He has become so ugly on the inside, and only a miracle can change him. I also pray that perhaps this "relationship and sex" is also just an emotional ploy to hurt me, and that he does not actually follow through with this act of adultery and does the right thing.
Lastly, I pray for Christian support in my life, so that I may join together with like minds and pray and receive insight. Thank you!

Prayer House said...

LORD, Eryn has not been married very long, but you meant for marriage of two you joined together to last forever. LORD we want to focus on how great You are, and not how great her problem is. We began by speaking Your grace on this mountain, that in the name of Jesus it will become a plain. We are going to believe and trust You that will make a way where there seems to be none.

We pray You will undertake this situation and help Eryn’s husband to hear from You and pray the fear of God be in him, for he needs Your wisdom and also to keep away from evil. It is not acceptable to You for anyone to be mistreated, especially a wife which is the weaker vessel, and her husband needs to love her as loving his own body. Adultery is sinning with the body and we pray you will deliver him from this evil.

Eryn’s husband has left the home, and You said she should let him go. She is safe from violence right now, emotionally and physically, and she needs healing and rest in You. In the meantime, she is asking You for help for her husband, and we have come together in agreement with her, for with You nothing shall be impossible. We stand in Your Word that Your love never fails or gives up, but perseveres. She has forgiven her husband, and Father that leaves no wedge for the devil, and You said the merciful shall obtain mercy.

We are asking You for a miracle that You make Eryn’s husband a new creature in Christ; that old things pass away and all become new and be of You. We know this is possible with You. Send someone or people to minister to this husband with words of wisdom, and give him understanding.

Ervyn also wants Christian companionship, and LORD we pray You will supply her need according to Your riches in glory by Your Son. May she not stop going to church, and delight in You as she waits on You, for You will give her the desires of her heart.

She is seeking, knocking, asking, and LORD we know You will answer, because she is doing it with all her heart, and knows there is no other help, but only the one that You bring. We thank You LORD for what You are doing and going to do to bring victory to Eryn’s life and marriage. In Jesus Name, Amen.

Michelle said...

Please pray for my marriage. It has been a yr and half that my husband has left me for another woman.4yrs ago he started to change the man I once knew was no longer there. He turned his back on god did not care if his soul suffered and would even say let satan take him. He left our bedroom and began sleepin on the couch, he would start fights for any little reason. He started to belittle me and complain how I looked.I began to pray and asked God to help me and our marriage. What seemed I got instead was my husband falling for his new co-worker.New Yrs 2010 his co-worker told him she was falling for him that he was everyhting she wanted in a man and that his wife was lucky to be married to him why could she not find a guy like him.I had my suspension of her and the 2nd week of jan 2010 I confronted him and he said yes he was falling for her and that it was over between him and I. I confronted her,she told me she did not think he felt the same way and that is why she told him how she felt,she said she was sorry to ruin my marriage,but she was never gonna let my husband go now that she knows he feels the same way.He began to get more involed with her,There relationship and my heart& soul felt like it was getting ripped out of my body. He did not hide anymore his feeling for her or when he was going to stay with her, he became verbally abusive to and his words were so filled with hate.I could not understand or recognize the man he had become.In Sept. I asked him to leave my heart, my mind, everthing in me could not take it anymore I cried for days and night for months I did everthing I prayed but my husband got meaner and wanted her more,so he moved in with her after i asked him to leave. Here we are in May and he is still with her,the meaness towards me is no longer there,but he said he could never come back to me esepcially after what he has done.I know that they fight alot now and he has asked if he could come home to stay a few times I gave in, just to see him walk out the door a week later right back to her.He says he loves her but does not trust her but for some reason he does not want to lose her.He knows it's not right,but she believes God has brought them together she feels their love is special.My heart hurts but now it hurts for my husband soul,cause he still will not turn back to God.He says he cares for me and will always help me but that he no longer wants to be married weather he stays with this woman are not he will not come back to me.He knows I was a good woman to him but he does not love me.I pray with all my heart,that my marriage will be restored,I can forgive because i love him even through all the pain and he says he sees that.I pray that God will really open my husband's eyes and touch his heart again.I pray that the other woman will see that that is not a relationship God blessed because she took a man away from his wife even thought the marriage was falling she came and completely destroyed it as well as what my husband once believed in.This woman has been married 3x and has two children that she gave custody to her mom and does not care to see them only wants to be with my husband. Just as much as I want pray for my marriage I asked that you please pray for this woman who really seems to be lost, i asked god to please bless her and show her what she has done so she can repent and have god in her life so she can have a better life. I also ask you to pray for my husband who is lost because of her and that he find his way home to our marriage and put god first in his life again. That he lets this woman go, it has gone on for a year and half I pray that God will hear my prayers mend my heart, restore my marriage, open my husband and this womans eyes to there sin, so they will repent and be bless by god. Please pray that my husband come back home and that we both work on our marriage so that it will be what I have been praying for even before my husband's affair. Thank you and God bless.

Prayer House said...

FATHER GOD, we come before You in faith, not by sight, believing for all the possible and positive outcomes for Michelle. Help her to believe for what she is asking You in spite of any unbelief, and looking unto Jesus who is the author and finisher of the faith.

We pray her husband will hear the gospel of Christ, Your power unto his salvation, for we are praying for him. Send whom You will, someone to whom he will listen. Prepare his heart, his eyes, his ears to hear from You. Reveal Yourself to him in an undeniable way that he will know that it is You speaking to him by Your Rhema Word.

Undo the works of the devil of 4 yrs ago. Also deal with this strange woman to him who is not his wife, whom the devil has used to kill, steal, and destroy this marriage that you blessed. Unmask the lies of the adversary. You do not approve of this relationship, rather condemn it. They are both sinning with their own bodies and are against their own souls. We ask Your Spirit will convict them of sin, of righteousness, and of judgment. Put the fear of God in them which brings wisdom and departure from evil.

We pray Your unfailing love will comfort Michelle and bring her immediate peace because she is depositing her faith and trust in You, her Maker and Savior. For every word of hate, destroy it, and give her Your words of love. You are her glory and the lifter up of her head.

We pray You will stir Your love in Michelle’s husband heart by Your Spirit for You and for her. We are not ashamed to hope and have faith that, even though it’s been a year and a half, we stand with Michelle, believing this is not beyond Your help. Jesus came to give new life to what was dead. We pray You will revive this marriage with Your agape love.

May this woman have an encounter with You, as the Samaritan woman to whom Jesus said she’d had three husbands, and the one with whom she was living with was not her husband. May she repent of this evil of adultery, and give her life and heart to you.

We know You are hearing Michelle’s prayer, and You said if we believe You hear us, You will give to us what we ask. It is Your will to save, and give back what the locusts, the caterpillar, and the palmerworm have eaten. We pray Michelle’s husband will come back home to her in the Name of Jesus who is Lord of all to Your glory.

Thanking You that You are able to do abundantly, and above all that we ask or think, and working all things together for good according to Your purpose for Michelle who loves you. Grace and peace be multiplied to her, we give it to You Father, in Jesus Name.

LaToya said...

Please pray for the restoration of my marriage, me and my husband have been together since I was 16 im now 30, I found out that my husband was fooling around on me on and off, in 08 I took all I could take and I packed up me and my kids and left. we both started a non-covenant relationship, I lost who I was because of this other man nothing was going right for me, in my life I knew I had to cnofess my sins to Christ I prayed and prayed to God to ask him was my marriage to be restored, I turned my life around completely I stopped hanging out, I cut people out of my life, I got rid of the other guy I start reading all these books, my husband moved this other woman in OUR house with her son, I knew I wanted my husband back, I kept praying to God my husband had filed for a divorce, we were due to go to court 11-30-2010 I never stopped praying, God gave me SIX different dreams that me and my husband was back together, and 11-14-2010 my husband called off the divorce and I moved back home.... now things are worst, he says he doesnt want to be with me he wants me to leave he is back having an affair with the other woman he stays out and dont come home, im so hurt I know to never question God but im truly loss, I feel my husband hates me, he dont talk to me he says just the sight of me disgust him... I constantly pray to God to tenderize my husband heart and pray for my husband to seek God and repent, I dont hear the voice of the lord at all, im depressed I dont know what to think, when he is out of the home all I can do is think of him being with her, since we have been back together I have tried to be the best wife and mother I can, I refuse to even look at other man sexually, I done with that lifestyle.... I just need prayer I dont know what to do and I dont know why I cant hear the voice of God speaking to me
p.s. let me mention my husband goes to church every Sunday, im in deseperate need of prayer

LaToya said...

I pray that God places a spiritual person in my husband life that will tell him of God goodness and mercy, my husband is very bitter, I suggested counseling he wont go, I also pray that God has mercy on this other woman soul her and my husband both needs to know the wages of sin is death, my husband has the attitude that he dont need nobody he treat me horrible, I just pray god shows me what his will is, I love my husbamd dearly I want my marriage to work so bad my kids see all the anger and hositily in the home and its not healthy for them I pray for my husband

Prayer House said...

LORD, we come together in agreement as Jesus invited us to come, praying for LaToya, her husband and marriage. She wants You to restore their marriage of many years with her husband.

Father, as You know she left her husband when she first found out he'd been going out on her, and Your Word advices that under these circumstances, a brother or sister is not obligated to stay. The destroyer went on to devastate her also by using a willing vessel to dishonor her. LORD, she said she confessed and repented of this sin, and it's now under the blood of Your Son, Jesus Christ, and the acuser of the brethren has nothing against her, as there is now no condemnation to those that are in Christ Jesus, that walk not after the flesh, but after Your Spirit. She has done all, and now is standing, seeking, knocking, asking, and LORD, we believe You do hear her and are present to help her. We ask You give her back her husband, we have hope that brings no shame because Your love is shed abroad in our heart, and we cry to You Abba Father for mercy, help and grace for this need.

LORD, she sees things are getting worse as she is again living with her husband, but may You remind her that the just shall live by faith, and for her to keep doing right, and in due season she will reap if she doesn't give up.

Give this husband a desire for his own wife, and may he know that he is despising You as he deals treacherously with her. Remove this other woman from his life and from his heart. Unmask the father of lies and expose him by Your Holy Spirit. Rekindle this marriage by Your grace and Spirit, and with Your love. May this husband repent and seek You for forgiveness, and You said, You would give the sure mercies of David.

Bring joy and gladness for the spirit of heaviness to LaToya. Boost her faith, give her a brand new touch. May she delight in You and do Your will as she is waiting on You, and You will renew her strength and give the desires of her heart.

Allow her husband to hear from You when he is at church, and send godly people that give him sound and Scriptural advice concerning his wife.

We are trusting in Your loving kindness and tender mercies for LaToya. We ask for victory in Your Son to whom You gave all power and authority in heaven and in earth. Glory to God! Thanking You for what You are doing and going to do to help LaToya, in Jesus Name.

LaToya said...

Thanks for the prayer, prayer truly changes things I love my husband deeply. I plead the blood of Jesus, for satan to flee.. and I pray that God has mercy on this wayward woman, my husband belongs home with me and his children, Im the wife of his youth

LaToya said...

I really having doubts now, my husband is still living a destructive life he is still having a affair he stays out all night, I love my husband and I REALLY WANT MY MARRIAGE TO WORK, I pray that God brings someone in my husband life to speak God's word to him, it is a very stressful situation Im really unsure what God wants me to do, I pray all the time but I still dont know I have been having vengeful thoughts of hurting him and her, I pray God removes those evil thoughts from me, I dont know what else to do,Im lonely and confused worst all its hurting the kids.... PLEASE PRAY FOR ME

Prayer House said...

LORD you have given us freewill to choose life or death, and we don't have control over what others do, but no matter what other paths others take, we choose to follow You. We pray and bless those that despitefully use us, knowing we are doing the right thing before You, and Your word encourages us that we may win others by our testimonies.

We pray LaToya will not be brought down with her husband, a repeated offender, but that she will be wise and overcome evil with good. We also choose to burn the midnight oil with her, as she does not want to lose her husband forever and desires her marriage to work.

LORD, bring the right person to speak to LaToya's husband, and prepare his heart to receive Your word and counsel. Deliver him from this evil, and unmask the enemy for what he's doing, killing, stealing, destroying, unlike the LORD Jesus that promises life in abundance.

Bring Your peace to LaToya. The Lord Jesus said in the world we would have tribulation, but to be of good cheer, for He overcame the world. Comfort and encourage her, not to let her emotions override the goodness and good fruit of Your Spirit, for He is with her as her helper and guide in all Your truth. Help her to pull down the strongholds and destructive desires, and bad thoughts. Help her to dwell in Your promises and in Your faithfulness to her, for You will never leave her nor forsake her.You said vengeance is Yours, but we desire restoration for her husband and her marriage.

Fill her with Your cup of joy. Bring godly people that will support her during this storm that will pass; may she hold on to You as we know You are holding on to her. May she identify who the author of confusion is and separate her mind from his tricks.

Everyone is tried in this world, and we pray LaToya's children will witness their mother's peace that passes all understanding, and her not being moved into the enemy's camp, but remaining faithful, as You are faithful to her.
Undertake LORD, help this family and restore this man and woman and their marriage. We ask it in Jesus name.

godschild4ever said...

I am asking everyone to please pray for my husband's salvation. He needs to be reborn and prayers are miracles.

I ask that god will put the precious blood of Jesus in this marriage and family.
I asked god to convict him of his sinful behaviors of lust, adultery,flirtation, lying. I ask god to reveal to my husband to see his sin and turn to god with a pure heart and mind.

God please grace my husband with the holy spirit so he can become the godly man, godly husband and godly father that you intended him to be.

Please change me god so he can see the changes that can only be done thru you.

Please restore this marriage to the type of marraige that god intended.
Please pray for this family and marriage.
God bless.

godschild4ever said...

Please pray that the woman my husband been seeing for almost 4 years that both of them are convicted of their sins and repent. I pray that my husband will see that she's a devil on an assignment who destroyed her marriage and now she's coming to destroy my marraige and to take my husband with her to hell.
I found out about the affair in Feb 2011 when she emailed me and exposed of the 3 1/2 years affair my husband and her were having. I thought it was over, but turns out they are still in contact and seeing each other. She won't let him go and he's tormented to do what is right but at the same time feels guilty or some connection with her.
My husband is weak without god. he needs god. Please pray that god will put godly men in his life that he can open up to and talk to.

Please pray that my husband has eyes only for me. He's always on facebook looking at other ladies and checking out ladies when we are out together or with my two girls.

Please pray that he has the spirit of joy. He's very hostile and mean when I found evidences such as call histories and his stories do not add up when he is suppose to be home and he's not.

These days are dark for me. Please pray that god will give me the strength, endurance, hope, faith, love, self-esteem, the holy spirit to help me thru this.
I ask god for help, guidance and assurance too.
God bless

stephie3516 said...

my husband started telling me a few mon. ago we wasnt happy. he was having anxiety attacks and feeling like hiding. he didnt want to be w/ (anyone). so i started praying hard for depression. well last week i found out that hes been talking to another women. he said she is in another state. but there have been a few times hes not come home. so im no fool. but i love that man, i respect that man and i know where this is coming from. satan can not steal my family. we have worked to hard to get where we are. we were highschool sweethearts and reunited 6yrs ago. he is my one true love. and im not giving him up. we have 4 teens. and his oldest daughter is a recovering herion addict(shes on methadon now)im so worried what this will do to our kids. his kids love me. im their only mom. and they havnt really had the best relationship with him. satan has robbed me of so much. i lost my nephew,brother, mom and dad within 10 mon. and i was so angry at god. untill this with my husband, i blamed god. now i see who it is. ive thrown myself into the bible. and im a praying machine. gods probally wearing ear pluggs by now. im sorry to babble. i guess i just need prayer while god is working. my husband wants me and my kids to move out. and i havnt even told them about this. i mean they knew about the stress and depression. but not im asking god for a miracle before ernie gets tired of me dragging my feet. i went and looked at a place. but only to please him. so he would think i was doing what he wants. he dosnt even know im doing all this with prayer. he would totally shut me out then. right now we have ok conversation. i see him on the phone but i just pray about it. im still doing everything for him. cleaning laundry cooking. running the kids everywhere and working 40 checks are still going into our account. pray for god to show me what i need to do. keep things like they are or stop letting him have his cake and eat it to.i love taking care of him. he is a good man. satan has planted this women in his life. she thinks she won him with words. well im the one his daughter called to come get her from the drug house. im the one that has been searching for her when we thought shed be dead. im the one that could have ran. but didnt, because i love him, his kids and his parents. i only make 10 dollars an hr. i cant take care of 2kids and pay all my not letting go. even though i woke up searched the house and he was gone. we always waits till im asleep. and slithers away like a snake. ask god with me to stop that also. keep my husband home and in the bed we are still sharing. even though he hasnt touched me in about 10days. i still wake up to him holding me sometimes. i know he loves me still. and he told me he didnt love her. i asked, do you want to be with her? he said i dont know. we havnt spent anytime together. god break the ties she has on him. i want this to end at her own doing. so he will see her for what she is. thank you for reading this. god bless you

Shanita Johnson said...
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Woman of Divine Purpose said...

Praying for the healing and restoration of my marriage. husband and i have been married a little over 4 years. I had 2 children prior to marriage. and my husband and I have 2 children together. My older son is a special needs child who had some behavioral issues that created conflict within the home and my husband was forced to leave. my husband has since moved in with another woman and filed for divorce. I ask myself am I wrong to want to have my marriage restored. I am praying Gods will over my marriage. I am praying for His divine intervention to release the bondage and strongholds and bring my husband back to Him and to the family if its His will. Praying for my family to be whole again. It is my deepest desire that our marriage is restored. Thank you for praying and agreeing with me. In Jesus name I pray Amen

Prayer House said...

By Prayerhouseoftwoorthree
For: godschild4ever,

Sister, Jesus asked the blind man what it was he wanted, and the man specifically answered his request, that he might see. You have succinctly put out your request, and God has seen it. There is another example in the Bible where the Holy Spirit says that during prayer God had answered. We are here to agree with you, not wanting to leave anything out.

Father God, you have seen our sister’s letter and we are standing in your Word, Jesus said where two or three agree it shall be done. We want to add that You stir Your love by Your Holy Ghost in this husband’s heart. LORD, we ask that You reach him by Your grace, and draw him close to You by the blood of Your Son, Jesus.

Comfort our sister, and fill her with hope and faith in believing that it will be as she asks. We declare that the Lord Jesus is Lord over all to Your glory, and You sent Him to save chief sinners, and all sinners. He is the Good Shepherd that will seek and save this husband and bring him back from the enemy’s camp and into Your flock. Restore this marriage and the soul of this husband, we pray in Jesus mighty name. Amen.

Prayer House said...

By Prayerhouseoftwoorthree
For stephie3516

LORD, You know what is going on with our sister’s husband, whether he is battling a bad spirit of fear and anxiety, or if he is cheating on his wife, or both. This seems like a big problem, but it isn’t bigger than You, and we bring it together as prayer partners in agreement before You, almighty God.

Father God, there is no shame in our sister loving her husband, and there is no shame in hoping and believing all things are possible with you, and also it is Your will to put together what the devil has tried to kill, steal, and destroy. This is a couple that You, Father God have joined together, whether they’ve been married a second or, in this case, since they were high school sweethearts.

Also, the devil has his agenda to perplex and bring chaos to the entire family. Therefore, LORD, we are praying for this entire family, that You will help each one, and their relationship with one another, and You have told us that it starts with a relationship with You, to first seek Your Kingdom and Your righteousness, and all these right things will be added.

Our sister has had so many problems, also with death in her family. Comfort her, dear LORD, and give her multiplied grace and peace in the midst of her storm, for You are the Master of the wind and sea, and it is Your will to command this storm, PEACE BE STILL.

It is encouraging that our sister is seeking You, and may she understand that her battle isn’t with flesh and blood, but against evil spirits, and LORD teach her to put on the spiritual armor. You said it is not by might nor by power, but by Your Spirit, and this spiritual warfare involves prayer without ceasing, and even fasting and prayer. Help our sister to humble herself before You, and You will exalt her in due time, and for her not to cease in well doing and she shall reap.

Remove this other woman from our sister‘s husband, as You would remove sin, as far as the East is from the West, remove her from his heart and soul.

Our sister loves her husband with a love that can’t fail, and is enduring because she still believes in the restoration of her marriage, and the salvation of her husband. Rekindle the fire of this marriage. May each put You first and above each other and all things, and You will bless them.

We are trusting You will supply all our sister’s and her family’s need, according to Your riches in glory by Christ Jesus, give her strength, for You are the strength of her life and her salvation.

We leave these cares in Your alter of prayer, and may our sister not fear, only believe, even against all odds, for the righteous shall live by faith. We trust in You that this will turn for a testimony to Your glory. Thank You, LORD, we pray in agreement in Jesus name.

Prayer House said...

To Shanita Johnson, we apologize for any inconvenience in response to your post. We pray the good LORD be with you and your prayers, and are answered according to his everlasting love, and tender mercies for you and your loved ones, in Jesus name.

Prayer House said...

By Prayerhouseoftwoorthree
For Woman of Divine Purpose

Our Father, we come in agreement with our sister for You to heal and restore her marriage of four years.

Lord, special needs children are not less, only different, and even superior in ways typical people aren’t. This child may very well be a blessing in disguise, as You only know, for there are no accidents with You. Every person is here with a divine purpose.

A challenge can bring out the best or worst in people. Help our sister at this course where she’s at, and May victory over these trials bring glory to Your name.

We bring all the children of this couple before You to put Your loving hands upon them and bless them.

LORD, speak to our sister’s husband of this wrongdoing, may he be convinced by Your Spirit that adultery is wrong, but You said You’d give the sure mercies of David. We pray Your goodness will lead him to repent.

Teach and lead us to pray, and help our sister to bring down the strongholds, as she submits herself to You and resists the devil, for You will crush him under her feet. Help her not to give up hope and have faith in You, all loving and powerful God. Your mercy endures forever, and we praise You, holy God. We know that bondage is a spirit, and we take up Your sword of Your Spirit, which is Your Word, and command these spirits of bondage to be loosed and flee in the name of Jesus, Lord of all, to Your glory, Father God.

Yes, LORD, we agree together to bring wholeness to his family, You make all things beautiful in Your time, and You will restore what the locusts and caterpillar, and palmerworms have eaten, even seven times over.

Bless, dear LORD, bless this marriage again, and this family, in Jesus name we pray. Amen.

mandat said...

My husband of 8 years left us for another woman he was having an affair with. Pray he comes home to me and his children. I want God to convict him and fill him full of love for his family. He needs Jesus. Please pray for us. We have a 4 year old daughter that is very distraught over her daddy not coming to see her in the last 11 weeks. He got into some trouble and now has to go to jail for 10 days pray that God brings him home to his family. We need him.

Prayer House said...

By Prayerhouseoftwoorthree
For mandat

Our Father, we are praying with mandat for the restoration of her marriage. We pray for the heart of this husband, that You will turn it toward home, and toward You. Stir the love of Your Spirit in his heart to love his wife and children with agape love that never fails. We know there is a problem because of the fruit in his life, but You love him, and his wife and children love him unconditionally. Save him, LORD, this whole family is suffering. May Your goodness lead him to repentance. Have mercy on him, for he is going against his own soul. We pray Your loving kindness will draw him to Jesus, and home. Let him see there is no place like sweet home. Send to him godly counsellors that he will listen to, and that Your Spirit will convince him. Thank You, LORD, for receiving our prayer of agreement in Jesus name.

donna said...

I thank God for allowing me to find this website. I am so sad that many wives are suffering due to their unfaithful husbands. I too am suffering and hurt because i have a strong suspicion that my husband is having an affair with one of his staff. We are married for 19 years now and has two children. More than 3 years ago i already suspected that he has a feeling for this girl MC. I found out in his cellphone love messages for the girl. His deep love for her, and consider her his second wife. His Mrs B. I found out he is giving her gifts,flowers,etc and dating her in some remote restaurants. I fear that they have already consummated their feelings for each other. He continually takes and drops her in his way to work and back home until now. You see my husband drives to his workplace everyday which is more 1 hour away from our place. And he passes the house of the girl on his way. He is still a good provider though and we sleep in the same bed but a kiss or a peck is already a thing of the past. I am celibate now for more than 2 years by force of circumstances. I wanted to be angry at him, confront him and the girl but i fear that it will only make things worse and he will leave us.. I do not want him to be put in a bad situation also because he is a respected person in his field and likewise i do not want to shame the girl too. So I chose to keep silent and suffer alone. I had to keep up a front that everything is alright between us, that I do not knew of his illicit affair just so that we will not fight or the children will not know. He also often treats our son (who has special needs) with contempt. He keeps on insulting him, put him to shame.
I beg you to please pray for him, that the power of evil will not overpower him. That his love to his wife of his youth will return and the fire of his love will come back. I pray too to separate him and the girl like east and west and she will find another man that will make her fall in love more than what she felt for my husband and marry her. That God will sustain me and keep my health in good shape.


Prayer House said...


Abba Father, we cry to you on behalf of Donna and her plea for her husband that may be having an affair. If this is true, LORD, we pray You will undertake and cancel the assignments of all seducing, lying spirits that are trying to break up Donna’s marriage using another victim, Mrs. B.

These flowers, gifts, and dining should be for his wife and family, and not for an intruder. LORD, we pray You do what You will about this. We know this is not true love, but lust, and adultery is evil in Your sight. Awaken Donna’s husband, and let Your Spirit convince him of sin and judgment. May he turn to righteousness and the fear of the LORD.

Father God, may Donna receive wisdom from You. She has turned this matter to You, and we know You will direct her path. You said in Your Word that a married couple should come together often as not to be tempted, except for fasting and prayer. Perhaps You are leading Donna to fasting and prayer, may You give her the faith and strength. May she fall on her knees and worship You and get lost in Your love, and sing and praise You, for You are worthy, God of all comfort and consolation. How we hope in You, God almighty!

This husband may have the respect of many, except the most important people in his life, his beautiful wife and the person he sees in the mirror every day, and his sin will find him out one day. It would be very hurtful to their children if they found out. O LORD, help him to think with the mind of Christ, and may he fear You and abstain from this evil before You. If he doesn’t repent, this sin will have it’s way with him. He is not fooling anyone, but is being fooled himself. Save, O LORD. Shed light and give him a vision of where he is heading. May he repent!

May mercy and truth show up and confront him, LORD, that he may also have compassion on his special needs child, and treat his child with love and respect and tenderness. Protect the children, LORD, we pray a shield of protection around them.

We agree with Donna, that You will rekindle the fire in this marriage, and bring them back together, healing each one, and making them one as You intended from the beginning. Yes, Father, separate his sin as far as the east is from the west, and remove this strange woman from him .that is not his wife

While Donna is waiting on You, may she delight in You, and You will give her the desires of her heart, and much, much more! Guard her health, Father, and the health of the whole family. We love You, LORD, we trust You will save this family from further trouble, and You will restore wholeness and joy and peace to them. Let Your Holy Spirit stir Your love in Donna’s husband heart for his wife and children. We pray it Father, in agreement, and in Jesus powerful name. Amen.

Gerald said...

My name is Edward. I would like to believe I tried to be the best husband I can be to my wife. Having been hurt before I have a tendency to with hold or bury situations when I thinking it’s not worth the pain it will cause. Sometimes the argument is not worth it. However, no matter how proud I may be, I feel God is working on me to humble me. So, here I am. I have been married for 5 years as of September 20th. We have two wonderful children 7 and 5 years, girl and boy respectively. My wife cheated on me about 2 years ago and I forgave her. I was under the impression we worked things out but apparently I was wrong. She moved us to North Texas to live with her family (November 2010) and In July she left abruptly back to east Texas for a “job” that offered benefits. Her North Texas employer offered to increase her salary and pay her benefits but she took a $6 paper cut to move back to East Texas. Since her move does not call and when she does it is to argue about some minor thing. I call her almost every day and have the children speak to her. She has only visited the children twice since the end of July. She does not respond to any communications I try to have with her. She asked for a divorce and when I asked her why she could not say. She says I am the perfect husband and greatest Dad but yet she wants to leave me. She states it’s not you it’s me. The women I love left me to stay with her parents and did not even tell them where is going to work or live. She does not call her parents which causes me to feel like a wedge in their relationship. Just to add to all this chaos, I’m here on a student visa and dropped out of school to help with the kids. Wanting nothing from her but her love we put off getting a green card until November of last year when we decided we would get one. In July we had most of the money needed and she has know decided she wants a divorce. I still love her and forgive her for her affair, I want her to come back so we can move on with our lives and progress as we had planned. Thank God as her parents are working on getting me a green card. They adore me and have apologized for her behavior almost every day since I told them about the divorce. I ask you pray for my family; bring my wife Anna, back to me and her family. I ask for a full restoration of our marriage and an abundance of apage love. So here I am seeking your help, guidance, wisdom and prayers
Thank you

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For Gerald - praying for you and your family for Gods will for your marriage. praying for marriages everywhere to be made whole again. In Jesus name I pray Amen

Prayer House said...

FATHER GOD, in the Name of Your Son, the Lord Jesus Christ, we at Prayer House agree with Gerald, and Woman of Divine Purpose for help in Gerald's marriage.

LORD, the intent of his heart is to be a good husband as much as has been possible to him. He is like Jabez, not wanting to cause any pain, especially to his wife and children. You do not turn away the humble, You lift them up. Doing what is right before You is altogether worth it, and even more so before the witness of his beautiful children.

LORD, Gerald's wife sin is not hidden from You. She is against You in this, and all the parties involved, including herself. We pray Your Spirit will show her this, and give her a vision of the destruction where this is heading. We pray she repents, and soon.

Gerald wants You have given him, and that is his wife and his marriage. He wants his family whole. We pray Your Spirit will move mightily in this situation.

OUR FATHER, we pray Your guidance and wisdom for Gerald. We pray You will gird him with Your strength. On his part, he is seeking You, knocking, asking. We know he will receive from You.

We pray You will take him by the hand, and carry him when he feels he can no longer stand.

He has forgiven his wife for this sin, and we know You are ready to forgive and not remember Anna's adultery, if she will confess and forsake this sin before You.

We pray Your peace upon Gerald and the children as Gerald is waiting on You. May he follow You, and find pleasure in serving You. We pray You will give him the desires of his heart after Yours.

Place helpful people in his life, and thanks to You, Anna's parents are kind to him and understand him.

We leave this prayer in Your altar of grace, and in agreement, where Gerald will find help, grace, and mercy for this need.

May he continue to walk in Your love that never fails. We pray iin Jesus name, Amen.

houseof3girls said...

My husband had an emotional affair 4 years ago that lasted several months. Contact still went on with her up until last year, or so he tells me. Today he tells me that he is not sure he wants to stay married to me as he still thinks of the other woman at times. He is not sure he loves me and can't get over the other woman. We have three beautiful daughters who think the world of him and don't know of everything that has been going on. He has never left our house over all these years.

I have prayed to God over and over, said novenas, gone to adoration. I know that God has a plan for me. I just need strength to keep going and trust in God. I don't want my husband to destroy his life or lose his soul which I know will happen if he decides to keep going with this woman. I know that God does not give us more than we can handle, but I am very tired, emotionally and spiritually drained.

I pray that God will make me the wife that I am supposed to be. I pray that he will give me strength. I pray that I will not lose faith in God because over these last few years, I have struggled with my beliefs in God. I feel like he has forgotten me because I have done something wrong and can't fix it. I don't understand why I have failed in my marriage and made my husband want another woman. I don't understand why I have been given this challenge in my life and what I am supposed to do. I am lost and sad and angry all the time. I just want this woman out of my life. I feel attacked by the devil and know that this woman is just a fantasy and will destroy his life.

Please help me. I have been at the bottom and I found this website with some wonderful passages from the Bible that gives me hope that I am doing the right thing. I never feel like I am doing anything right for my husband, my marriage, or my children.

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For houseof3girls - I know how you feel and how it feels to be tired -I'm in a similar situation but trusting God and believing for miracles, healing, breakthroughs. deliverance and restoration. No matter what remember that God is with you and that nothing is impossible with God. Give it to Him and take it one day at a time. Also know that you are not a failure and this is just a trick of the enemy. Stay encouraged and don't give up..This too shall pass. Standing in agreement with you for your marriage and family. Also a website that has helped me continue to stand in spite of my circumstances is Be blessed

Prayer House said...


FATHER GOD, we stand together praying for this wife and mother, Houseof3girls, known to You. She shares that her husband had an emotional affair, and now isn’t sure about his present marriage. He apparently doesn’t have a personal relationship with You either, and we pray to that end, that You help him to find You, to seek first Your kingdom and righteousness that his life will take on a new direction in Your ways.

LORD, we are also asking for grace, mercy, and help for their three beautiful daughters who love their father and mother. We pray You make this family whole again.

Our sister is seeking Your face, and we pray she will behold Jesus, whom You sent to save from sin all who believe. We know the real culprit is sin. You have a plan for this wife, a plan of peace and to prosper her. She has a good cause on this alter of prayer, and we are in agreement with her, that You save her husband and marriage. We pray her husband will see the error and sin of adultery and its devastation to everyone involved, and that Your goodness will lead him to repentance.

LORD, may Your Spirit take this wife to Your Presence where she can find peace that passes all understanding, rest for her soul, and even joy unspeakable and full of glory. We pray comfort for her and strength as she gets up from her knees. Refresh her, fill her with Your agape love that never fails, never gives up. You said in Jesus, we are more than conquerors, and even when we are weak, we are strong in You.

Your are the Potter, LORD, make this man and woman that You have joined together in holy matrimony as vessels of honor that they may be one as You meant it, and that he will cherish his wife and love her as Christ loves the church. Re-fire this union with Your love.

Feed this wife’s faith LORD, lead her to Your Word that builds faith, and faith comes by hearing Your Word. We were all failures, we all came short of Your glory, until Jesus found us, and He was manifested to destroy the works of the devil, to make us new creatures in Him, and to give us life abundantly. Your Son said that in the world we would have tribulation, but to be of good cheer, He has overcome the world, and our faith in Him overcomes the world.

LORD, our sister has come to the right place, she has come to You for help, she has brought her heart and burden to You. May she leave her burdens with You and no longer carry it herself. You will work on her behalf, this is only the beginning. What the enemy meant for evil, You will turn it for good.

Thank You Father, how we love and praise You. Praise the name of Jesus, Lord of all to Your glory. We sing victory in Jesus. You have done great things, Your mercy endures forever, praise to Your wonderful works to the children of men. Thank You that You are our Abba Father. This prayer of agreement is now with You, in Jesus wonderful name. Amen

Prayer House said...


DEAR LORD, we pray together for Kramsen, thanking You she found Your Word--Your Rhema Word--for her need in this time of trouble. You are her answer.

LORD, her husband sounds like a very troubled man without You in his life. We know that nothing and that no one can fill his void, except You. We pray he seeks and finds Your kingdom, and Your righteousness, and he will find what he is looking for--You--. You will fulfill all his need, including a healthy marriage relationship with his wife.

LORD, we pray Kramsen’s husband will find a confident in You. Lead him to godly counselors that will point him to You. Whatever his motive, it is a good thing they are going to church and getting good advise for their marriage. His next best confident after You is his beloved wife, Kramsen. Tie the knot again LORD, make them close.

Our Potter, You are the One that can put this man together, to make him whole, and make his marriage whole. He may have not had a good past, but in You, he can have a good life, and a good future. Your plans for him and Kramsen are that of peace, and to prosper them, especially in their marriage.

Kramsen loves her husband unconditionally, as You love unconditionally. But You don’t want them to suffer like this, and without You. We pray You will undertake and take charge and help them out of this pit and set their feet on the Rock, the Lord Jesus. You see the need of their daughter too, protect her from what her parents are suffering now.

Kramsen’s husband has his plans and secrets from his family, but LORD, there is nothing hidden from You, and we pray You will sabotage any plans that go against Kramsen’s husband soul, because he is really sinning and going against You, and in the process hurting his wife and daughter, and all who love him.

When this husband married Kramsen, he and she married making that decision before, and not after. May Your Holy Spirit show him there is no justification for adultery.
LORD, remove the scales from his eyes.

Help Kramsen to be a faithful, godly wife. To submit to her husband in ways that are not sinning against You. May she make him feel like the man in the house so that he doesn’t have to be so defensive. Give her wisdom, as she is not to follow him when he does not follow You. Help her to be understand and forgiving. May she have agape love for her husband. Remind her he is not her enemy, but that it is a spiritual battle.

Rekindle the fire in this marriage, LORD. As this man gets to know You through Your Son, he will love You because You loved him first, even while he is weak and without You in the world. As his love for You grows, so will his love for his wife grow. You have come to give us life in abundance through Your Son, our Savior and Lord Jesus.

We pray Your blessing on this couple, LORD, help them and save their marriage. We pray in Jesus Name. Amen.

I Peter 3 Wife said...

I have been fighting for my marriage for 7 years now. My husband has continually cheated, lied, abused alcohol, and then abandoned us 3 years ago. He is currently on leave from a deployment, but instead of staying with us, he is living in a hotel and committing adultery with a woman he is in a relationship with. He has lied to this woman and told her he is divorced, and now he is taking our five year old son around this woman. In the months leading up to this time of leave, the Lord has continually given me confirmation that He is going to redeem my husband and restore our marriage. If I walk by sight right now, I will fall into despair. I know I have to keep my eyes on Jesus, and HE WILL complete this thing! Lord, please keep me strong so that I can rejoice in your promises soon!

Prayer House said...

FOR I Peter 3 Wife:
Thank You Father in heaven for giving 1 Peter 3 Wife (You know her name and everything about her) the faith to come to You and Your Word, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ for help in time of need.

LORD, You said unless You build the house, the laborers build in vain, and apparently not all parties in this marriage are abiding in You. Father of mercies we pray You save this husband that has not filled the void in his heart with You, and has filled it with alcohol, worldly seasonal pleasures, and sopped up the lies of the devil. Unmask the devil LORD, and we pray Your Spirit will convince him of sin, righteousness and judgement.

This husband is one of our troops and we pray You help him and our troops to know that You bless the nation whose God is YOU. Righteousness exalts a nation, but sin is a reproach to any people. O, that we as as a nation would repent, turn from our wicked ways, seek Your face, and pray that You will heal our land.

Father, we pray you will protect this little child. May You lead this father and husband by this little child of which is the kingdom of heaven. We know the devil not only wants to destroy this man, but also his entire family. Undertake LORD, and save this family.

Together we decree Your rhema Word with this wife, that You will redeem her husband and restore her marriage. Give her the strength she needs; may she rejoice in You as she takes up her cross, as Jesus gave us example of enduring, for the joy that it would bring many children into glory.

We call those things that are not as though they are, and we do walk by faith and not by sight. We look unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith. No one can alter or make void what You have decreed. Your decree is right and just and true and good and You will perfect that concerning this wife & her husband. All Your promises and yea and amen, and Prayer House together with our sister give you many thanks. AMEN

Mike in Cadillac said...

I am a husband and a father of three girls, ages 11, 8, and 6. About a month ago, I found out that my wife had been having an affair with a co-worker that lasted throughout the summer. When I found out through e-mails and confronted my wife, she began to try to cover up what she was doing by password-protecting her smartphone. I was able to find out about subsequent encounters they had since then. The other man has begun the process of divorcing his own wife and my wife has also asked for a divorce from me. I know it is not the will of God for us to divorce and I really love her and want her back. I have been in consistent contact with our pastors, who have been helping me stand in faith for a restoration of our marriage and and end to the affair. My wife and I have raised the kids in the church and have really tried to walk in obedience with God and in accordance with the Word. However, since the affair, my wife has seemingly turned cold to the things of God, as she doesn't want to face the guilt of what she is doing. Please pray for her to repent and turn to God and also to be reconciled to me in our marriage. Thank You.

Heike sanfie said...

My husband and I has been seperated for 6months now I have been praying for a very long time and its like the situation is getting worst cause i really want my marriage to work his love for god has left and he dont acknowlege me as his wife at all but God has been showing me bite by bite that he is working in my favor i just ask for my husband salvation and that his heart will be turn towards me again better before i need much more faith to increase thank you for praying

Wes said...

My wife(Shelley) and I are both Christians but we never gave our marriage and our family to God. She has left me taking our 3 boys with her and is now living a bad life of sin it is affecting my boys greatly. PLEASE pray that God sends the Holy Spirit to fill her with conviction that leads to her repentance. PRAY that God intervenes soon and restores her heart back to Him, restores and heals my marriage and family.

Prayer House said...

OUR FATHER IN HEAVEN, we approach You boldly in Jesus name upon your altar to find mercy, grace, and help for Mike. Be with him, LORD. When You are present, we are not afraid, and are confident all will be well, You are more than able to help, and we surrender his cause to You, because of ourselves there is no chance. Thank You, that through prayer, and prayer of agreement, we have power as intercessors because Your Son Jesus said so, and we are Your children, and You care for us and are there for us.

Nothing came as surprise to You, LORD, but it was shocking and is very painful for Mike to find out his wife is having an affair. Father, Mike says the other man is also cheating on his own wife, and there are many hurting over this, especially Mike’s wife and this other man, though they may not acknowledge it. This wife has given herself as guilty, or she wouldn’t have tried to hide her actions. She knows she is doing wrong by committing adultery, no matter what our modern day culture says, or what justification is being used. May Your Spirit not let her go, and keep convincing her to repent and turn away from her sin.

There are his pastors and we in this particular ministry that are standing in agreement with Mike, that in Your providence You will join Mike again with his wife from the heart. We can confidently ask You, because it is Your will for them not to divorce, and to restore their marriage. We also know that adulteries proceed from the heart, and we pray You will create in Mike’s wife a clean heart, and put a right spirit within her.

We don’t know how these things happen, LORD, since this family has been faithful to be in Your flock, and also bringing up their children in Your ways. We do know, that when we put down our guard, and “fall asleep” the enemy comes and sows tares. You know all things, and You can help this couple return to You and to each other.

We pray in agreement with Mike that his wife will repent, turn to You, and be reconciled with her husband. Thank You, LORD, for receiving our prayers, and may Your perfect will be done on earth as it is in heaven. In Jesus name.

Prayer House said...

FOR Heike sanfie:

FATHER GOD, in Jesus name, we pray for Heike Sanfie, and her particular situation, and we know You know everything about this marriage. Nevertheless, You want us to bring to You everything in prayer, knowing You care for us. It is so good to know You care, and You care for Heike and her spouse. We know the enemy comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but You came to bring us life, and life more abundantly. May this never sound to us like a cliche, as trite, and vain repetition, but as words that are spirit and life. Breathe life into every chaus that the enemy has caused. LORD, that also includes breathing new life and inspiration in our prayers to You. Holy Spirit of God, give us the words to take to our heavenly Father. Even with words that cannot be uttered, but that You give. Help us to be effectual and fervent in our prayers, because we are seeking You so desperately, giver of life.

LORD, may this husband come back to his first love, to love You with all his heart, mind, and strength, and to love his neighbor as himself; especially to love his wife tenderly and cherish her as his own body.

Thank You LORD for revealing to Heike that You are working in her favor, and we claim Your Word that no weapon that is formed will prosper in hurting her or her marriage, for You said, two shall become one. We claim this, Your Word, for Heike and her husband. Remove this other intruder LORD, and undertake to help Heike and her husband.

We are in agreement with Heike that You save her husband and that his heart will turn towards his wife, Heike. We pray in Jesus name, Amen.

Prayer House said...

ABBA FATHER, give us words to take to Your throne, Your Word that will not return to void, but that will prosper Wes and his wife, Shelley, and their marriage.

As Your children, the devil has touched the apple of Your eye, and we pray for deliverance. Send forth Your Word to Wes' wife, Shelley, and may her heart be ready to heed You. We pray the fear of the LORD be in her that will cause her to receive wisdom from You again, and that she will abstain from the evil of adultery.

We pray for this couple's children, of which is Your kingdom, that You will protect them from the repercussion of adultery; we pray Your holy angel encamps around them and keep them safe.

Save Shelley from the captivity of immorality. May the Gospel of Jesus Christ sound like good news to her again. May she hear with her ears, and see with her eyes. We agree with Les that Your Holy Spirit will fill Shelley with conviction that leads to her repentance. Intervene now, LORD, and restore her heart back to You. Restore Wes' and Shelley's marriage and family. Jesus once asked a blind man what he wanted Jesus to do for him, and he answered specifically, to receive his sight. Wes is asking you specifically too, LORD, and we stand in agreement with him here on earth that it shall be done as he asks. Thank You, LORD, that You have received this our prayer, in Jesus name. Amen.

Apz said...

Please help my sister-in-law, Shirani Amunugama as my brother has left her with three children and having an affair with another women.
please pray for Shirani to get her husband back. He was a good husband and a father. Please pray for her.

Prayer House said...

FATHER, in the name of Your Son Jesus, we approach Your throne of grace with Apz to obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of Shirani and her husband’s need.
You see Apz’s prayer request, and know everything that is going on with her sister and husband..

Our Lord and Savior Jesus is touched with the hurt this has caused Shirani. Our plea to You is that of the man who cried to Jesus, “Lord, if You can do anything, please help us.” Help Shirani’s husband by delivering him from the entanglement of another woman. Give him spiritual understanding. May he heed Your Spirit calling him to repent of the sin of adultery.

You joined Shirani and her husband in holy matrimony, and whom You have joined together let not another divide. We pray this husband will be in a right mind and be the good husband and father he used to be. We pray with Apz that Shirani will get her husband back. We plead the blood of Jesus over them. We pray You will stir Your gift of love in their hearts by Your Spirit for one another, with the love that bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things; the love the never fails. Thank You, Father, we pray in Jesus name. Amen.

Yolande said...

Hi Everybody,
"But I tell you: Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you" (Matthew 5:44)I am a witness, I used this text
Pray for that man or woman (your enemies) that is stealing your husband or wife. Bless them, Pray to God to bless their life, bless them that they must get a good work, bless their finance, every thing in there life to bless them when you pray to God. I am a witness, the woman that wanted to take my husband away got a wonderful work opportunity else were out of my husbands daily route and I got my husband back, my husband was not out of my house but he was on his way out. Thank You JESUS I LOVE YOU JESUS!!!

aedney said...

I pray my wifes interests lose interest in her

Prayer House said...


Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing.”
We pay close attention to a dying person’s last words, how much more the words of our Savior. Thank you for sharing your powerful testimony, God bless.

Prayer House said...


If you mean your wife’s interest is adultery and interest in another man, we agree with you before the LORD that the other man will lose interest in her and vice verse. Adultery is not attractive, but a grievous sin before God.

LORD, we pray Your goodness will lead this wife to repentance not to be repented of. Give Aedney strength. May he praise You in this storm. You are his umbrella and shelter. We know the enemy is not flesh and blood directly, but enticing demonic forces at work to destroy marriages. Give him victory in Jesus, and we praise You heavenly Father, we worship You, almighty God. Gird Aedney with Your unfailing love to win back his wife, and may she come back to him wholeheartedly. In Jesus name.

cc said...

Hi, please pray for me. I have known my spouse for 12 years. We have both sinned with occasional adultery. He prayed the sinners prayer once. We have had many issues with trust.But he was with another woman for 1 year, I prayed and he returned but then has gone again with another woman for about a year. We had a big fight about it and he stopped talking to me. I love him and want him back.

Oakavon said...

My husband is currently overseas visiting his girlfriend, for the second time this year. I pray constantly for the two of them, that the Lord will open their hearts and eyes to His will and that they will come to recognise this sin for what it is. In some strange way they believe God brought them together (over the internet)!
My husband and I had a great marriage until this began, he has told me many times that there was nothing I did wrong or could have done differently, that we still have a good relationship, he loves me, he's just not in love with me.
In the beginning, exactly 12 months ago I began to sense a change in him but he said I was being silly and everything was fine, he still loved me. But l could see that he was different. I tried to handle it on my own with disastrous results. Then I handed it over to the Lord and the very first thing He said to me was that if I stay with my husband and not abandon my marriage, He would make a way to restore our relationship. Then at the end of May I found out - my beautiful, amazing husband was having an affair and was going overseas to visit her for 10 weeks. He came back, and announced he was going again but would be back for Christmas, because he knew I would be upset if he didn't!!
Everyone who knows us, him, our marriage is completely shocked and cannot believe what he is doing.
I pray constantly for them both. He had a beautiful faith but he is so changed. Please pray for us. For him and her. Thank you.

Prayer House said...


LORD, we lift up to you CC needing Your help for her husband and their marriage. It appears from her testimony that they’ve had several falls with adultery. We pray You will get to the root and even the seed of the problem which only You know. You said the tree is known by its fruit. Have Your loving way to save them. You said You’d give the sure mercies of David, and Your Son, our Lord Jesus, was truthful and kind, offering living water to the woman at the well. Thank You, LORD, that You see beyond our sins and address the cause, and offer salvation and deliverance. May You reveal to CC and her husband that only Your living water of Your Word satisfies and there is no need to go into another cistern that is forbidden.

We pray CC will put her trust in YOU to undertake in her husband’s heart and life. We pray they will both get together and come before You for prayer for each other and for their marriage. You will work in CC and in her husband to do Your will and do of Your good pleasure. You will also give them the power as Your children to live a godly life, and an abundant life from the inside out.

LORD, we pray for salvation, and that the LORD Jesus will destroy the works of the devil in this married couple. May you give to CC and her husband Your love that never fails. Help LORD for this couple, in the mighty name of Jesus we pray.

Prayer House said...


Father God, we come in agreement with Oakavon that You will open the hearts of her husband and this other woman (that the devil has used to kill steal and destroy the union of this couple that You said are one flesh.).As Oakavon has prayed: Open their eyes to Your will, that her husband and this other woman will recognize this sin for what it is. Expose the devil’s lies to Oakavon’s husband that is justifying this illegal relationship which You call adultery, and sinning with his own body.

LORD, we pray You will stir Your love in Oakavon’s husband by Your Holy Ghost to love his wife as he should. Spark Your fire in their marriage again. We pray Your Spirit will come in like a flood to sweep away the enemy’s works. Help Oakavon to have a closer relationship with You. May she delight in You, put You first in her life. Her husband will definitely see a change in her--Your beauty in her--and that she is a whole in You. She is a blessing he cannot afford to lose.

Lord You told Oakavon to stay with her husband and not abandon their marriage. We rejoice over the word You gave to her that You will make a way and restore their relationship. Your Word is supreme and succumbs all over reports. We pray Your Son’s nativity on earth will impact Oakavon’s husband as he hears the nativity messages, hymns, and carols. Remind him why You sent Your Son to us. We pray he’ll come running back to You, and to his wife.

LORD, You don’t waste anything. May You use this bad experience and turn it into a triumph, and we give You all the praise and glory. In Jesus name

Indrea said...

First, let me say that finding this website is a blessing. My husband and I have been married for 13 years. We have been separated for 3 of those years. Prior to his leaving, we constantly argued about other women, his flirting, his addiction to pornography among other things. I became controlling and insecure because of the ongoing problems with not feeling like me and the kids were his first priority. I thought at the time it was all his fault why our marriage was failing. I even gave up on God for a season, because I felt so broken and that I had failed. Within the last year or so, I've bben returning to God. I see the hand of God on my life as He has lovingly wooed me back to Him. God has been so wonderful in watching over and providing for me and our two kids as I struggled to make things work as a single parent. I recently contacted my husband about reconciling. He said he has plans with school and his future. He has met another woman. He loves me but his heart is with her. She lives in another state. He said he will have to see how things go to decide what he wants to do. He has started cursing more and engages in worldly activity and ways of handling life. His friends are all unsaved and live a lifestyle that none of them are being faithful or pursuing a relationship with their children's mothers. He periodically calls and text me. He comes around on occasion, but he remains distant and adamant about doing his own things. When I bring up just leaving things alone, he is quick to say that its not that he doesnt want to, he just needs time. I have been led by God to pray scripture over our marriage but more specifically over his deliverance from strongholds. I can see the work that God is doing. God has instructed me to walk by faith and not by anything that I am seeing or hearing. I do not have the support of my family or girlfriends. It encourages me so much that I can reach out to believers and know that someone else is interceeding on our behalf. He is saved, but living an unsurrendered life. I thank you for the work that you are doing. As I read through the stories and prayers, my heart was encouraged. I will also begin to pray on behalf of the other marriages represented here and pray that God will send other women going through the same thing but feel that they have no one. Thank you!

Prayer House said...


Thank You, heavenly Father, that You led Indrea to House of Prayer. We indeed want to offer our support in her prayer request to You, God of all glory.

LORD, Indrea is longing for her husband, especially now during this season that we celebrate the birth of Your beloved Son, our Lord and Savior Jesus. We believe He not only saves us but heals relationships, especially husband and wife, whom You have made to be one flesh.

From her testimony, Indrea, had already been going through a rocky relationship. Apparently both of them together did not build their marriage on the Rock. The activities that occupied Indrea’s husband make that point.

We know people resist us when we are forward and controlling, especially when a wife tries to overpower her husband. To save us time, misery, and energy, we should just give this type of behavior up, knowing it is futile and turn to You to work in the person we know is out of our hands. Tension between the parents can also be sensed by the children and we ask Your protection over them.

We know the enemy of our soul wants to get us to the place where we give up on You, and his favorite trick is to put the blame game on the one that has been trying to live for You.

Thank You, LORD, for Your faithfulness and loving kindness in drawing Indrea back to You. Her perseverance is making her stronger and building her character.

You are a wonderful Provider and Protector and Father. We must remember that though circumstances change, You never change, You will never leave us nor forsake us because You love us so.


Prayer House said...


LORD, Indrea has tried to make peace with her husband. Unmask the lies of the devil that he can pursue a future without his wife and children together. Give him a godly sense about this other woman that is not his woman. May he miss and desire Indrea, his wife. Convict this other woman that she is stealing another woman’s husband. You will do all this, while Indrea is going to concentrate in having a closer relationship with our great God, who is worthy of all our thanksgiving and praise.

We pray Indrea’s husband will receive godly counsel. We would be all over the map if we are led by our circumstances and how we feel from one moment to the next, and also being double-minded. LORD, you have taught us in Your Word to be constant in Your ways and not depart from Your counsel with every contrary wind that assails us.

LORD, we claim Your Word over Andrea and her husband that greater are You who abides within than he that is in the world. We pray Your divine blessing upon Andrea and her family, and whom You bless no one can alter or curse. Have mercy on this husband that is pouring out all that has filled his heart. Work in his heart, You are the potter. Give him the desire to be molded by You.. Give him a great hunger for You and for Your righteousness.

Indrea’s husband friends are not saved, and things are probably not going right with them. If he’s doing what they’re doing, may he take a good look and see himself in them; and may he asking himself if that’s the way he wants to stay.

We pray Indrea will be whole in You. May her husband see that, and may he see what a blessing his wife is to him, and the last thing he wants is to lose her forever.

We agree with Indrea, and more importantly with Your Words of Life over her husband for deliverance and for their marriage. Especially during this blessed season, we say to Indrea, her husband, and her marriage, LET THERE BE LIGHT, LET THERE BE PEACE, LET THERE BE LOVE, LET THERE BE JOY! Your Word is Indrea’s anchor, and may she not be moved and tossed about with these contrary winds. May she have Your peace and guidance at all times. You are her stronghold, Rock of our salvation and our Lighthouse.

We also pray You bring godly, caring encouragers to Indrea. We are glad You led her to this website, where there are many that understand what she’s going through, and she understands what others are going through. Your Comforter will insulate from the cold and bring might to the weak, hope and faith. We appreciate Indrea is praying for others as well. As she is waiting, she is allowing You to use her as an intercessor for others too.

LORD, Indrea says her husband is saved, but not living a godly life. We pray Your Word over him:. Your Holy Spirit is not allowing him to be comfortable in his sin of adultery. He is dealing with him now. Jesus came to save that which was lost. Dear Jesus, recuperate this soul and this marriage, we pray.

Father, give Indrea a big hug from us at Prayer House. You love her, and we do too. Thank You for hearing our prayers. May Indrea not be anxious, knowing that You do abundantly and above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, by Your Son, and byYour Spirit. Hallelujah! We pray in agreement, in Jesus name, amen.

roseVA said...

Yesterday morning I found out that my husband of over 23yrs has been sending and receiving inappropriate emails, texts, and phone calls to woman #8 in just as many years(that I know of). I am saved, but he is not so it seems that he has no motivation to change his behavior. I am hurt because I want so desparately for him to communicate with me the way does with other woman, being flirty and kind, and talking lovingly. Instead of being so impatient, short and harsh with me. I love my husband and I pray for his salvation, and the softening of his heart towards me. I've pleaded the blood of Jesus of our marriage, prayed that his turns back to me and I know that Jesus can do anything but fail. I believe but I need help with my unbelief. I haven't confronted my husband about this lastest woman...I'm just so hurt and I don't know what to do..... It's as though he hates me.....RoseVA

roseVA said...

I've prayed for the other women of the past, I've prayed that my husband's eyes be opened...I know the Lord will never leave or forsake me, but it SEEMS like I'm out here alone fighting for my marriage and I'm the only one who cares.....He's just living his life and doing his dirt with no consequences to how he treats me or what he does. It's been 10 years of constant cheating, lies,justifying and his accusing me of being controlling, unsupportive, and meddling(I can't know who he talks to, where he goes, or what he does)it's none of my business. If I question him about anything I'm treating him like a child. I'm being unreasonable I just want him to walk through life not looking at or talking to other women(which is untrue and toatally unrealistic)

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For roseVA - I just want you to know that you are not alone. There are many of us in the same boat. Also remember that God is with you. Trust and believe that He hears your prayers and sees your tears and He will work it out for your good. It may not seem like it right now, and you may not be able to see it but you are truly on a faith walk. Stay prayerful and encouraged. Praying that you feel God's comforting presence during this time. Be blessed and remember this too shall pass

godsgirl said...

My husband has committed adultery several times early in our 22 year marriage, but the last 10 seemed to be loving and kind. or so I thought. I became clinically depressed and unable to fulfil him in the marital bed to his satisfaction. i found out that he not only had a fling, but a two year relationship, which I found in April 2011. I had felt like God had abandoned me for years, but this was the straw that broke the camel's back. I tried to commit suicide. I was not successful, Praise the Lord. Since I awakened from my folly, I knew God was there all the time, He had not left me, I had left Him. I have been working diligently to be Godly wife, and a God-driven person. But my husband no longer wants me. the sweeter I am, the meaner he gets. He now says "I love you" and "I don't want a divorce", but he has asked me to leave our home, and will not let me come back. When I try to talk to him, he either runs, or hangs up on me. He absolutely refuses to discuss plans for the future, he just expects me to not divorce him, help pay the bills, and wait. He says he is no longer seeing the woman, but I don't believe it. He used to love me so much, until she came along and enticed him with sexual pleasures. I do not know what to do, so I have been praying and praying for God to heal my marriage. i have done everything humanly possible to win him back. Nothing has happened. i am so discouraged, but waiting, in faith.......

roseVA said...

godsgirl, I truly know how it feels not to feel loved by the one earthly person who should be loving you madly. I also know how it is to be walking in a meek and quiet spirit to win your husband's affection and it not be reciprocated.

Father help "godsgirl" and the rest of us not to be weary of well doing,for we will reap IF we faint not and to pray for those who despitefully use us...We have pray withous ceasing for our spouses,our marriages,and ourselves. Faith, prayer, and Praise are our spiritual weapons. I'm encouraging myself as I try to encourage you.

Prayer House said...

FOR roseVA

Heavenly Father, You said a person’s sins would find him out. What’s inside will eventually surface. You said that out of the heart proceed fornication and adulteries. This adulterous activity has been going on for many years, and we do recall people in the Bible that were in bondage for many more years than that. We pray for a breakthrough for roseVA’s husband From her writing, we see this is more than an adulterous affair, but a character problem, a life that is out of control.. You are the only One that can change a person’s behavior by making him a new creature in Christ. We are praying roseVA’s husband will want to give his heart to You, for You said, My son, give me your heart.

LORD our prayer is that roseVA’s husband has communication with You, and we know You will open loving communication with roseVA and her husband. When others know they have us in their hand unconditionally, irrevocably, they may want to take us for granted. This man is trying to “win points” with this other woman because he is not so sure of her as he thinks he is of roseVa. Satan has been given permission to pull the puppet strings in this wrong relationship. LORD, we pray You will cut these strings and free roseVA’s husband from this sin.

We pray for Your love in roseVA that never fails. Stir Your gift of love by Your Holy Spirit in roseVA’s husband heart for his wife. May he see her anew and with desire. We also agree Your will draw him close to You by the blood of Your Son, our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Father, You said to seek You and Your righteousness first, and all these things would be added unto us. We are interceding right now for roseVA’s husband salvation. Write Your commandments in his heart, and in BOLD LETTERS, THOU SHALT NOT COMMIT ADULTERY. Lord Jesus, what a wonderful present for You to give this couple back to each other. We are making this request to You. We also pray You will heal RoseVA’s heart. Give her Your power to forgive. May she keep in mind that her battle is not against flesh and blood, but the spirits that deceive and use the flesh to entice. May she be faithful to pray without ceasing for her husband and trust YOU to work in him.

All praise and glory to You Most High. We thank You for Your mercies and Your loving kindness. Thank You for the fruit of patience that You also provide as we wait upon You.
We will be still and know You are God, and for this purpose You sent Jesus to the earth, to save us from our sins. We pray in agreement in Jesus name, amen.

Prayer House said...


LORD we lift up to You this prayer request with gods girl. You know first hand how painful the sin of adultery is. You compared Your people Israel as one that had committed adultery and gone after other loves. You tell Your people today to come back to their first love if they have strayed.

Heavenly Father, we also pray for gods girl healing. Our Lord and Savior and Healer, Jesus Christ, said that all power is given to Him by You in heaven and in earth, and also received the highest name. THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST IS ABOVE ALL SICKNESS AND DECEASE, INCLUDING DEPRESSION AND ALL ILLNESSES OF THE MIND, AND IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST WE COMMAND DEPRESSION TO FLEE FROM GODSGIRL. We decree GODSGIRL IS HEALED BY THE STRIPES OF JESUS. GODSGIRL DOES NOT HAVE THE SPIRIT OF FEAR, BUT OF LOVE, POWER, AND A SOUND MIND. GODSGIRL WILL NOT DIE TO LIVE TO TELL OF THE GLORIES OF THE LORD, PRAISE GOD! We also decree GODSGIRL IS HEALED IN HER BODY, FROM THE CROWN OF HER HEAD TO THE SOLES OF HER FEET. THIS HEALING TOOK PLACE AT CALVARY, THANK YOU, LORD. Father, You will never abandon gods girl, she is engraved in the palm of Your hand, she is your peculiar treasure.

Lord, we pray You will undertake and overtake the devil by his tail and all his mischief done to this marriage. Restore the love gods girl’s husband had for his wife, and even seven times over. Draw him back to the arms of his wife, as only You know how, Lord, we commit this cause to You almighty, loving Savior.

May gods girl stand, after she has done all she can, may she persevere to think and say as Your Word says, and not listen to the devil’s lies. You will not give her more to bear than she can, and all the while You is developing her character and she is getting stronger in You. She will not be moved.

Help gods girl to receive Your wisdom and guidance. Put supportive people in her life. May she not push herself on a man that is running away from You, but rather allow You to work in his life and wait upon You. We pray peace between gods girl and her husband. All in all we pray you will save this man, put the fear of God in him, and save this marriage for Your glory, in Jesus mighty name, we pray, amen.

kimmynew said...

I want to first thank the Lord for leading me here as it was a series of Divine interventions that did. I would like to please ask for intercessory prayer for my marriage. My husband is living with another woman and her baby. My daughter is also suffering as this is the only father she has really known since she was 10 and she is almost 21 now. We are feeling abandonement more than ever now. He has made no effort to even contact her to see how she is. He has always been an avoider but this is just horrible how he has done this. Just never came home from work(2nd time he has left) and no contact and ignored us...we had a fight the night before about this girl who pretended to be our friend but I always felt she has designs on him as her babies father was in jail for violating a restraining order and who is also a good friend of my husbands. He also is aware of this union now as one of his family members found out. I feel for him because his now ex~girlfriend who my husband is sleeping with has turned my husband against him little by litle to break down his loyalty to him.. my husband is NOT the kind of man to do this to his family or a friend.The enemy has been at work for years on this marriage and hen it was shaky came in for the kill..the baby and the wman playing the victm he felt h needed to save.he and I tried to conceive for 5 years and this woman KNEW this and dangled the baby in front of him and the first time he left he got very attached to baby. The has been a hurt on so many levels.. I know it's our fault for a partyin lifestyle we lived for years as this is how we opened the door for the enemy. Amidst all the bad decisions we shared a very deep and special love. He just waned to keep drinking and partying and I waned to slow down and grow together as we are soulmates. I beleive he is still drinking and possibly doing drugs but this may be just what he needs to straighten out after all. Bittersweet for me because he refused to do for mec and now child and family services has been called by the babyfathers family. He's told me he loves her and. We are done. I feelso hopeless and hurt and betrayed nd the enemy is on me and I fight him everyday with the Word.. I will not give up. It seems so much is working against us but I stil have much love in my heart for him.. I pray the Lord heals him and his addictions and gives him the ourage to come back to his family and hve a foundation of God so our maririage can flourish how God meant. This is my third marriage and I have asked for forgiveness as my other husbands were abusive. I have asked God for forgiveness for all my sins so I can continue to do proection prayers and to keep me on the narrow path.. is this posible? With somany obstacls..... YES. I have to learn ot toask that question.. All things are possible through God.. please help us and GOD BLESS

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For kimmynew- May God continue to comfort you during this difficult time. You are not alone. I know how you feel. I'm in the same boat. There was a situation between my son and husband that created trauma in my marriage. I have been married to my husband almost 5 years. Due to the issue, my husband decided to leave me, move in with another woman and file for divorce. They now have a child on the way. After a 14 year relationship this devastated me but the reason I'm telling you this is because it is the grace of God that has kept me going through this time. I've prayed and know that God can and is able if it is His will. Keep your faith in God as He is the ultimate Healer, Restorer, Deliverer, Provider and Redeemer. He has a plan for your life and according to Romans 8:28 and we know all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are called according to His purpose. Every testimony begins with a test and God is a miracle working God would not wish these situations on anyone out there. Believing with you for restoration of your marriage and all troubled marriages out there. Take care and Stay prayerful and encouraged...This too shall pass...

kimmynew said...

Thank you Woman of Divine Purpose.My heart goes out to all going through this hurt and pain this holiday season. This is my first without my husband and my in~laws in 11 years and he is already bringing her and baby around family after only 3 months of leaving us. Nobody seems to be okay with this but they want to see their son so they have no choice.I feelit's so disrespectful as we are still married and it's so fresh.I don't want to ruin Christmas for the few I'll be around this year but feel like I've been kicked when I'm down by the man who I thought was my soulmate. I have to believe this prayer will work althougt it seems beyond hopeless. Ij ust wish the love in my heart would go away.... it won't... does anyone have any advice as I wait for prayer house to intercess.. I know to seek God and get in the WORD but I am consumed with despair and my mind racing with all the scenarios ad what ifs... I immediately lead those into the obedience of Christ..~thank~youu

Prayer House said...


Lord Jesus, thank You so much for coming to our world, to become like one of us to make us to become like You. Without you, we are left to our own means and the enemy wants to get us there. But You said, Lord Jesus, that You would never leave us or forsake us. You are Emmanuel, God with us. You have not left us orphans; You sent Your Spirit to comfort us, to give us strength, to guide and teach us and bring remembrance of Your words, Lord Jesus.
Thank You, heavenly Father, for showing us such love that You sent us Your Son to pay for our debts that we could never pay.

Lord, we pray for kimmvnew and her husband. Kimmvnew has been praying, and we are praying also with her. You are attentive to the cry of kimmvnew’s heart. Your Arm is not short that You cannot reach kimmvnew’s husband. As intercessors we call upon Your name believing, Father, that You raised Jesus from the dead, and we declare that Jesus is Lord of all to Your glory.

We call upon the name above of all names that You create in kimmvnew’s husband a new heart, and to renew a right spirit within him. May Your Spirit convince him of sin, of righteousness and of judgment as we are praying.

May You speak to him through the carols which proclaims not only the birth of Your Son but why You sent Him.

(O Holy Night)
Truly He taught us to love one another;
His law is love and His Gospel is peace.
Chains shall He break for the slave is our brother
And in His Name all oppression shall cease.
Sweet hymns of joy in grateful chorus raise we,
Let all within us praise His holy Name!
Christ is the Lord! O praise His name forever!
His pow’r and glory evermore proclaim!
His pow’r and glory evermore proclaim!

Prayer House said...


Draw kimmvnew’s husband close to you by the shed blood of Your Son at Calvary. Your Word tells us that while we were yet without strength and in our sins, You saved us.

As for kimmvnew, Lord Jesus, You know first hand how it is to be rejected by Your own. kimmvnew and her daughter are very hurt over this. We sing tiding of comfort and joy over them; bring them Your Spirit so rich with this fruit. We know God is not man that He should lie, and Lord, You meant it when You said You would never leave us not forsake us.

Father God, we pray mercy and grace for this other woman and her baby, that You would undertake in their lives and may Your will be done for and in them. No human manipulation, not even making a baby on purpose, can win a man’s heart. We committed to You this cause already. And, the saying that “actions speak louder than words,“ may describe why kimmvnew’s husband has been distant from his wife and daughter; he does not have adequate words to explain his actions. Nevertheless, at 21, kimmvnew’s daughter is of an understanding age, and we pray she will also be forgiving and not bitter. Only a great God like You can accomplish these things, Lord, without You, we are speechless and helpless.

In Your divine wisdom in the Bible, You give testimonies of women that couldn’t conceive, but then You opened their womb. With You there shall nothing be impossible. Intervene in these lives we pray.

There is now no condemnation to those that are in Christ Jesus, and we know the devil is the accuser of the brethren. May Your perfect love cast out all fear and doubt of Your forgiveness for kimmvnew, as You no longer remember her past sins and life. May she approach You with confidence in the name of Your Son as she brings all her cares to you, knowing You care for her.

Prayer House said...


Kimmvnew is not giving up, and she is praying for her husband and the restoration of her marriage. Lord she doesn’t want to carry all this load on her on. We pray Your Word over her which You said, that many are the afflictions of the righteous, but out of the them all You will deliver. You are leading kimmvnew to the Rock that is higher than she. Help her and her husband to love one another with the blessing of Your Word:

1 Corinthians 13
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails.

In our Savior and Lord’s name, Jesus Christ, we together pray in agreement, amen.

Prayer House said...

FOR Woman of Divine Purpose:

Those that water others, water themselves. Thank You for fulfilling the law of love by caring for others in the ways you do. The Lord bless you richly, and make you bountiful in the fruit of His Spirit for every good work. The Lord bless your personal life by giving you the desires of your heart and meeting all your need. Blessed is she that believes, for there shall be a fulfillment of the things the good Lord has promised her. He does everything beautiful, in His time. We are thanking You, LORD, in Jesus name.

kimmynew said...

Dear prayer house,thank you so much for your wonderful and blessed responses. I just had one question. The part on two of three where you reference the saying actions seak louder than words etc.... meaning him leaving is what he couldn't say directly to me?...
he just pretty much placed all the blame on me for being threatened by this girl... I guess my gut feeling was right! Do I continue in prayer? I saw a website that has step by step hedge of potection steps.I'm all new to this. Thank~you again from the bottom of my heart.

kimmynew said...

I would like to ask if anybody could give me a step by step hedge of protection prayer(or is this what we are doing here?). It's confusing on a site I saw. I just need simple basic steps if anyone can guide I'd be so appreciative.
I also want to ask if it is wrong in Gods eyes for me to NOT want this relationship between my husband and this girl to work and to not want them to conceive a child as this would be the end of us for sure. I feel bad feeling that and don't know if it's condemnation or conviction from the Holy Spirit. It would be a child conceived out of adultery which does happen but will these feelings of mine harden my heart and block blessing and answered prayers. I forgive them on a daily basis but don't feel it in my heart totally yet. I feel my life was stolen from me and we were left behind and his dismissive attitude and leaving me with all the bills has been tough. I pray that the babies father and her can reunite on Gods foundation and my husband and I the same and be blessed with a child. I am 45 but Sarah and Abraham were much older!

roseVA said...


May the Lord strengthen and direct you during this process. You are a child of the most High God and He holds you in the safety of his arms.

He that dwells in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the
Almighty. I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God in Him will I trust. There shall no evil befall you, neither shall any plague come near your dwelling. For He shall
give his angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways. They shall bear you up in their
hands, lest you dash your foot against a stone.

He has started a Good work in you and will see it completed.

Be Blessed my sister

Prayer House said...

Found this prayer, a confirmation of two of three witness: You, roseVA,and Prayer House.

Heavenly Father, I (we) ask You to place a hedge of protection around me (us). It hides me (us) from the enemy, familiar spirits, any and all demon spirits, making it difficult, if not impossible for them to effectively track or trace me in the realm of the spirit. There shall be no perforations or penetrations to these hedges of protection according to your word in Psalm 91. I(we) know that You will answer this prayer because I (we) love You and I(we) trust in Your name only. I pray that Your blood Lord Jesus will cover me(us) and all that You have given me(us). That the enemy will not have access to what has been given to me(us).Thank you for your divine protection in Jesus Name, Amen.

Apply it to your spouse. Be blessed!

kimmynew said...

Thank~you so much.. I felt very sad today and prayed and was thankful but need to learn its ok to be sad the first holiday without husband and family. Everyone has been so helpful on here and I am so appreciative..Blessed. thank~ you again.

roseVA said...


Our feelings will fluctuate over the course of time, but God's promises and Love toward us is always sure, so we can TRUST HIM and not in ourselves.

Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.(proverbs 3:5-6)

We have to just remain FAITHFUL, He's working on our behalf....saturate yourself with scriptures, people, tapes, movies, praise music, etc any and everything that keeps you in the presence of the Lord and your spirits lifted. Faith cometh by hearing and hearing by the word of God.

We are believing and trusting for and with you, that the Lord will give you your hearts desires.. A healthy and restored marriage, your husband Loving, Faithful, and delivered, your Health, healing, and prosperity in Jesus Name, Amen.

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For Kimmynew - i just read your post. the best advice i can offer in order to make it through is time and much prayer..time heals all wounds..must take it one day at a time..I know how much it hurts because I hurt too. I miss my husband and know that if its Gods will, he can and is able to restore my marriage but if not I must remember that He has the best laid plans for me. The crazy part is that I was angry because I felt like everyone pretended like all was well and its not but at this point I must depend on God because I know that He is bigger than this.. Be comforted my sister even in the midst of the storm God is with you. Be encouraged and be blessed.

kimmynew said...

Thank~you Woman of Divine Purpose. It seems things are getting tougher and I am confused because I pray and SO many are praying for my situation.My anxiety has increased and my depression has worsened and I am scared. Why is this? I had to contact my husband regarding some business issues and he only responded by one vague text message and then ignored my call and wouldn't respond to me at all. I am trying to be fair with these business issues and am paying his portion of all the bills and just need to wrap up ownership of vehicle and cellphone as I no longer can afford. His mother owns the condo I live in and I lived in it 8 years before I even met my husband and she is working with me right now but I am so fearful that along with the loss of my husband my home is in jeopardy because I don't trust this girl he is with to not suggest they live in my home. My husband is making this so hard and it is very hurtful to continue to be treated like I never existed. He is going to force my hand and shut his phone off and take vehicle and I don't want to.I need direction and prayer in this and also don't know if I should speak with his mother and let her know I am trying to absorb all this as my lfie has changed so drastically and am trying to be decent to him and every time I turn around he is kicking me when I down. I know I am not alone in this Scripture says but I feel SO alone and sad...:(

kimmynew said...

Father God I would like to lift up all the people on this site and all over the world that are hurting from adultery in their lives.I pray to YOU Lord that you are Holy, Holy,Holy Lord the God Almighty that you can heal the wounds of betrayal,fear, rejection and any other hurts that may come our way. Help us to keep our FAITH in YOU and to quench the fiery darts by our amour of GOD.When the feelings of hopelessness come about us please hold us close to you and bring us through.Draw us closer always Lord. Thank~you for helping us as you are the WAY.. The TRUTH.. and THE LIGHT..In JESUS name A

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For Kimmynew-No matter how hard it gets keep God with you. I know it feels dark and you may not see anything happening but God is working behind the scenes for your behalf. I was thinking we need more support groups for people in this situation and I am so grateful for this blog. Here is a website that I recommend to you No matter what the outcome of my situation, this website has been a blessing. I don't know what tomorrow will bring but continue to hang on and trust God no matter what you see. Do not give up. I've been where you are and am still in the healing process. Find you one true friend who understands what you are going through even if that friend is Jesus and journal to release your feelings. Again much time and prayer...This too shall pass...Stay encouraged and know that God loves you and if He brought you to it...He will bring you through it.....

roseVA said...


Amen, and fear not the Lord your is with you,

he is your Jehovah Jireh (Yireh): “The Lord will provide.” Stresses God’s provision for His people (Gen. 22:14).

Your Jehovah Shalom:“The Lord is Peace.” Points to the Lord as the means of our peace and rest (Jud. 6:24).

and Your Jehovah-'Uzam - Lord Strength in Trouble - Is 49:26

Be Blessed my sister and like woman of divine purpose said day by day....Give us this day our daily bread.

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

For all my sisters & brothers - Continue to pray God's will for your marriages. God is able and can restore if it's His will. God is bigger than any situation. No matter what you go through remember God's unchanging love. Pray for HIS will and for peace no matter what the out come. His word tells us that He is with us always. He sees and knows all. Even when we can't see God is still at work. By holding on in the midst of the storm it strengthens our faith and we will be rewarded in the end. Nothing is too hard for God... Seek Him, Trust and Depend on Him. Know that He keeps His promises...Peace & Blessings

Indrea said...

This is Indrea. I wrote in about a week ago asking for prayer for my marriage and husband. I am just checking back in and saw the wonderful prayers that were offered over us. My heart was sincerely touched.

Since writing, my husband is opening up more. He came over to share Thanksgiving and Christmas with me and the kids. He also attended a Christmas program at the kids school. Each time was amazing! He was sweet and I could tell he enjoyed being around us. At the end of each visit, he would become quiet and unsettled almost like he didnt want it to be over. On Christmas he admitted he didnt want to leave, but he had to. He was so much more relaxed and affectionate on Christmas than Thanksgiving. We talked about church, the changes he noticed about me and how I seemed different. He listened to how I felt about his distance and being away. Before, he would just say he needed time to do what he needed to do. This time he said he would pray about it to give me an answer.

I know God is doing a work in him. I also know that my husband is a proud man. He is not employed. He is going to school to become a drug and alcohol counselor, which is a blessing that he is focused on doing work in an area that he has so much experience in. I partially feel like he may not want to move back home and not be able to provide for us like it was before he left. He wants to contribute and feel like a man. He loves being praised for his efforts and so I am mindful to encourage him for the changes I am seeing in him.

On Christmas we played games with the kids and laughed and enjoyed our time together. Although he didnt have money, he gave me $20 to help with the food I cooked and he gave the kids his food gift cards that he receives from the organization he belongs to. I noticed a sweeter spirit in him this time. He would periodically rub my back or kiss me on my arm, cheek and lips. He was really affectionate this time more than last. When I walked him to the car that night, he hugged me and said "I love you" which was the first time in 5 years that he has said it.

I am so encouraged from the changes I see taking place. I know he is seeing a difference because he continues to comment about the new behavior. But he says he feels overwhelmed by whats happening. He wants to take it slow. He also admitted a few weeks ago he has a trip planned to go visit this other woman. My prayer is that either God will not allow the trip or that when he goes, he will realize that he has lost interest in her since God has been orchestrating these new changes.

I am still believing God for his deliverance from everything that he has become entangled with. That he will begin to sever ties with his associates, male and female. That he will begin to thirst and hunger for the things of God. That his desire will be for me and his children. And that he will return home spiritually, physically and emotionally.

I love you guys immensely. I will not cease to pray for your ministry and the lives that you have been ordained to touch here. God Bless you. I will keep you updated on the testimony because I am not accepting anything except complete victory with my husband, my walk, and my family.

Woman of Divine Purpose said...

Thank you so much for your testimony Indrea - To God be the glory. Just helps us to remember that there is hope. Nothing is impossible with God. No matter what the situation looks like there will be victory. We serve an awesome and mighty God who is working it out. Keep seeking Him and all will be well... Be blessed

Prayer House said...

Praise the Name of Jesus! This ministry is to involve all whom God adds to encourage one another in the Lord. Prayer House’s intent is to burn the midnight oil with you even when all hope seems lost, except the desires of your heart to win your spouse back. We will pray with you and stand with you before Him who instituted marriage. Thank you for blessing us with your testimony. God is in His throne, he is God, and He is the LORD.

roseVA said...

Great testimony, and like it's been stated earlier by Prayer House and woman of Divine Purpose we serve a Mighty and awesome God who specializes in doing the impossible (raising dead things). He is the lifter of our heads and our starkest protector.

We may come in on broken pieces, but can survive adultery of any kind with our marriages, minds, and spirits intact.

Continue to pray for ALL marriages God's way and will do the same.

roseVA said...

the earlier post was for Sis Indrea

Prayer House said...

"We Agree"
(feat. Israel Houghton)

These are the days of your decree
What we speak will be established
What we bind and what we loose
is bound and loosed in heaven.

These are the days when seasons change
the first is last
the last is first
all that you lost shall be returned
lost years recovered
So we agree we agree

We believe that the famine is over
We believe that fruit is on the vine
We believe dry places are watered
It's the latter rain the latter rain we believe

Anything can happen,
Anything can happen when we agree
All things are possible
nothing is impossible
when we agree when we agree...

Indrea said...

Thank you all. I have been using these tools while I wait on God. I have been reading Love Dare by Kendrick Stephen, Becoming The Woman of His Dreams by Sharon Jaynes, Prayer Dare by Ron Kincaid, The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. My mother was the one that ruled everything and everyone. I went into my marriage with this same stubborn unwilling to submit spirit. This type of environment was one of the ways that the enemy was allowed in to tempt my husband with other women. The more fearful I became, the more controlling, demanding and disrespectful I became. These books have taught me through the leading of the Holy Spirit to soften my approach. I’ve learned about leading my heart instead of allowing it to lead me. To not be governed by feelings and fear. I am more respectful to my husband and honoring him although he is not living in our home or living an honorable lifestyle. I apologized to him for the part that I played in the failing of our marriage. I now end each conversation with I Love You even if he doesn’t say it back. God’s love is not conditional based upon what you get back. Its given freely. This is how God loves us. Is this easy? Heavens no! But the more I practice, the more it gets easier.
I pray more. I understand now that I can tell God anything. I admit EVERYTHING to God. I admit my ugliest anger, jealousy, insecurities, desires and evil motives during the time when I was allowing that pain to lead me. He has loved me and built my self esteem back up through His word. God’s love gives me strength during the times when I feel so lonely, abandoned and insecure. I don’t have the support of my family or girlfriends to confide in.
I keep a vision board in my living room with pictures and words cut out from magazines that resemble what I want for my future, marriage, and family. I keep it in the living room for two reasons. One I want to look at it everyday so that I can continue to dwell on the bright future God has for me instead of dwelling on my circumstances right now. And when company come over, I want them to ask me about it so I can talk about the GREAT THINGS God has in store for my future.
I listen to praise and worship songs. I watch inspirational and love movies. I watch them to keep me believing in love. I listen to The Secret in my car. I listen to sermons from my church. I listen to love songs. I watch things that will make me laugh from my soul. I play with my children and act silly. I do whatever I need to remain vibrant and alive through this process. When my husband returns, he deserves to have a wife that is whole and complete lacking nothing. I need to already be immersed in that awesome lifestyle. I saturate my eye and ear gates with positive, inspirational things that will keep me encouraged. I post scriptures and affirmations around my home and in my car.
There are moments when I just plain old miss my husband and want to hear his voice or want to have him home with us. I close my eyes and long for him. When those moments come, I simply surrender to them, because resisting will only torment me more. I have learned to immediately give my pain of the moment to God. Sometimes I will lay on the floor at the foot of bed or couch and imagine I am laying at the foot of Jesus, with my head in His lap. I lay there crying and God understands my tear ministry. God and gave me a promise. When the enemy tries to make me believe my husband will never return. Or tries to give me visuals of my husband with another woman, I simply remind the devil that God has ordained me to be my husband’s wife and no one else. I begin quoting scriptures, which is how God defeated the devil in the Bible. Then I get busy focusing on one of the things I mentioned above.
Stay encouraged. We are God’s daughters and our husbands are His sons and He cares about us. God loves you and hears every prayer. God’s word is a weapon to defeat the strongholds of the enemy. God is true and living. I will continue to pray for you. Keep me in your prayers. God Bless you!

Prayer House said...


YOU GOT IT! This is the lifestyle we should adhere to because it is a godly lifestyle, regardless of what we are seeking God for. It's more like, we are seeking God because in His presence is where we want to be for fulfillment of our innermost being. In His presence we have joy and we have peace. Otherwise, we are only temporarily seeking God for something we want,and the results will also be temporary. God's Spirit is the air we breath, and the bread we eat, and our soul thirsts after Him. Your husband will want to have what you have. He'll not help but notice God's glory all over you. You'll both want it perpetually. Just wait and see. JESUS IS LORD.

roseVA said...

ABSOLUTELY Indrea and Prayer house, When we seek the kingdom of God and his righteousness, ALL these things will be added unto our lives(blessings, goodness, favor, our hearts desire, etc).

kimmynew said...

To Prayer House,Woman Of Divine Purpose, RosieVA and Indrea,

I want to first thank this website for keeping me alive in my hope. I was really down in the dumps when I came across this wonderful blessing(no accident..I am sure of it). I have been so uplifted and enlightened and Thank-you from the bottom of my broken heart that The Lord is healing and using all of you to heal everybody that finds you... Thank-you Woman of Divine Purpose for suggesting rejoice ministries and you know the enemy tried to keep me from that site for almost a week and realized i was typing in .com (which is no longer a website) and looked back at your post and saw it is .org...AMAZING site..full of information and hope. Rosie your posts have been a saving Grace on days where I was so discouraged and thank you so much..Indrea..your testimony is so inspirational to me because where you are now and have been Gracefully brought to by our Lord is where I want to be.The enemy is relentless with me and I need to shake it off and know the battle is already won and NOTHING will deter me off my narrow husband continues to live with this woman and baby(this girl pretended to be my friend and was after my husband.. I believe)..Lies to me about money and I am still paying all our bills with no help from him. He almost resents me when I ask him for money.. but... I told him today I wish nothing bad for him or the girl and would pray for them to come out of their financial crisis.. That was God for sure but it wasn't too hard for me to say. He thinks I'm of my rocker or sure because he is so in darkness...He didn't respond.. I then see my daughter at home and she informs me his truck is at the strip club down the road and I immediately became anxious and got that pit in my stomach because my husband always tries to give me a reason why he can't pay me or help me and I felt lied to... again.... I then thought... or God told me... He is at a strip club... you were out with your loving family tonight having dinner and Why would I want to be anywhere else. I am not as discouraged now and will pray for him.. He and this girl are enveloped with sin..I am making progress.. Although I am being lied to I am not going to let it steal my hope.. It may for a bit but it is getting less and less... Be Blessed everyone on this site.. Thank you JESUS for being THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIGHT..AMEN

roseVA said...

One of the things that hurts me the must is the fact that I initiate sex(it's not received), I give him praise and support(he says he doesn't need it or want it, I send flirty text msgs throughout the day(he doesn't respond or acknowledge them), and when I call him at work or if he calls me it's as if he's sooo busy, that he can't stop working for 2 minutes just to talk to me uninterrupted.

Yet over the years there is evidence of him texting and talking to the other women all throughout the day even while at work for 15mins to an hour at a time.

I'm at a lost, because I'm trying to give him the attention that he needs but it's as if he wants it from everyone except ME!!!!!

He saids these women mean nothing to him, and that he loves me.....but to me his actions says different.

It's like he doesn't want to acknowledge any good in me, and if I try to discuss how this behavior makes me he just says "that I think he's stupid, or dumb", and "that I just want to have something to complain about" or "that things are never going to change",etc.

I'm believing for a miracle in my marriage, but sometimes I have to admit I wonder where is God in all this especially since I'm a believer and he's not and seems to care less.

roseVA said...

Right now besides my car and the shower, this is only place that I feel I can express how I feel somedays......which is rejected and despised by the man that I'm desepartely trying to love and have love me.

So I have professed that when I feel unloved I will love more, when I feel misunderstood I will be opened to other points of view, when I feel sad I will attempt to make someone else smile, and when I feel like all hope is gone I will encourage someone else to stand just one more day.... This site has been an eyeopener and enlighthenment for me.

I come on and read the entries over and over and pray for ALL marriages...Because the enemy is trying to come against God's first institution and his prime example of his love for us. He calls the body of christ the bride(without spot or wrinkle) and himself the bridegroom.

Continue to pray for me and I will do the same for each of you and this forum.

kimmynew said...

To RoseVA

I was in the same boat as you are. My husband as you know is living with the OW and when he came back home(he'd left once before).. we were fine until this OW leaned on him at a vulnerable time.But he only wanted to text her and he would send me texts after I said something but I think it was out of guilt. He's clearly in a mid~life crisis.No sure what age your husband is but mine is 8 1/2 years younger than me and this OW is 6 yrs. younger than him.At any rate it's almost like if I'd played the game of not being threatened or playing hard to get it may have made a difference. It's silly after 10 years with someone but I do regret being very insecure once she started coming around...I wish I had prayed more and said to go and figure out what you want because the signs were there. I instead clung on and acted pathetic and how can your love grow or stay stable when your spouse doesn't respect you. We both have to stand in prayer regarding this and ask God to give us a backbone.. A kind one... but I don't think our Lord wants us walked on...Philippians 4:13 and Jeremiah 29:11 are great to meditate on. Woman of Divine Purpose referred me to a website that is FULL of inspiration and just amazing. Be strong RoseVA and He brought us to it He'll bring us through it!

Prayer House said...

1 Peter 3
(1) Wives, in the same way submit yourselves to your own husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives,
(2) when they see the purity and reverence of your lives.

1 Peter 3
(3) Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes.
(4) Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.

kimmynew said...

Thank~you prayer house. As time has gone on since separation I have been kinder and willing to forgive. I want to tell my husband I forgive him and to please forgive me for my part in break up..I know my soft word and kindness and God's Mercy and Grace infused through the Spirit will show. I pray my husband sees it. I know God is working behind the scenes for all of us.. When I feel the enemy approaching with his lies of hopelessness and anxiety I quote scripture or just repeat over and over JESUS... I will not, nor should any of us bring ourselves into condemnation for crying during times of adversity. A lot of my tears have been crying out to God. I need to heal daily and He's the only way. This is the worst hurt in my life besides losing to my father.. I have come through everyday because of God and all these wonderful posts... I feel blessed in so many ways..I'm not where I want to be but thank God I am not where I used to be....AMEN....

Prayer House said...


Woman of Divine Purpose said...

Happy New Year fellow friends in Christ. Excited about 2012.

And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us: (1 John 5:14)

18 Remember ye not the former things, neither consider the things of old.

19Behold, I will do a new thing; now it shall spring forth; shall ye not know it? I will even make a way in the wilderness, and rivers in the desert. (Isaiah 43: 18-19)

So many scriptures I want to share with you today (Romans 8:28, Jeremiah 29:11) - Full of hope and God's promises. Nothing is too hard or impossible for God. He can and is able to restore marriages according to His will. This is what keeps me going in my situation. I have learned to pray His will for my life, and to know that He has the best laid plans for my life. Give God the glory...All will be well. No matter how hard it gets am learning to look past the circumstances to a bigger God who knows best. Be blessed and stay prayerful saints of God. Keep praising Him and watch Him work. Know we are on a faith walk (Hebrews 11:1) and just because we don't see it don't means He is not working. Thank you Jesus. Take care my friends and stay encouraged :)

Indrea said...

Happy New Years to my new family. That is how I have come to know you in my heart. I look forward to logging in each time to hear a new testimony, or to see how God has made a difference in someone's life. Last night I felt a little low. I believe its important to share that. I felt rejected, unimportant, abandoned, ashamed for believing...oh boy the enemy was doing a number on me. I also realized last night that the enemy has come at me the same way each time I begin walking by faith in any area of my life. Either through affecting my health, mental attacks with my thoughts, my self image or just plain old holding up my break through long enough for me to abort my promise. Every time, either of these ways have been successful in getting me to quit. I walk away because its just too painful or I become discouraged. I get so tangled in the physical that I become distracted into forgetting about what I was promised in the spirit realm.

Well I am not letting go this time. I have been suffering with the mother of all migrain headaches for weeks. These headaches have gotten so bad that all I want to do is sleep to try to make them go away. Which means I abandon my prayer time. As soon as I began witnessing to this site and others, my husband has slowed way down in his positive response towards me and the kids. He barely calls now. He won’t reply to my or the kids text or calls. He doesn’t answer the phone anymore. Last night, it really did a number on my self esteem and feelings of discouragement. But I got up, I wrote out in my journal what I was feeling. Then I began pouring over the scriptures looking for God's promises about how He felt about me. I felt better. But I notice, that the next day, the headaches and discouragement comes right back. So my routine is going to have to be relentless and intentional. I must be on the threshold of my breakthrough and helping others with realizing they can do all things through Christ, if the enemy is coming at me this strong. . If it were not, why else would the enemy be fighting me like this. I know it can also be a test to see if my intentions are in the right place. If I am really ready to walk out the 1 Corinthians 13 chapter, truly from my heart.

I love you guys!!! You give me so much support. I wish there were a way that I could see each of you and give you a great big old hug. But I know God is holding all of us.

Pray that my faith fails not. Pray that I will not let go until God Blesses me. Pray that I will not surrender or abort the promises of God until His word performs EVERY promise that it was sent out to do. And I will continue to pray for you my sisters in the Lord. Pray that God’s word will continue to chisel away at my husband’s strongholds and the enemy will lose his grip. Hold on and NEVER let go. We have bombarded Heaven with our faith and God is about to come on strong on our behalf!!!

jeanne woman of prayer and faith said...

13 yrs ago during a trial separation that I encouraged my husband got involved with another woman. After the trial separation ended my husband did not end his relationship. I found out and condemned him for his unfaithfulness and everything else. I was BLIND! The next 2 yrs he moved out twice "he didn't know if he wanted to be married or single". He referred to "being single" whenever we were separated. We sought counseling with our pastor but never did spiritual warfare. We renewed our vows and it appeared that everything was better. The woman moved out of state. Next, he linked-in to Internet dating sites and started flirting with women and I suspect saw them when I was a work. 3 1/2 years ago he told me he was moving out. He said I resented him and I acted as if I did nothing to contribute to our problems. I was TOTALLY BLIND to my resentment and didn't see what I had done. I was hurt and told him he would have to file for a divorce. I didn't want a divorce, but said it. Fred had divorce papers drawn up but never gave them to me. He began a relationship with a woman after he moved out. She's divorced and had lived with another man for 14 yrs. After 1 yr, Fred could "not remember" why he had been angry and started talking about moving home. He would say I think I want to move home. I waited. 8 months later she split up with him after she found out he was seeing me. He moved home March 2011. We were happy but not going to church or relying on the Lord to heal our past mistakes, etc. In late July, he approached me saying he didn't know what he wanted, his past was catching up with him and he had demons he had to deal with. Again, I did not go to the Lord. August 2 weeks after we "celebrated" our 27th anniversary he unexpectedly left home and moved in with his demon. He said it was unplanned and that things got out of control and he didn't know what to do. THEN, I turned to the Lord. I have been trying with all my might to lean on the Lord and pray to the Holy Spirit for his truth and convincing powers to lead Fred to deliverance and to return him home. After one church service the Holy Spirit convicted me of all the sins that I had committed and how by my own hand I dismantled my marriage. The planks removed from my eyes, I confessed to God and then to Fred and asked for forgiveness for all the things I did to hurt and destroying my family and then blame him. I asked him to give us a chance. In mid-December he told me he wanted to come home but didn't know how. He said "it's within reach but I'm afraid". Soon after, the woman he's with called me via his cell phone at 1230AM . She called with false concerns about my son and then said she "wanted to talk to me". She said that she loves herself and has great self-respect. She said Fred told her he was not going to file for a divorce and she "doesn't care". She said Fred considers my residence as his home but she doesn't care because he is with her and she loves that he's there. "He treats me well, is a gentleman and I love that he's here". She said "he has a PhD in lying" and I don't care..."all men lie and cheat, and everyone is damaged, etc". She went on ad nauseam. I was in disbelief at what I was hearing. bottom-line is that she is narcissistic, immoral and has no conscious and is a self admitted adulteress. I was told she is a Jezebel spirit. Fred overheard the phone call and at first wanted to go to another planet where no one knows him. Yet, he remains with her in spite of this. I having been praying with a prayer partner for his deliverance, salvation and restoration. I want reconciliation for my marriage. I need prayer. God is a miracle worker.

Prayer House said...

To Jeanne woman of prayer and faith:

LORD, in the Bible you said a husband and wife should not be separated, or it would give place to the devil. It seems like this trial separation opened the door the devil wanted to tempt this couple. The devil questioned this husband about his status as a married man, as he tempted Eve from the beginning when he asked her, Yea has God said?

LORD, I remember many years ago we were asked to visit a couple going through marital problems. and as we attempted to counsel, I will never forget how eager the wife was for us to stop “talking,” and PRAY, because this is how we attack back--and in Your Son’s name, win, if we do not give in. You said, after doing all, to stand with our spiritual armor on, PRAYING. And we are praying for Jeanne here.

LORD, it appears this husband is a repeated offender when the sin of adultery is at his door. He is often indecisive, and in Your Word You said to let our yes be yes, and our no be no.

We pray for Jeanne’s husband heart, that Your Spirit will lead him to You and that You reason with him. You are able to create in him a clean heart, and renew a right spirit within him. You do not put new wine in old vessels. We pray for his salvation and that he brings forth fruit of repentance. Jeanne’s husband is waiting for You to deliver him of his “demon,” but You want for him to take the first step and turn to You and repent.

Jeanne has made a very important step of seeking You for her and her husband. She has humbled herself before You and acknowledged her sins, and “to one another,” for her part of hurting this marriage. She has sought Your kingdom and Your righteousness and we claim Your Word that all these things will be added onto her. You gave us Your only begotten Son, and with Him, You give us all things that pertains to life and godliness, and every perfect gift. LORD, You have very broad shoulders, and Jeanne can find rest in leaning on Jesus.

LORD, we are standing in agreement with Jeanne:

That Holy Spirit of truth and convincing powers will lead Fred to deliverance and lead him to return home. We also pray the fear of the Lord in this other woman that seems to like to fool around, taunting Jeanne and her husband.
LORD, we at Prayer House and with Your precious daughters that have been so faithful to pray and encourage in this ministry, stand with Jeanne in prayer before you that You also:

deliver, save, and bring restoration to Fred. We pray with her that You help them in reconciling and saving their marriage. We acknowledge and believe You God are a miracle worker. In Jesus name we together pray, amen.

Patience&Trust said...

My wife and I began to drift apart intimately after the birth of our first daughter. She struggled with postpartum depression, and continues to battle depression. I began to use pornography as an outlet, and became addicted to it. We have since had another daughter.

My wife and I separated in September. As a result of the break, I have acknowledged my addiction and am seeking help to overcome it. I have been sober since October, and have been working diligently to reconcile with my wife.

Just after Thanksgiving I learned that she has been having an affair since August, and that the separation was essentially a way to allow her to pursue the affair. We have since discussed reconciliation several times, and each time she insists the affair is over. I know it is not.

I love my wife and admit my wrongs. I have asked for her forgiveness, and I have repented to God. I truly believe that she still loves me. She tells me that she knows that this is not healthy, that it is not right, but doesn't know if she can or wants to end the affair.

The ice of addiction that surrounded my heart for so long has finally melted. I see her for the woman that she is. I have told her that I have so much love in my heart for her. I have told her that I have faith for her, us, and myself. I know I have forgiveness in my heart for her. I believe we can move past this if she would only end this thing.

We were both seeing a godly counselor who specializes in affairs and addictions. My wife has stopped seeing him because she did not like what he was telling her about her own addiction. I am praying earnestly that she returns...

I am praying for reconciliation and healing for my wife and myself. For a new start for us. I am praying that God touches her heart with conviction and draws her near to him. I pray that God breaks the physical and emotional attachments by which Satan has enslaved my wife thru this other man.

jeanne woman of prayer and faith said...

Thank you for your prayer. I agree and receive the Holy Spirit's convincing powers of truth and reconciliation for my marriage. I need to let you know that there is more issues that need prayer. Both my father and Fred's parents were divorced. My sister and brother got divorced. Also, both of Fred's parents were unfaithful. When Fred's mother was 3 months pregnant with Fred his father stayed out one night. In the morning Fred's paternal grandmother took his mother to another woman's place to retrieve. At age 6 his parents separated. A critical injury brought his mom back to his dad. At age 13 they announced they were getting divorced and Fred reacted with "okay, I'm going to football practice". His mother was involved with a wealthy married man at the time of the divorce. He wasn't divorcing his wife and told her to move on. She met someone else and moved on for the next 25 yrs. When Fred was older his mother rekindled a relationship with the man she originally wanted to marry when she met Fred's father but he was divorced with two small children. No matter how much he begged she refused to let him see her because she changed physically. He suffered a heart attack and ended up marrying a younger woman who nursed him to health. It was at that point that Fred's mother began to see him weekly at her home. Both Fred and his sister thought nothing of the affair. Fred's sister spoke openly about dating a married man herself when she was younger. They criticized me for having negative words of immorality about her behavior. After the affair ended for unknown reasons, Fred's mother by "some strange coincidence" called the wealthy married man and began another affair with him. He would give her and Fred's sister money and take them to lunch. Fred would make comments as to "why doesn't he give me money?". When the man died Fred questioned aloud why didn't this man leave at least $10,000 to his mother? "He was a multimillionaire what would $10,000 hurt for him to throw to my mother?" I was dismayed be his comment and said why would he hurt his wife like that after all these years? Fred actually thought that it would've been ok for his mother to receive money. He felt bad for his mother that she couldn't attend the funeral service. Now you can see a little more clearer into our problems. His mother and sister communicate with him daily and give their advice. They are double-minded because they love Fred, hate what he is doing but yet his sister met with him and the other woman last week for a beer. She and her mother excused it as "I just wanted to see my brother". please keep us in prayer. I feel attacked by the enemy today with negative thoughts. thank you.

Prayer House said...

For Patience&Trust

LORD, this prayer to You is more than about adultery and a troubled marriage, but we lift up to you Patience’s wife and earnestly pray You deliver her from the spirit of heaviness, which we know of here as depression. You look beyond our faults and see our need. Depression is a serious problem, and we plead Your help for this wife and woman , praying You loose her from this infirmity.

Patience acknowledges before You and confesses his sins of engaging in pornography. If he has already repented and forsaken this sin, You choose not to remember it, and neither do we want to bring it up, except to say that his sin is dumped into the sea and is as far as the east is from the west, and he no longer bears it. The devil is the accuser of Christians, but by the delegated authority You gave Your church, we rebuke him in Jesus name. We confess that Your people are no longer under condemnation, but we have been redeemed by the blood and sacrifice of Your Son at Calvary. Thank You so much, LORD, for Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior.

We pray you remove any traumatic memory from their children. Comfort them, Lord. We pray a hedge of protection for them. May Your Spirit lift up their faces to behold the good that You so graciously bestow. You bring refreshing rain, and sunshine upon the just and the unjust. While we are living on earth, no one is exempt from Your goodness and mercy. We do not want to forget that You sent Your Son to save sinners, and all have sinned. All need Your salvation. We intercede for Patience’s wife and pray Your goodness will lead her to repentance.

Patience is heeding Your call to make peace with his wife, and we pray she will do the same. We know these issues are very hard, humanly impossible, but with You all things are possible. We look to You to meet their need, LORD.

Patience’s wife is apparently evading You, and the devil is lying to her that living in the flesh is gratifying. Sin has it’s moment of pleasure, but the consequences are not worth it. Wake her up to righteousness, Lord.

Patience loves his wife, has admitted his wrongs, and has asked his wife’s forgiveness. He loves her so much that he has not lost faith that she also loves him. We confess with him that she does, and the devil is a liar.

It’s up to Patience’s wife to forsake adultery and reconcile with You through Your Son, and reconcile with her husband. We pray Your Spirit will help her to do this. Blessed are the peacemakers You send to them in Your holy Name with Your message of salvation and that You also want to save their marriage.

It is a new year Lord, may You do something new for them. Find a way for them to walk together with a bright future ahead. We pray You stir Your gift of 1 Corinthian’s 13 love in Patience’s wife heart for her husband. Rekindle that flame of romance between them.

We pray with Patience that You break the soul ties that the devil has
used to bind this woman and steal her from her husband. We pray Patience will keep close to You and that he keep the faith and not waver. We pray his wife will discover how blessed she is to have the love of her husband. We pray the fear of God will be in her which is the beginning of wisdom, and to abstain from evil.

Free Patience’s wife, LORD, from adultery and from depression. Send Your Word to her and save her. Reveal to her how much You love her. We are thanking You that You are there for Patience, and that You are a very present help in this time of trouble. We are trusting in You that they will be alright. We pray it in Jesus name, amen.

Prayer House said...

For Jeanne:

Dear God, this looks like a generational curse. Marriage is no longer sacred, and the devil loves to wave those big dollars to entice through lust and greed.
You did say THE LOVE of money is the root of ALL evil. That’s pretty deep, Lord, we just take You at Your Word. You also said, no one can serve two masters. It is either You or mammon. Lord, Jeanne and we have chosen You. Money is pretty cheap next to You. What can separate us from Your love, Lord? The devil may be in the details, Lord, but he still loses.

Romans 8:28-39
New International Version (NIV)

28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who[a] have been called according to his purpose.

29 For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters.

30 And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.


31 What, then, shall we say in response to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?

32 He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?

33 Who will bring any charge against those whom God has chosen? It is God who justifies.

34 Who then is the one who condemns? No one. Christ Jesus who died—more than that, who was raised to life—is at the right hand of God and is also interceding for us.

35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?

36 As it is written:
“For your sake we face death all day long;
we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered.”[b]

37 No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.

38 For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[c] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers,

39 neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Thank You, Lord, that in Your love we are secured. May Fred discover this soon. May Jeanne be encouraged in You. This situation is in Your hands, Lord. Praise God!

milady said...

Please pray for the restoration of my marriage and family. My husband has been working overseas and has not come home for years. Our relationship was fine eventhough we live miles apart due to his work, we communicate regularly via internet. Until he told me last year that he is in love with someone else and they had a son who is older than our sons. I am his real wife, we are both christians. I have repented all my contributions that lead to the demise of our marriage. Please pray that the Lord will lead his path home to us his real family instead of coming home to those counterfeit. I also thought that witchcraft is involved in this situation because it is very unlikely for my husband to just throw us away and throw his Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ out of his life in exchange for that other woman. He really changed a lot – for worse. As for me, I walk closely to the Lord together with my kids and thank God everyday for giving me His strength to get through this. Thank you!

Prayer House said...

LORD we come to You because You are the only one that has words of life to even raise the dead and to bring new life.

We start with hope in You. At Your invitation, we come boldly to Your throne of grace to seek help for milady. She needs your help to restore her marriage and family. This married couple that You decreed Your blessing and called “one flesh” were separated in distance and over time. The enemy came in this open door of opportunity for him. One thing led to another and much damaged was done to this marriage. And because all things are known to You and then sooner or later rise to the surface for others to see, this husband has another son of which milady discovered. Milady has also acknowledged and confessed her convictions of having contributed to the problems of this marriage, and between You and her, and according to Your Word, You are faithful to forgive her and cleanse her from all unrighteousness. We praise You for Your faithfulness and promises.

We are supporting milady as she prays, that before You, she is the real wife. She is also Your child. The promises of Abraham are also hers through our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Lord, You taught us much with the lessons of Abraham, Sarah, and her maid which she gave to Abraham to bear a son by, not waiting for the promised son, Isaac. Nevertheless, you helped Hagar, and kept her and her son Ishmael from perishing when they were sent out of Abraham, Sarah, and Isaac’s home. We pray you help this son and his mother and bless them. We ask milady to bless them before you also, and for her to bless those that the devil has used to curse her marriage. Bless them Lord at Your command. Now milady leaves these individuals with You holding no unforgiveness to come between You and her. We are interested now that You bless Milady with her husband and tie the knot again.

We are in agreement with milady’s request before You that You will lead her husband’s path home to his real wife. We pray he will first turn his heart toward home. We know it is a heart matter.

Our Father and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, if there is witchcraft involved here, we pray the blood of Your Son upon the souls of milady, her husband, and her children. We claim Your Word over them that whom You have blessed no one can curse. Send Your angels to drive out the bad angels carrying out any destructive assignments. Cancel those assignments and send these fallen angels to the pit in the name of Jesus Christ. Also, Lord, You said that rebellion is as the sin of witchcraft. May Your goodness lead this husband to repentance.

Milady is doing her part, Lord, getting closer to You, and interceding for her husband and family, and we stand with her before You, praying that You will undertake and overtake every evil thing the enemy has sown. You are milady’s strength and she knows Your Son Jesus as Lord and Savior and the power of His resurrection, being conformable unto his death that the life she now lives be in Christ. Lord we pray this prayer out loud, coming in agreement, that You save milady’s husband and this marriage. Jesus Christ is LORD of all to Your glory. Through it all, LORD, we praise and thank You. amen

kimmynew said...

Hello all. I thought I had posted an entry last night but something went wrong.. I heard from the Lord last night when my mind was being attacked with negative thoughts and I usually quote "it is written" followed by scripture( which works wonders also) but a quick simple" I trust you Jesus and know you are working on my marriage" came to mind. I of course lead all those negative thoughts captive into the obedience of Christ!.. I also wanted to encourage all standing in the gap for their marriage to go on rejoiceministries .org and read the Standers Affirmation.. the site is loaded of info and hope..Bless all of you that work this site and all those who share their stories. So inspiring..God Bless...

jeanne woman of prayer and faith said...

I believe that the Holy Spirit is moving in Fred. Amen! I saw him briefly when he took me to and from my Physical Therapy appt. He told me that this other woman is wanting him to file for a divorce and so far he has not acted on her demands. Praise the Lord!
I know that he really wants to come home but still has internal questions about being "married" or "single". He said she represents "being single". But, then he did say that it is easy being married to me.
He asked me "why do you think I'm still with her?", but didn't give an answer himself.
I spoke to him briefly about the phone call she made to me and said that I still don't know why she called me. I asked him if they had been talking about something that night and he said he couldn't remember. That"s when he said she wants him to get a divorce. I believe she called me for ulterior motives. I told him that she said he treats her like a gentleman and she doesn't care that he's married and that she regrets breaking up with her latest boyfriend to be with Fred. I believe Fred is blind to her treachery.
I reiterated my regrets to opening the door to temptation and that I realize now I brought shame and humiliation to him. I apologized for accusing him of his adulterous behavior when I was the one who caused his actions in the first place. He said it was 50-50 and he doesn't seem angry at me anymore. Thank you Holy Spirit.
Now I feel attacked by Satan. I was really taken back when he said she wants him to get divorced. It keeps running thru my head. I know that "greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world", but my thoughts of her telling him to get a divorce are haunting. I honestly do not dwell on what they must be doing together and have not thought about she says to him. For some reason now I keep thinking about it. Fred is 54 and just retired. She is quite aware of his financial means and "loves" that he is living with her. "I love him here, do you want me to ask him to move out?" "What do you want me to do Jeanne?" were her words when she called me last month.
Please keep us lifted up in prayer. Last time Fred was contemplating coming home Satan influenced the phone call and everything went awry.
I keep decreeing "what God has put together let no man put asunder!"

Prayer House said...



In my desperation I prayed, and the LORD listened; he saved me from all my troubles.
- Psalm 34:6

I love the LORD, because He hears My voice and my supplications. - Psalm 116:1

Praise and thank God. Go to our prayer of agreement with you and AUDIBLY decree ALL petitions.

"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven.” Matthew 18:19

Keep praying without ceasing, knowing that:

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, - Ephesians 3:20

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