Wednesday, July 1, 2009

Help I’m bleeding! Just found out my husband is cheating.


STOP THAT BLEEDING; DON’T SETTLE FOR JUST A TOURNIQUET. PRAY AND LIVE THROUGH THIS!

Psalm 119:28My soul melteth for heaviness: strengthen thou me according unto thy word.
Psalm 138:3In the day when I cried thou answeredst me, and strengthenedst me with strength in my soul.
Proverbs 8:14Counsel is mine, and sound wisdom: I am understanding; I have strength.

Fear not, only believe
Fear is your enemy. When you heard the bad news about your husband cheating, you truthfully acknowledge that there are giants in the land, BUT be of good cheer, there is hope, turn to God and pray.

SAY BOLDLY,
“I WILL NOT BE AFRAID WHAT THIS WOMAN CAN DO TO ME. I WILL BELIEVE GOD ONLY AND MY MARRIAGE WILL BE MADE WHOLE.”

Why say audibly? Because life and death are in the power of the tongue. You have what you say. Watch your mouth! Speak life to yourself and your spouse and your marriage.

Isaiah 35:4Say to them that are of a fearful heart, Be strong, fear not: behold, your God will come with vengeance, even God with a recompence; he will come and save you.

SAY THIS SCRIPTURE AUDIBLY
Psalm 27:1The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?

Luke 8:49-50
49While he yet spake, there cometh one from the ruler of the synagogue's house, saying to him, Thy daughter is dead; trouble not the Master.
50But when Jesus heard it, he answered him, saying, Fear not: believe only, and she shall be made whole.

SAY THIS SCRIPTURE AUDIBLY
Psalm 118:6The LORD is on my side; I will not fear: what can man do unto me?

SAY THIS SCRIPTURE AUDIBLY
Hebrews 13:6So that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me.

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SAY, “I AM STRONG”
Psalm 22:19But be not thou far from me, O LORD: O my strength, haste thee to help me.
Joel 3:10Beat your plowshares into swords and your pruninghooks into spears: let the weak say, I am strong.

SAY THIS SCRIPTURE AUDIBLY
Psalm 18:39For thou hast girded me with strength unto the battle: thou hast subdued under me those that rose up against me.

Psalm 27:14Wait on the LORD: be of good courage, and he shall strengthen thine heart: wait, I say, on the LORD.
Psalm 31:24Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD.
Psalm 46:1God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.

SAY THIS SCRIPTURE AUDIBLY
Psalm 59:17Unto thee, O my strength, will I sing: for God is my defence, and the God of my mercy.

SAY THIS SCRIPTURE AUDIBLY
Psalm 71:16I will go in the strength of the Lord GOD: I will make mention of thy righteousness, even of thine only.

THAT’S RIGHT, SING! SING PRAISES UNTO GOD AND WORSHIP HIM! HE WILL SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE.
Psalm 81:1Sing aloud unto God our strength: make a joyful noise unto the God of Jacob.
Psalm 84:7They go from strength to strength, every one of them in Zion appeareth before God.
Psalm 105:4Seek the LORD, and his strength: seek his face evermore.

YOU FOUND OUT YOUR HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON YOU, WHEN ASKED, "HOW ARE YOU? ,

SAY,
“IT IS WELL!”


What is so peculiar about this Scripture? This woman’s son had just died! But the account goes on. Afterwards, God raised him from the dead, just as God will raise your marriage from the dead!
This too shall pass.
2 Kings 4:26
26Run now, I pray thee, to meet her, and say unto her, Is it well with thee? is it well with thy husband? is it well with the child? And she answered, It is well:
Job 11:16
16Because thou shalt forget thy misery, and remember it as waters that pass away:

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FROM: Christian Singles’ Relationships blog

COMMENTS FROM THE BROKEN HEARTED (set to poetry)

WHAT HAPPENED
I was fooled and betrayed
and am bearing the burnt
of another’s selfishness and dishonesty
I'm the recipient
of someone without good morals
or a godly character nor integrity

MY CONDITION
I’ve been crushed
My heart is shattered into smithereens
My life is devastated and destroyed
I hurt in the deepest part of my being
I am lost and going crazy
I am struggling to survive and make it
from second to minute to hour to day
I’m seeking fast relief, even a tiny bit

FEELINGS
It feels like my world was crushed
under an emotional earthquake
I feel broken and that I’m dying
Unceasingly, I agonize and ache
The pain is so intense, it’s torture
And I am so depressed and miserable
I am also confused, inflamed, and bitter
I hurt so badly, it’s deplorable

SYMPTOMS
I feel numb and am in a state of confusion
I have hypertension and can hardly breathe
I am tired and weak and even fainted
It feels like a disease
I have a lack of appetite and feel dizzy
I have a whopping headache
My stomach is upset and feels queasy
From this horrid nightmare, I need to awake

LOSS
I have deposited my all into a relationship
that is bankrupt
Or was it a one-sided love and loyalty ?
Just a doomed romance gone corrupt

SELF ESTEEM
My self-esteem has been wrecked
I feel so idiotic all the time
I can only think about how I am a reject
I feel worthless
and that there’s no reason to be wanted
No more dreaming about a Prince(ss) Charming
or that Some Day My Prince(ss) Will Come
To love and be loved in return is what I'm yearning

WHAT I THOUGHT
I thought this would be my one and only
I thought that what we had going was special
Just like in my dreams and trusted completely

WHY I HURT
I am lonely as a single
The hurt comes from being abandoned
When, where, how, or why?
I don’t know what happened
I cannot forget, I have so many
regrets

DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO
I don’t know how to deal with this
How do I recover?
I don’t know how to get over it
and have no peace
Is there someone that can help me
get through all of this?
What is the right thing for me to do?
I need desperate help please!
It’s do or die, just color me blue

WHAT I WANT
I don’t want to throw in the towel on life
I want to release this person completely
and shake off the pain and sadness
I want to survive mentally to get better, not bitter
I want to have a loving relationship
that is healthy and committed to me
I don’t want any more of this hardship.

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Psalms 34:18: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
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STRUGGLING WITH MY FAITH
Nothing is going right
I am struggling to believe and instead of praying,
I cry all night

CHRISTIANS FIND ENCOURAGEMENT IN GOD
I want to do the Christian thing
I am desperate for God
My communion with Him is far better
than this unrequited love

This pain will not last forever
God removed my blinders and now I can see
I escaped a bad marriage and divorce
though what I’m going through is not easy

I will follow the Lover of my soul
He makes all things beautiful in due time
I will trust in Him to heal my broken heart
Sadly I got ahead of Him and not behind

He will lead me to the right person
He’ ll dry my tears and take away my sadness
I will build my life anew
from the compost of the rubble and the ashes

To all the broken hearted same as me
There is a good reason behind all things
that right now you cannot see

You too will find healing in God’s wings
You will pick up more strength and wisdom

Your true friends will not criticize but pray
They will magnify the good over the bad
You’ll get through it
even if God has to carry you today

- BY PRAYER HOUSE